Would you marry a sex worker

I am thinking of popping the question to a Spa Girl.
I know she likes me. She smiles every time she sees me and she always has sex with me. I felt like she could have loose morals because we had sex on the first date, but I am going to look past that.

So I’ve dated a couple spa and agency girls , couple of times could have been considered relationship status. I also want to point out I was never the one chasing them , they all suggested it and I just went for it. There was one who at the time I forced it hard (my ATF at the time , 5 foot nothing tan Korean fitness model who did bikini pageants) she turned me down and then I played the no contact game and she agreed to go on some dates and eventually were exclusive for a time.

There’s really not one way these things work, but from what I’ve discovered the best chances of success are as follows.

A) She has to leave the practice , if she doesn’t it’s a no go. Trust me. Unless you’re the type where you don’t mind sharing. Chances are you’re not the only guy she treats the same way. Be prepared for her regulars to call,text,email non stop until they realize she has found someone. Even after that some still don’t stop trying to see her. They always end up thinking she is just on vacation or out of state at a different Spa , or they did something wrong.

B) She needs to have hobbies or things she enjoys. So many times I’ve seen these woman on the outside and their whole life was encompassed by working that once they stop they don’t know what to do with themselves. Usually it works it self out but in the beginning prepare to think of ways to entertain her day in and day out until the question of her going back into the hobby seems so unlikely when she asks herself.

C) You can’t treat her like you did at the Spa, well you can but in my experience it doesn’t build a real healthy relationship. It just turns into her thinking all you want her for is sex and she will realize if that’s the case she can just leave you and go back to being a spa girl and get paid a lot more for it.

D) This is the toughest one , she knows that since you have the access of available pussy that’s not hers. She will always questions why it took you an extra 45 mins to get home , why you had to cancel on her, why you take a shower as soon as you get home. Why you haven’t been telling her you “want a blowjob” as much. Yes that happened. They all at one point or another thought I was running around on them and I never could convince them I had no interest in anyone but them.

And Finally you could choose not to listen to anything I just said because as it turns out none of those relationships I ever had ended up being successful. For some reason the two times it went past the 6 month mark they thought that was the time I should be proposing and marrying them.

Seems like you won’t have that problem since you’re wanting to marry her off the bat, Good luck and don’t be shocked if she says no. Go for it, literally the most enjoyable parts of my life.

I still keep in contact with most of them. I’m making my ATF come with me to Hawaii next winter from there we are going to Busan to meet her mom and siblings.

Don’t do it

You will be expecting to have sex at a drop of a hat any time .. and we’ll that may happen in the “honeymoon” phase of a new relationship but it will dwindle off and she won’t want to have as much sex as you want to because she feels safe and enjoying your company / relationship… you will get frustrated and keep on to the point where you will be denied for days / weeks / months until you step out on the relationship and start seeing spas amps providers she will find out be pissed and take half of what you have and she’s gone !

But I could totally be completely wrong and she’s a sex fiend giving you the morning wood sawzall the nooner the walk in the door blowjob and the evening romp and your a lucky man and it’s all good but hell that’s a few and far between woman

Your choice

Personally keep the pay pussy that way don’t make it a housewife

LMAO! What could go wrong?

I agree with Gymrat2017. Unfortunately, the experiences we have with a person with an arrangement (usually people are putting the best forward) put unrealistic expectations on a traditional relationship. It usually ends in disappointment, from what I've heard.

Why buy when you can rent.

Why buy when you can rent. Originally Posted by Holedriller

Agree, I just want sex. I pay them to leave. You will spend a lot more when buy and the drama that goes with it.

thanks for the suggestions!

I am thinking of popping the question to a Spa Girl.
I know she likes me. She smiles every time she sees me and she always has sex with me. I felt like she could have loose morals because we had sex on the first date, but I am going to look past that. Originally Posted by Vulva

Trump did...and look how that turned out

Trump did...and look how that turned out Originally Posted by earthlink

Melania was a sex worker?

Any relationship has a less than 50% survival rate.

It can be done but you need to have a lot of upfront communication about the big subjects. What is cheating? $$ Expectations? Her pictures of what your relationship looks like? Can you have play friends? Ect...

Dating a provider is more difficult as you each know they have enjoyed the fruits of the hobby. It takes more communication than a regular relationship.

It can be fun!

Op has only been here a week & is already gone!

LMAO! What could go wrong? Originally Posted by ben dover

I would go that route if I could find a spa lady that checked all the boxes. I would even invest in a quality massage table.

Can you imagine if that happened. Asking her how her week went would go something like this:

"Well, it was just another one of flat backing to save up for my Gucci purses, building my 200 pair of shoes collection and my boob/ass job. I did encounter three of the most ugliest guys I've ever seen, but I also had two guys who had such large dicks that I felt as if I had a corn cob stuck up my ass afterwards after the session was over. There was also a few guys who had such small dicks when hard that I had to do everything I could to keep from laughing. By the way, how is the complexion on my face since I have been doing this line of work and I finally took the plunge this week and swallowed multiple loads of guys this week? No sex for a bit sweetie because I am just burned out and need a break. How was your week, honey?".

Then you reply, "I figured you would have had enough dick for a little bit, so I had to call on some other call girls (your competition), one was a complete spinner who rocked my world and has a tighter pussy, but remember, I will still come home to you sweetheart. On the drama boards, I did have some run-ins with a couple of jaded hookers who obviously have nothing better to do since rarely they are actually in a session, try to explain to me what my expectations should be for my donation, aka, tell me how the cow eats the cabbage and how they are doing me a favor by taking my money. I am so glad you believe in customer service!".

People claim that Melania was but I’ve never seen any kind of proof of that. Someone said that she did webcam modeling

Yeah I know the stereotype is that we’re these dumb and vain money fiends. It’s a little sad to see how we’re perceived sometimes. I personally have friends who are saving to pay for a dying parent’s cancer treatments, I myself send money to my whole family. I’ve had my body done twice and I don’t think there’s a problem with cosmetic surgery. If you’re dating a provider it only makes sense that she presents her best foot forward, whether it’s working out or cosmetic surgery but that’s just my personal opinion that I’m entitled to I guess. I never make judgements like that though when I see a hobbyist for a service. I never assume that he’s vain and stupid. But again that’s just me. Also, I’ve heard hobbyist say that a girlfriend is more expensive than an escort a few times and it’s always so insane to hear because I’ve always thought that escorts were more expensive. It’s so crazy