Need Advise as a new client !

Hello All,

I'm new to eccie and very new to this business infact I have never seen a provider before.

Some of the provider ads are very fascinating and I want to begin a safe journey in this area on the receiving side (as a Client)

I am not married but stay with my GF and I do not get that what I need from her (you must have already guessed.)

So I want to have a discreet relationship and get all that I can from a classy provider.

I wanted to know what precautions I must take before seeing provider for the first time? I do not want to catch std/sti/herpes/aids after seeing the provider and I do not even want to regret seeing someone on the fear of catching an infection.

My mind says that I need to see a quality provider at least once yet return home safe and back to my GF so that I do not transmit anything back to her for free (I do not want to risk her health.)

I have a good job and do not want to think about the risks of having sex after seeing a provider.

I would really appreciate any advise and if you could tell me some tips on how to avoid regretting after you have seen a provider for the first time and make sure that your experience was 100% safe and healthy.

Thanks,

Green

A condom would help. If it causes that much stress and worry, maybe you should consider not going through with it. Nothing is 100% except not having sex.

Find a more accommodating GF. If I'd taken that advice years ago I might not still be hobbying.

Find a more accommodating GF. If I'd taken that advice years ago I might not still be hobbying. Originally Posted by TinMan

Yup.

better yet, dump the GF! Trust me, you will spend less.

better yet, dump the GF! Trust me, you will spend less. Originally Posted by needingmilking

Yep.. If you dont ditch the bitch now, you will wake up one day 15 years from now and realize that you are married to a worthless cunt (thats probably 100lbs heavier than when you stuck that wedding cake in her face), who is going to take the kids, most of your possessions and 30-40% of your paycheck until the kids are grown if you get caught fooling around, or decide to even confront her about how you need sex more than once a month. Trust me WHATEVER frequency you get it from the GF now will only decrease exponentially once you are married.

I SHOULD have listened to my married friends and tossed my SO to the curb when we were dating. She really wasnt horny in her 20's. Now a days, Im lucky to get some pussy once every 6 weeks, and maybe twice a year she will stop watching TV while i fuck her. Seriously..

213674, your situation reminds me of the old joke: "Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it."

If I was as miserable as you apparently are, I'd probably decide it's worth it.

Hope the OP is appreciating this advice, although I bet he didn't think it would take off in this direction....

Dump her.

Thanks All for your replies !

Dumping her is the first thing in my mind but sometimes I do feel that unless and until I find someone better, I cant really dump her as I had tried this 3 years back and I had to suffer the consequences.

I do feel that I'm kinda trapped as I need the warmth of a female or gf who understands and takes care of me in tough times.

But anyways, has anyone seen Khloe Cruise recently....will she be a good companion to start?

I have seen good reviews about her on eccie and looks like she is very experienced in this business and may give a good time for a rookie like me.

Find a more accommodating GF. If I'd taken that advice years ago I might not still be hobbying.

Tinman, I disagree. Most of us want the strange!

Tinman, I disagree. Most of us want the strange! Originally Posted by Red Tex

Well, I did say "might". The call of the strange is indeed powerful.

Yep.. If you dont ditch the bitch now, you will wake up one day 15 years from now and realize that you are married to a worthless cunt (thats probably 100lbs heavier than when you stuck that wedding cake in her face), who is going to take the kids, most of your possessions and 30-40% of your paycheck until the kids are grown if you get caught fooling around, or decide to even confront her about how you need sex more than once a month. Trust me WHATEVER frequency you get it from the GF now will only decrease exponentially once you are married.

I SHOULD have listened to my married friends and tossed my SO to the curb when we were dating. She really wasnt horny in her 20's. Now a days, Im lucky to get some pussy once every 6 weeks, and maybe twice a year she will stop watching TV while i fuck her. Seriously.. Originally Posted by 213674

Although you might be giving some wise advice, you sound REALLY bitter. If you carry that attitude home with you at night, I'm sure her and others would notice which would decrease the amount of pussy that you get ... exponentially.

To the OP: If you find someone nice with a good reputation, the chances of you catching something is almost nil. But like others have mentioned, "no guts, no glory". Much of the appeal of this world is the actual nervousness and butterflies that you get when you're going through the process of choosing, etc. It's part of the thrill.

And the escorts often feel this way as well. I do. I can get REALLY nervous before meeting a new friend/client.

And honestly, a lot of these men who really enjoy playing around might not be playing around (or messing around as much) if they had someone home that was catering to their baser needs. (And thank God for that from my viewpoint)

I rather like the advice that others have given you thus far, even the sour puss above. They have a point. It would be a shame to settle.

There are women out there, and I know a few, who would wear you out sexually before you would tire them. Trust me. You might wish to try to find someone who has a drive that matches your own.

Good luck,
Elisabeth

Although you might be giving some wise advice, you sound REALLY bitter. If you carry that attitude home with you at night, I'm sure her and others would notice which would decrease the amount of pussy that you get ... exponentially. Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

Well, positive thinking will take you just so far. At the end, there is a brick wall that you will hit if the other person is not interested in meeting you mid-way.

While it appears bitter to you, it resonates with me, and I bet, a few other people in the board. There is nothing worse that being forced into a situation with a party that it is just not interested in sex.

That said, to the OP, 3 years is nothing. Maybe you are young, but there was an article in the NYTimes (cannot find it just now) that explained how in today's world, sex is cheap. GF give it up right away, most of the time, and 1 night stands abound.

So let her go, tell her why (you never know, she might be into it) and explain you need more sex in your life.

I have a friend that told his wife "I need one in the morning, and one at night". She divorced him, but now he has one in the morning, one at noon, one at night.... he is quite a fucker!

Thanks All for your replies !
Dumping her is the first thing in my mind but sometimes I do feel that unless and until I find someone better, I cant really dump her as I had tried this 3 years back and I had to suffer the consequences.
I do feel that I'm kinda trapped as I need the warmth of a female or gf who understands and takes care of me in tough times.
But anyways, has anyone seen Khloe Cruise recently....will she be a good companion to start?
I have seen good reviews about her on eccie and looks like she is very experienced in this business and may give a good time for a rookie like me. Originally Posted by ilovegreen

OK, at least some of the advice here has had a sound basis, including my friend Elizabeth.

All that said, recognize that you are paying for a gal to take care of you for an alloted timeframe. She may (hopefully if you choose well she will) take fine care of you and leave you feeling like a new man. But she ain't your girlfriend.

You use the word "WARMTH" in your post. Warmth can mean just the feel of a sweet little thing cuddled up next to you or in some eyes it really means a 4-letter word, LOVE. Don't expect love here, expect sex, perhaps a lady who can provide an illusion of passion, but when you leave her lair, you will return to your former life. At that point, you may decide that your GF is not so bad, or you may be ready to discard her for more romps in bed with different ladies you find here and there. But don't expect to find that special someone to love and honor for all the rest of your days here. Prossibly a bedroom bar will be set so high that no real girl can meet your expectations day in and day out, leaving you fulfilled for an hour, but then very disappointed and disenchanted with the real world the rest of the time.

My advice to new guys who have never tasted the fruit of the hobby is to run, run hard, run fast away from here. For most of us, one bite of the apple and we can never look back to the simpler life. (And it gets very complicated sometimes, as Reese Foster's website so aptly describes her.

http://thecomplicatedbeauty.escort-site.com/ )

Think twice before you leap, and be prepared to totally alter your life if you jump into our strange world.

Thanks All for your replies !

Dumping her is the first thing in my mind but sometimes I do feel that unless and until I find someone better, I cant really dump her as I had tried this 3 years back and I had to suffer the consequences.

I do feel that I'm kinda trapped as I need the warmth of a female or gf who understands and takes care of me in tough times.

But anyways, has anyone seen Khloe Cruise recently....will she be a good companion to start?

I have seen good reviews about her on eccie and looks like she is very experienced in this business and may give a good time for a rookie like me. Originally Posted by ilovegreen

Dude, you've got some serious issues. You should skip escorts and spend your money on a decent psychotherapist.