OK I feel like I am missing out on something here. I see all these people with all these fetishes and I feel like I am missing out. I want a fetish, I just don't know what it would be.
I am looking for suggestions for a fetish that would turn my sex life into overdrive. I am not into pain so all the bdsm stuff doesn't really appear to me. Is the only really kinky fetish out there pain related? There must be something out there that isn't centered around pain.
- malonely
- 01-22-2013, 05:13 AM
- Tiger
- 01-22-2013, 05:32 AM
Why don't you become a furry?
- Gotyour6
- 01-22-2013, 07:43 AM
Abasiophilia
People with impaired mobility[3]
Acrotomophilia
People with amputations[4][5]
Agalmatophilia
Statues, mannequins and immobility[6]
Algolagnia
Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7]
Andromimetophilia
Trans men[3][8]
Anililagnia
Attraction by young men to older women[9]
Apotemnophilia
Having an amputation[4][10]
Asphyxiophilia
Asphyxiation or strangulation[4]
Attraction to disability
People with one or more physical disabilities.[11]
Autagonistophilia
Being on stage or on camera[12][13]
Autassassinophilia
Being in life-threatening situations[4]
Autoandrophilia
A cis-woman imagining herself as a male[14][15]
Autoerotic asphyxiation
Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[13]
Autogynephilia
A cis-man imagining himself as a female[16]
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edited by staff
Autoplushophilia
The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
Autovampirism
The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[18]
Autozoophilia
The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
Biastophilia
Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy[4]
Chremastistophilia
Being robbed or held up[12]
Chronophilia
Partners of a widely differing chronological age[12]
Coprophilia
Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[1][19]
Dacryphilia
Tears or crying[20]
Diaper fetishism
Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[21]
Dendrophilia
Trees[4]
Emetophilia
Vomit[3]
Erotic asphyxiation
Asphyxia of oneself or others[22]
Exhibitionism
Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[1]
Feederism
Erotic eating, feeding, and weight gain.[23]
Foot fetishism
Attraction to feet[24]
Formicophilia
Being crawled on by insects[12][25]
Forniphilia
Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
Frotteurism
Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]
Gerontophilia
Elderly people[27]
Gynandromorphophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]
Gynemimetophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]
Heterophilia
Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[30][31][32]
Homeovestism
Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[33][34]
Hybristophilia
Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[12][35]
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Kleptophilia
Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]
Klismaphilia
Enemas, either giving or having[3]
Lactophilia
Breast milk[37]
Liquidophilia
Immersing genitals in liquids[37]
Macrophilia
Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men[37]
Masochism
Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[1]
Mechanophilia
Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[38][39][40]
Menophilia
Menstruation[37]
Morphophilia
Particular body shapes or sizes[13]
Mucophilia
Mucus[37]
Mysophilia
Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3]
Narratophilia
Obscene words[3]
Nasophilia
Noses[37]
Navel fetishism
Sexual attraction to navels - either their own or someone else's.[41]
Necrophilia
Corpses[1][3][42]
Objectophilia
pronounced emotional desire towards specific inanimate objects[1]
Olfactophilia
Smells[3][12]
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Partialism
Specific, non-genital body parts[1][3]
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Peodeiktophilia
Exposing one's penis[4]
Pedovestism
Dressing like a child[45]
Pictophilia
Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][12]
Piquerism
Sexual gratification through penetration of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects.[46]
Plushophilia
Sexual attraction to stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[47]
Pygophilia
Buttocks[48]
Pyrophilia
Fire[49]
Raptophilia
Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[12]
Sadism
Inflicting pain on others[1]
Salirophilia
Soiling or dirtying others[3]
Sexual fetishism
Nonliving objects[1]
Somnophilia
Sleeping or unconscious people[3][12]
Sthenolagnia
Muscles and displays of strength[37]
Stigmatophilia
Body piercings and tattoos[4][37]
Symphorophilia
Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4]
Telephone scatologia
Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[1][12]
Teratophilia
Deformed or monstrous people[51]
Toucherism
Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand.[52]
Transvestic fetishism
Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[1]
Transvestophilia
A transvestite sexual partner[12]
Trichophilia
Hair[37]
Troilism
Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge; also known as triolism[13][53]
Urolagnia
Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[1][3][12][13]
Vampirism
Attraction to or involving blood[54][55]
Vorarephilia
The idea of eating or being eaten by others; sometimes swallowed whole, in one piece[56]
Voyeurism
Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia.[1][13]
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People with impaired mobility[3]
Acrotomophilia
People with amputations[4][5]
Agalmatophilia
Statues, mannequins and immobility[6]
Algolagnia
Pain, particularly involving an erogenous zone; differs from masochism as there is a biologically different interpretation of the sensation rather than a subjective interpretation[7]
Andromimetophilia
Trans men[3][8]
Anililagnia
Attraction by young men to older women[9]
Apotemnophilia
Having an amputation[4][10]
Asphyxiophilia
Asphyxiation or strangulation[4]
Attraction to disability
People with one or more physical disabilities.[11]
Autagonistophilia
Being on stage or on camera[12][13]
Autassassinophilia
Being in life-threatening situations[4]
Autoandrophilia
A cis-woman imagining herself as a male[14][15]
Autoerotic asphyxiation
Self-induced asphyxiation, sometimes to the point of near unconsciousness[13]
Autogynephilia
A cis-man imagining himself as a female[16]
edited by staff
edited by staff
Autoplushophilia
The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
Autovampirism
The image of one's self in the form of a vampire.[18]
Autozoophilia
The image of one's self in the form of a plush or anthropomorphized animal.[17]
Biastophilia
Rape of an unconsenting person; see also consensual rape fantasy[4]
Chremastistophilia
Being robbed or held up[12]
Chronophilia
Partners of a widely differing chronological age[12]
Coprophilia
Feces; also known as scat, scatophilia or fecophilia[1][19]
Dacryphilia
Tears or crying[20]
Diaper fetishism
Diapers; considerable overlap with paraphilic infantilism[21]
Dendrophilia
Trees[4]
Emetophilia
Vomit[3]
Erotic asphyxiation
Asphyxia of oneself or others[22]
Exhibitionism
Exposing one's genitals to unsuspecting and nonconsenting others[1]
Feederism
Erotic eating, feeding, and weight gain.[23]
Foot fetishism
Attraction to feet[24]
Formicophilia
Being crawled on by insects[12][25]
Forniphilia
Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
Frotteurism
Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]
Gerontophilia
Elderly people[27]
Gynandromorphophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]
Gynemimetophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]
Heterophilia
Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[30][31][32]
Homeovestism
Wearing clothing emblematic of one's own sex[33][34]
Hybristophilia
Criminals, particularly for cruel or outrageous crimes[12][35]
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Kleptophilia
Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]
Klismaphilia
Enemas, either giving or having[3]
Lactophilia
Breast milk[37]
Liquidophilia
Immersing genitals in liquids[37]
Macrophilia
Giants, primarily domination by giant women or men[37]
Masochism
Suffering; being beaten, bound or otherwise humiliated[1]
Mechanophilia
Cars or other machines; also "mechaphilia."[38][39][40]
Menophilia
Menstruation[37]
Morphophilia
Particular body shapes or sizes[13]
Mucophilia
Mucus[37]
Mysophilia
Dirtiness, soiled or decaying things[3]
Narratophilia
Obscene words[3]
Nasophilia
Noses[37]
Navel fetishism
Sexual attraction to navels - either their own or someone else's.[41]
Necrophilia
Corpses[1][3][42]
Objectophilia
pronounced emotional desire towards specific inanimate objects[1]
Olfactophilia
Smells[3][12]
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Partialism
Specific, non-genital body parts[1][3]
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Peodeiktophilia
Exposing one's penis[4]
Pedovestism
Dressing like a child[45]
Pictophilia
Pornography or erotic art, particularly pictures[3][12]
Piquerism
Sexual gratification through penetration of another person, most commonly by stabbing or cutting the body with sharp objects.[46]
Plushophilia
Sexual attraction to stuffed toy animals (Plushies).[47]
Pygophilia
Buttocks[48]
Pyrophilia
Fire[49]
Raptophilia
Committing rape, possibly consensual rape fantasy[12]
Sadism
Inflicting pain on others[1]
Salirophilia
Soiling or dirtying others[3]
Sexual fetishism
Nonliving objects[1]
Somnophilia
Sleeping or unconscious people[3][12]
Sthenolagnia
Muscles and displays of strength[37]
Stigmatophilia
Body piercings and tattoos[4][37]
Symphorophilia
Witnessing or staging disasters such as car accidents[4]
Telephone scatologia
Obscene phone calls, particularly to strangers; also known as telephonicophilia[1][12]
Teratophilia
Deformed or monstrous people[51]
Toucherism
Touching an unsuspecting, non-consenting person with the hand.[52]
Transvestic fetishism
Wearing clothes associated with the opposite sex; also known as transvestism[1]
Transvestophilia
A transvestite sexual partner[12]
Trichophilia
Hair[37]
Troilism
Cuckoldism, watching one's partner have sex with someone else, possibly without the third party's knowledge; also known as triolism[13][53]
Urolagnia
Urination, particularly in public, on others, and/or being urinated on. Also referred to as "water sports"[1][3][12][13]
Vampirism
Attraction to or involving blood[54][55]
Vorarephilia
The idea of eating or being eaten by others; sometimes swallowed whole, in one piece[56]
Voyeurism
Watching others while naked or having sex, generally without their knowledge; also known as scopophilia or scoptophilia.[1][13]
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- DallasRain
- 01-22-2013, 07:56 AM
wow==that is one helluva list! lol
how bout candle wax play???
how bout candle wax play???
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 08:01 AM
I'd like to invite you to Another Realm to ask this very same question.
Sometimes, a person will feel something is "missing" and it might not involve fetish or alternative play. Perhaps it's a feeling that you're missing?
So often, as others will share, being "alternative" could be as simple as rubbing different types of materials (and fur!) over your body and your private areas.
Just a soft and sensual sensation play. Or you might like to be teased until your back arches and you cannot stand it.
There are simple ideas to try first (a teasing and elongated blowjob with some anal play?) that I don't consider a fetish at all but some might!
When you're laying in bed at night and your thoughts are slowing down and they turn to sensuality, what do you think about?
What I think about is pretty extreme and I wouldn't wish to actually do what I'm thinking of. However, sometimes I imagine a few prettier situations as well.
Find out what YOU might find intriguing and then contact someone who seems as if they could fulfill that desire.
And then come back and tell us EVERYTHING!
Sometimes, a person will feel something is "missing" and it might not involve fetish or alternative play. Perhaps it's a feeling that you're missing?
So often, as others will share, being "alternative" could be as simple as rubbing different types of materials (and fur!) over your body and your private areas.
Just a soft and sensual sensation play. Or you might like to be teased until your back arches and you cannot stand it.
There are simple ideas to try first (a teasing and elongated blowjob with some anal play?) that I don't consider a fetish at all but some might!
When you're laying in bed at night and your thoughts are slowing down and they turn to sensuality, what do you think about?
What I think about is pretty extreme and I wouldn't wish to actually do what I'm thinking of. However, sometimes I imagine a few prettier situations as well.
Find out what YOU might find intriguing and then contact someone who seems as if they could fulfill that desire.
And then come back and tell us EVERYTHING!
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 08:10 AM
.....I've reported this post to the mods in this area because so many of these activities are not allowed to be discussed (or even mentioned) or Eccie but also, this list in no way actually representative of the average (whatever that means) kinks of most.
Forniphilia
Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
Frotteurism
Rubbing against a non-consenting person[1]
Gerontophilia
Elderly people[27]
Gynandromorphophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][28]
Gynemimetophilia
Transsexual or transgender women [3][29]
Heterophilia
Attraction to, fetishization, or sexualized idealization of heterosexuality and/or people who are "straight-acting," especially by non-heterosexual people.[30][31][32]
...
NOOOOOOPROHIBITED CONTENT
Kleptophilia
Stealing; also known as kleptolagnia[3]
Klismaphilia
Enemas, either giving or having[3]
Lactophilia
Breast milk[37]
Liquidophilia
Immersing genitals in liquids[37]
... Originally Posted by Gotyour6
Yes. I know that I'm over generalizing but most people in this lifestyle are very concerned about being safe, sane and consensual. Many of the acts above, including the mention of murder, isn't anything like that AND isn't representative of the lifestyle overall.
Also, the new term is RACK, instead of SSC. RACK means: Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
- Gotyour6
- 01-22-2013, 09:34 AM
You repost the ones that arent allowed lol
How fucking rich.
Its a list from Wiki
How fucking rich.
Its a list from Wiki
- Hardpiped03
- 01-22-2013, 09:55 AM
The Texans seem to be policing our board quite often for us here in Upstate NY. Whats the deal?
- Hardpiped03
- 01-22-2013, 09:57 AM
Forniphilia
Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
LMAO.....my personal favorite.
Turning a human being into a piece of furniture[26]
LMAO.....my personal favorite.
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 10:13 AM
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 10:16 AM
You repost the ones that arent allowed lolGlad I could make you smile.
How fucking rich.
Its a list from Wiki Originally Posted by Gotyour6
(Oh, and I read your original response before you changed it. You're right. I'm just a "hooker" but I sure do enjoy dealing and responding to topics such as the original poster started! Imagine that!)
Always,
Elisabeth
- Gotyour6
- 01-22-2013, 01:19 PM
Yep, you are just a hooker.
Remember that and we will all be fine.
I edited it to be kind. Thanks for bringing it up though
Go back to Dallas forums where you fit right in.
Remember that and we will all be fine.
I edited it to be kind. Thanks for bringing it up though
Go back to Dallas forums where you fit right in.
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 01:28 PM
"To be kind"? Really.
You might need to be reminded, my new unpleasant friend, that I don't have to do shit.
Put that with whatever filthy attitude that you possess and smoke it.
You might need to be reminded, my new unpleasant friend, that I don't have to do shit.
Put that with whatever filthy attitude that you possess and smoke it.
- Hardpiped03
- 01-22-2013, 01:32 PM
EW....you should visit Upstate NY sometime for real.....we don't have too many girls in this area that are 5'7" and only weigh 70lbs.
- ElisabethWhispers
- 01-22-2013, 01:36 PM
Oh, I'm a really big woman. I make no bones about it. Very few adults weigh 70 pounds. I thought that you would have been more clever.
SERIOUSLY, however, I didn't realize (until now) that your area has had an invasion of sorts from other posters from other areas.
I didn't mean to step on delicate toes. I sincerely WAS interested in promoting what ever type of fantasy/tease/kink that the OP was interested in.
I'll say goodbye to this topic (and this area). At least for now.
Best,
Elisabeth
SERIOUSLY, however, I didn't realize (until now) that your area has had an invasion of sorts from other posters from other areas.
I didn't mean to step on delicate toes. I sincerely WAS interested in promoting what ever type of fantasy/tease/kink that the OP was interested in.
I'll say goodbye to this topic (and this area). At least for now.
Best,
Elisabeth