How/what would a provider charge for the following?

Cpalmson's Avatar
After looking at the "Overnight, Dinner Date or 2 Hours BCD Date" thread, it got me wondering as to how a provider would handle the following scenario.

Let's say I, as a client, have an extra ticket to an event (sports game, concert, ballet, whatever). I plan on attending the event. I could sell the extra ticket or take a friend, but I might also want to offer a provider the ticket to attend the even with me. I've paid for the ticket, so there is no cost for my companion. I'd pay for any other incidentals-- food, drink, etc. The event would be part of the date which would be about 4 hours or so in length with BCD activity occurring back at my hotel after the event. I'm figuring about 1 to 2 hours of BCD fun. The total date would be about 6 hours or so. I'm interested to know how the girls would react.

For argument's sake, let's say you as the provider are actually interested in the event and wouldn't pass up a free ticket. Would you charge for the time spent at the event under your normal rates? Would you simply charge for the BCD time? Would you offer "discounted" time for the event while charging the normal BCD rates for the after event activities. Finally, how would you charge if you were indifferent to the event in question-- i.e. take it or leave it?
sixxbach's Avatar
I know enough providers that if there was a concert, I wouldn't have to pay for their time. I would pay for the dinners and drinks. I would most likely though, also book a half hour session. I would guess that it would cost me 2 bills for everything. I would estimate that I would spend about 5-6 hours with her.That is not bad.

This type of situation is def YMMV.....

sixx
Very interesting thread Cpal. It would almost be the same as taking a provider on a nice vacation say Hawaii for a weekeend. Would she still charge you for her rates or a discounted on being that she would be on all expense paid vacation. As a hobbist, we fronting the cost we would think that a discount would be in order but I think most provider see it a little different.
For something like that where we would do that and probably have a bite to eat I would just ask for my 3 hr rate for a donation. Thats just because I figure after we hang out at whatever event it is, and then get something to eat and all that, well both of us will want to really take some time in private together and lets just say I am a big hygiene person, so in our private time we both would need showers and time just take our time to recover from the public activities.

But thats just me, and going on a vacation is a bit different because that is longer term and even though all expenses paid it will keep us girls away from any other business during those days. So we have to keep that in mind. But just a few hours out of the day, no problem.

And the other thing, if the client is a regular client of mine then it could be even less because we have a regular thing going, and sometimes I would just go have dinner, lunch (without any private time) for no donation at all. But like I said, all girls are different.
It would depend on if I knew the "client" already or not. And more than likely to spend that kind of time with someone I would know them. So they would already know this answer.
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Maybe this will help...

http://www.eccie.net/providers.php

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Both threads are interesting. Isn't the fee for our time? I know we aren't talking illegal activities here riiiight? So tiddly winks or whatever should be the same right? Your time, you're paying, you decide how to spend it. I think most providers offer some kind of public, public/private, private pricing. Every date should be as unique as the persons involved.

Are you wanting a GirlFriend or a GFE? Some people want the experience - the whole deal. Pay a fee and done. But when you get bogged down in "rates and services" well, I wonder where that could go?

It's 1.99 a minute for conversation. 2.99 with eye contact. Smiles are 2.50 each and laughter is 5.00 per 30 seconds. Sexy smiles and flirty looks are of course extra. It's 100 an hour for me not to answer my phone while with you because I'm not making money since I'm not getting paid while we eat. 50 for girl next door clothing up to 500 for a designer look. Bad attitudes uninterest just "there" is 100, good attitude is 200, acting interested is 150. Exclusive interest + no phone/attending to business + good attitude/acting interested in you would be 400 (bundle pricing). Touching (holding hands, hand at my back, leaning into another while seated) is 50 an hour. 10 a kiss, 15 lfk, 20 per dfk. Hugs are 5. If you just want to pay for my meal, fine. I get to choose where, and with whom, I sit. Might not be with you. And of course if someone calls for a date (wants to pay me for my time); I'm gone. Please bring my doggy bag with you when you show for your paid date later. Me showing up for a date with a to go container is just tacky.

Is that really what you want to negotiate? Or just pay the flat hourly rate or the flat package rate. If a BCD hour is 2, non BCD's usually run at half so figure 100. Extended sessions are generally already discounted: 1 BCD hour is 200, 2 hours 300 and so on. I have already discounted longer sessions - both BCD and non and mixtures of both. An overnight is already discounted. If you don't want to pay for companionship, eating, sleeping, showers, conversation, laughter etc - you don't want the person but rather the act - book half hours or pay the full BCD rate for each hour.

That means the next time you book a provider for more than an hour you must insist on paying her full hourly rate for every hour "Now babee, I want a 12 hour overnight that I see you advertise for 2k. I insist on paying you 3600 - your 300 hourly rate times 12."

Does that seem fair enough to everybody?

Off the clock time - dinner, movies etc is earned. That's free time. My free time. Time I could spend with friends or family or work or (real) hobby or time I could be spending making money. Yes, your not paying to watch me eat could be costing me hundreds. Time is money. It's gonna cost somebody. If a provider agrees to off the clock lunch or dinner or whatever, then Thank Her. But insist on 4 hours for a 2 hour fee? No. Unless she's running a BOGO sale or something.
Lol @ Babee, shit, I ran outta breathe reading that
Lol @ Babee, shit, I ran outta breathe reading that Originally Posted by LAVixian
It was that or write ads....(that just cost you .50 missy!)
Sweet N Little's Avatar
It was that or write ads....(that just cost you .50 missy!) Originally Posted by babee
Now that's what I call breaking it down, Good job Babee!!
Haha, well, next time I see ya, just remind me about the .50 cents!
Babee, how much for a foot rub? My dawgs are killing me.
  • LynnT
  • 07-12-2011, 08:01 AM
I would depend on the client, etc.

There are some clients I would do that with. I would just charge for a 2 or 3 hour.

I also give deals on vacations as long as I can do some day job biz and hell its vacation! I wouldn't do "per day" more like a quote for the week. One hand washes the other IMO. Not everything is about money. Im a lady thats for the barter system.

Hell yes you took me to Hawaii Id give you a discount!
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YMMV on both sides of the fence for everyone on this subject.......
  • LynnT
  • 07-12-2011, 08:33 AM
YMMV on both sides of the fence for everyone on this subject....... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
For sure, too many variables for dates like these.