Ladies, how much does size matter in your field of work (not personal life)?

Just recently, I met a provider who said she usually doesn't see black guys...I asked why? I initially assumed it was because of prior bad experiences which I personally, didn't think was fair because I firmly believe you can't really generalize a race or a group of ppl based on a sample sized serving. Imo this usually just means you're a bad judge of character. Anyway, she assured me that this wasn't the issue...she said the issue for her was that black guys are usually "too big".

Now obviously, this is subjective (and probably not true about all black guys) but I was wondering - do you ladies prefer a well hung man or would you rather a smaller guy in your field of work? Again, not personal life. I'm sure working as much as some of you ladies do too many "big toys" could pay a toll on your longevity in this field.

Thoughts...

The ladies love them some 1.3" of dangling death.

Just recently, I met a provider who said she usually doesn't see black guys...I asked why?

...she said the issue for her was that black guys are usually "too big"... Originally Posted by loverlove17

Yeah this will probably bring some heat but I think that's a part of the game or allure ll17. Wait let me say, size does matter, bigger is better, to big is bad. From what I can tell anyway, I ask many questions in the hobby and real life. I can also read people well enough to find the truth even though it may never leave their lips.

So I've asked that a lot because I'm a nosey asshole. Its never the size, it comes down to how they are treated during the session and trying to haggle. Now they could just be saying that, who knows? I have specifically asked many times if its because black guys are to big, never once got that's why. The number 1 reason I get is "They act a fool"

They also claim to love my 4 inches of fury, so who knows? And there are plenty of size queens in this hobby.

The number 1 reason I get is "They act a fool"
Originally Posted by radio109

^Bingo!

....Oh and big dicks are overrated. Personally I like smaller

Agrees with radio. Have asked that same questions to both black and white providers and none ever said it was about size. It was always the same answer lack of manners and bad treatment.

Actually, as a guy in a locker room I never found that blacks are bigger to be nothing more than an urban legend. A very few of them hung like horses, but overall not true.

A good friend and former co-worker has the problem of being extremely hung. We were out chasing tail one evening while in SoCal in the early 90's. After a few drinks he began to complain that it was a curse being so well hung (only heresay to me, I've never seen it) that very few women would fuck him and that all he ever got was BJ's,

His first attempt to fuck, in high school, had the girl running out of the room naked and screaming after seeing his manhood.

Oh,he happens to be black, or as he says coffee colored because he grinds so fine. Great friendly personality and extremely competent.

When it comes to business I can't fault a lady for being selective based on size if she needed to be. Ideally ladies need to be adept abreast and comfortable going into every appointment. If certain appointments lend themselves to being more taxing and with limits it might limit her daily or weekly earning potential to accommodate. Less wear and tear on her body and no need for the advent of vaginal rejuvenation surgery later lol. Ever have a girlfriend say in an argument ever since I've dated you and weve been together my pussy hasnt looked the same......youve stretched it out.......lol

Same as if I was booked for a one hour appointment for a particular day........and a provider had an offer for a weekend from a client after me. Yes I'd be disappointed if a lady had to cancel on me........but I'd appreciate her letting me know or asking if she could reschedule for a more profitable business opportunity. I'd respect her business........but even knowing the truth I wouldn't call her back for choosing up. You won't see too many ladies saying openly on board that they love clients with big cocks better........usually because the little prick guys get intimidated......or feel as if her being a "size queen" he won't get as a good a feeling down there.....and she may not be as pleased seeing him if he's more into gfe /bfe interaction.

Then there are those other type providers.........the ones where money isn't so much of a lure that they forget tact and being themselves.

If a lady says business wise size its an issue I could respect that. But on the same token........spare me the thinly veiled fake response of they prefer fat guys over guys fit (and/or) belly button sized penises....rather than large cocks in their private life. They say it's nothing personal......but sex is very personal anyway you slice it. I wouldn't want her to tell a bold faced lie like that. But most clients don't want the truth either. Part of the reasons personally I like to see a particular provider is to get to see her be more like herself. "Yes I really enjoy getting ever so close to having an orgasm from sex and yet again this small dicked mf pops out again right when I about to bust my Nutt on top of him". " I like to deep throat small penises and pretend to gag cause it makes guys feel empowered and turns me on." Etc......dont bullshit yourself gents......size matters for these chicks mostly........but money trumps all those true feelings in the hobby. Don't flatter yourself. Guys with big dicks usually get away with more stuff in relationships and more leeway......so they say.......

May I impart a little vision into what I have seen. I am not porn hung, but I do have some width for what its worth. Spinners that see me are a little concerned about how hard I will approach the beaver. If I start hammering they won't like it so I try to get them to loosen up from a mental condition and say what I love to do. Sammy Jo is about the smallest spinner I have seen other than a ccnola girl who will remain nameless and I could not penetrate. SJ could work it so that I would get off in CG.

^Bingo!

....Oh and big dicks are overrated. Personally I like smaller Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Well I think I was at times left out.... In that category, I been in the military open showers and I have see some of my brothers have the size ... But I haven't had any complaints yet

One of my really close friends is not human size(one of the biggest I've ever seen) seems like a curse honestly, whats weird to is hes a short bodybuilder as wide as a door frame.

I have another friend who is porn size, chicks cheat on their men with him, fight over him, always have to come back for one more time with him, basically throw themselves at him. He treats them all like shit, walks all over them but they put up with it. Wonder why?

I always feel good when I'm bigger than a black one in porn or something, I know that's fucked up but I cant help it lol.

^Bingo!

....Oh and big dicks are overrated. Personally I like smaller Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

I'm with you here. Average or slightly above average is my preference. It's physically impossible for me to take a really big cock, at least length wise. Now girth is an altogether different thing. The thicker the better😉

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I'm with you here. Average or slightly above average is my preference. It's physically impossible for me to take a really big cock, at least length wise. Now girth is an altogether different thing. The thicker the better😉 Originally Posted by keri2114

I luv a "fatty"....no LONGGGGGGGGGG cocks please! lol