Strip Club Dance Question

ok so curious as to what others might do. was discussing with buddy about what the best way is.

my buddy got the old 3 dances turned into 5 dances scam by a dancer. why dancers do that I have no clue. they can't possibly think you'd get anymore dances from them. anyways, have had this happened several times in the past myself. the way I deal with such scams now is to just put the money down and let the dancer know it's only gonna be 1 or 2 or 3 or more if confidence is high. that way there is no more of the one more question and it's up to her to keep up with the songs. she has no idea if I am to. sure occasionally get the dud dancer but feels like haven't gotten scammed since.

anyone else have another way to handle such a thing? thought about paying each song but with a great dancer seems like a nuisance. any advice on something haven't thought of paying in advance?

I make them tell me how many dances I've received after each dance.

A bunch of these bitches are flat out drunk, wasted, stupid or running scam. Tell them confidently what your count is. Refuse to pay any more. I've probably had this happen 1-2 times a year. I've never had to talk to a manager.

I've even gotten blown/fucked without an agreed upon price many times. Only once have I opted to overpay afterwards.

my buddy got the old 3 dances turned into 5 dances scam by a dancer. why dancers do that I have no clue. they can't possibly think you'd get anymore dances from them. Originally Posted by JustMeCLTXGG

They know there aren't any more dances coming their way either because you're done with them or they're done with you. They're trying to get a little more out of your wallet and give a "fuck you" on the way. Some girls just need the drama.


These girls deal with guys buying dances for their entire shift, day after day. They can tell when a guy is playing and when he's not. They know who they can milk and who they can't. In that way most of them are professionals even if it's professional scammers. No different than a cop that deals with drunks all night long. They know before they ever give the field sobriety test that the drunk is gonna fail. Otherwise they don't waste their time. Too many other drunks to be caught.

I hang out in several clubs multiple tines per week with my boys. As soon as I sit down woth a chick I give my ground rules.
1. Don’t ever fuck me on dances, tonight f you do you will never do another on me or any of my friends. I usually tip one extra dance so if I get 3 I pay for 4 etc., I also always know the exact count, as soon as its over I pay and tell her she fucked up and walk away.

Most of the time they try to get back in but once they have broken the circle of trust Focker they are out...

This is a great post. Some of these things don't cross your mind until you or someone you know gets scammed. Some clubs are run pretty straight up and the girl won't want you to talk to management. Others are shady and will try and scare you 'pay or we call the police' which is silly because the last thing a club manager wants is law enforcement deciding if the dancers behavior is legal or not.

Having the dances count and ask before the next one is a very good system. If at the end she says 'oh sorry its 5 songs not the 3 that I told you' then she gets paid for 3 songs. Don't be afraid to ask for management. Now I am usually not really drunk in the club, and when I am then Im not hanging by myself. Those nights you gotta bring a wingman or two to help keep everyone out of trouble.

And guys we need to be posting the scams and shady places on here so we all know whats up

The only places I have a problem is at Diosa and Michaels. I can't tell when one song stops and another one starts.

Just make sure you be aware of when the song changes.

I had a chick(that I smashed OTC) do that 3 song shit when I paid for two songs that were played. We were cool up until that point. Why try to fuck over me when we've been good to each other outside the club? These hoes just don't get it.

They know there aren't any more dances coming their way either because you're done with them or they're done with you. They're trying to get a little more out of your wallet and give a "fuck you" on the way. Some girls just need the drama.


These girls deal with guys buying dances for their entire shift, day after day. They can tell when a guy is playing and when he's not. They know who they can milk and who they can't. In that way most of them are professionals even if it's professional scammers. No different than a cop that deals with drunks all night long. They know before they ever give the field sobriety test that the drunk is gonna fail. Otherwise they don't waste their time. Too many other drunks to be caught. Originally Posted by boardman

good point. reflecting back on the situation she probably realized he wasn't interested and if she got him to agree to any dance she was going for the scam.

This is a great post. Some of these things don't cross your mind until you or someone you know gets scammed. Some clubs are run pretty straight up and the girl won't want you to talk to management. Others are shady and will try and scare you 'pay or we call the police' which is silly because the last thing a club manager wants is law enforcement deciding if the dancers behavior is legal or not.

Having the dances count and ask before the next one is a very good system. If at the end she says 'oh sorry its 5 songs not the 3 that I told you' then she gets paid for 3 songs. Don't be afraid to ask for management. Now I am usually not really drunk in the club, and when I am then Im not hanging by myself. Those nights you gotta bring a wingman or two to help keep everyone out of trouble.

And guys we need to be posting the scams and shady places on here so we all know whats up Originally Posted by DNinja69

thanks. FYI, for everyone the scamming took place at St James. waitresses & dancer. Hispanic dancer/Caucasian waitresses.

The only places I have a problem is at Diosa and Michaels. I can't tell when one song stops and another one starts. Originally Posted by peabody

have run into this also. never know if that's a benefit or not. probably not of course.

the other issue I've run into is some of the dancers trying to start on the song that's playing when you get to wherever. thankfully some ask if it's ok to start or wait. not all do. silver lining, know better than to get more dances & to start paying more attention for the end.

Ask for the price at the end of each dance.