I'm an affectionate guy (hugs,kisses and stuff) plus I love to sleep and nap. So paying to cuddle up to somebody and just feel all warm and fuzzy inside sounds great. Aww man I miss cuddling
Originally Posted by initial d
Sometimes a man's heart is elsewhere, but just the intimate contact (cuddling, holding one another, letting him stroke you, things of that nature...) is all he wants... Especially, if the man is grieving, or views intercourse/sexual acts, in particular, to be disloyal or adulterous...possibly sacred, in some way, or may even be so broken-hearted that performance may be an issue he doesn't feel up to confronting. There are a lot of reasons, in my experience, to explain "pay-for-NO-play", lol...they're just usually a little more deeply-rooted in the emotional state, rather than the libido, of the man in question.
There aren't two many social situations in which I can imagine a male would feel optimistic about approaching a female with a line like, "Hey, I saw you from across the room, and I was just wondering, you know, if maybe, if you're not doing anything later, you might wanna...come take a nap with me". Lol...what woman wouldn't be, like, "Holyshit, why do I always seem to pull the wacko's", lol, laugh in his face, say something rude or angry, or walk off. Getting what you want is whole lot less hassle when it's bought and paid for...
$.02, no charge, lol,
TWQ