Have you ever paid a deposit? <------- Completely anonymous poll

* This poll is 100% anonymous so no one will know which way you answered *

I know this is a hot button topic around here but I keep seeing more & more providers post about requiring a deposit so I figured men must be doing it, however, due to the backlash about doing so, they do not speak on it.

So, with that being said, have you ever paid a deposit? Did it work out okay for you?

Are you anti-deposit, but would consider one under the right conditions?

I'd love to get feedback on this.

I'd also love to hear from providers that ask for deposits every time or from time to time. How has it worked out for you?

I am considering implementing a deposit for nighttime & weekend appointments. For some reason it seems most of my NCNS's happen in the evenings & weekends.

NO, NO, and HELL NO!!!!!! It’s a RIP OFF!!!!!! Cancellations are part of the business. Guys have regular lives like ladies do. Life happens and things come up. If someone keeps canceling on you, then block him and don’t take his request anymore. Do you pay your client a deposit when YOU have to cancel for what ever reason.
Had a doctors appointment one time and had to cancel for a family reason. They sent me a bill for the appointment. Sent bill BACK UNPAID and found a NEW doctor. How many times has your doctor kept you waiting cause they were running behind. Did they offer you a discount. NO!!!!!

nope. Absolutely not. One major reason is I only deal in cash. Nothing electronic, nothing with a paper trail. It's nearly impossible to pay a deposit without using some sort of electronic method.

I've paid a deposit on several occasions. Had no problems. Would do it again

I have offered to pay a deposit to a well known, well reviewed provider for a multi hour appointment. She said no deposit was necessary since I offered. She is in my top 3 best ever.

One hour appointment requiring a deposit? Never have never will.

Ahhhh no

I have offered to pay a deposit to a well known, well reviewed provider for a multi hour appointment. She said no deposit was necessary since I offered. Originally Posted by holmes50

I finally set up a cash app account recently so I could send a deposit. It was to secure an appointment time with a travelling young lady that I had met before. I offered it, she didn't ask & even said it wasn't necessary but I sent the entire donation amount anyway. I wouldn't have done it under any other circumstances. I got exactly what I paid for.

It's not a bad idea to request a deposit for after hours requests.

No, I’ve never paid one, and doubt I would. I have two main issues, one is the digital trail, I’m a cash only customer as well, and the other is I’ve been canceled on multiple times by providers. Sometimes it’s probably legit, but I think most of the time it’s just flakiness and me paying a deposit does nothing to change that dynamic.
The only way I would be ok paying a deposit, is to meet in person with a provider I haven’t met before. I’m happy to meet in person for a drink or something, to make sure chemistry is right and then I’d be more inclined to giving a deposit to secure a date.

Unless you count attorneies. And real estate yes I was screw over with both.

I applied for a job with Disney World the Florida one once. I was told I was approved for a job that pay 6.85 a hour and I should be happy because most pay a dollar less. There told me I had to pay a $175 deposit for a room and to guarantee I was going to show up. I told them go F them self if spend $200.00 gas on a trip what's the guarantee of a job. Later I heard most Disney world workers eat out of trash and get fired in few weeks not even making rent. I only tell providers I need a deposit to after there have ask. But I can see me driving to her incall or if she a cop lease I got a deposit.
If I asked for a deposit from a hooker I'm pretty soon she's not a cop.


For a industry that a deposit is allies a fraud and pay before service out room is allies a fraud and the only time see paying in advance as not fraud is 50% of time. I latly feel better to not get laid and walk on a hooker who wants money before service. Some will comply,some will accuse you owing money and have there pimp chance you. Some will just let you walk. It a good feeling walking or riding and paying.

Thank you for all the feedback so far.

I forgot to mention that I would not ask a deposit from verified members, P411 members or members that have been on Eccie for years.

Only to newbies or guys that are not easy to verify. Those are the only one that cause me issues.

Maybe I should get a new account on eccie where I brag about paying well be a womanizer and sounds like a high end sugar daddy. I but I couldn't get lease one cash deposit of a $100.00 when she hopping for 10k.

Only to newbies or guys that are not easy to verify. Those are the only one that cause me issues. Originally Posted by Brooke Wilde

You might find a true dumb newbie however most of them are young guys but sex among 20's years is has so much scams in it. Seem everyone was a player in there 20's.

The true scammer which are 101% of the guys just st won't see you. Many honest guys will just avoid the deposit girls also so.