Question for the guys!

Again forgive me if this has been asked before.

How do you feel about escorts that also work as dominatrix? I have seen many escorts doing both. I have heard for a lot of men this is a turn off and for others, it doesn't bother them.

If I were a guy I'd be bothered by it. To see a lady that was total GFE with me in a session then to see a video of her saying things like "FUCK YOU PIG, PAY ME!" --- or whatever it is they say would kill the fantasy. Right? Do you feel the same way? What say ye?

I have a friend who is only into that crap. I can't do it without laughing, but if it's someone I would normally like to kick the crap out of..bring it on! Sure, I will take money to kick you in the balls and not have to fk you after! That's not work, it's a day off lol.

I do some dom fetishes, but it's something I'm not really heavy into; however, if I got the right gal to train me and teach me a bit more information it might just be another avenue for me to look into as well.. There are tons of guys out there that absolutely love that kind of stuff! Trust me, I have heard some stories.. LOL!!!

My opinion is that it would turn most men on.
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I do some dom fetishes, but it's something I'm not really heavy into; however, if I got the right gal to train me and teach me a bit more information it might just be another avenue for me to look into as well.. There are tons of guys out there that absolutely love that kind of stuff! Trust me, I have heard some stories.. LOL!!! Originally Posted by only1sweetmaddy

Depending on where you live there are dungeons around with ladies willing to take one under their wing. I don't think I could do it, I'd put someone in a coma by hitting them too hard and of course laughing. There was a lady that did escort and domme work years back by the name of Jayne. She was HOT! She also did financial domination. I thought that was interesting. She is no where to be found now.

I think with all women, we are dual in nature. I am a Dominant Mistress to some. I am a freaky accommodating PSE Girlfriend to most. And that includes a couple of pro-Dominant men. But it's all about how you feel about power play. Here's my list of thoughts:

-In order to deal with people of different mindsets, you have to be open to really getting inside them. If you're not, some will have an issue even with GFE.

-Being a Dominant woman doesn't mean you don't have the ability to acquiesce to the Power of a man or that you hate them. The real story behind "The Domme" is that she seeks a man that she can give in to.

-There are different reasons for Power/Fetish play on the submissive end. It's not our place to judge. Only to perceive and understand.

-It's not just about the ability to inflict pain. It takes a great understanding of a person to know what they're going to get from the experience.

It's ALL about being able to provide what your partner of the moment needs. Some people are so easily read that you know what direction to go in. Even in GFE, sometimes I lead, then sometimes he leads. Depending on the chemistry of the moment.

Financial domination with me requires a contract. For some unknowing, it can lead to legal implications. There are ways to make it fun within the bounds of a timed date...

I personally have never tried a dominatrix seccion. I prefer a more GFE expericance. Who knows as I get older I might want to experiment and give it a try.

This is all a fantasy anyways. Just because I have no interest in it doesn't mean I won't see you if you do it to someone else. I am buying the fantasy that is between the 2 of us. If I knew the drama behind a lot of the girls lifes I probably wouldn't see them. There are things a whole lot worse than domination out there. You can be in leathers with whips and chains with one guy, as long as you are in a nice negilgee with me, that is what counts.

It's all just playing a role, so really wouldn't bother me at all

Actually, I prefer a provider who may have a kinky/dom side about her. It lets me know she is open minded, experienced, and can go either way. It also spices up the potential for any date to build up to something a little unexpected. While there's nothing wrong with a pure GFE session (i.e. on the softer side with kissing etc), sometimes guys want to see that demure "girlfriend" become a demanding sex goddess that wants to be worshiped.

FNF put it nicely.

I offer both. There are guys out there who won't see me because I'm aggressive or not as demure as they wish. That's fine, but my personality is aggressive by nature and I can't fake being a sub or a little demure flower.

Now, that doesn't mean just because I'm domme with John Doe who wants the dominatrix that I'll be domme with Jack Smith who is wanting a GFE session. As FNF said, during the time that Jack Smith pays me for, I'm pretty much whatever he wants, wears lingerie, stockings,heels, soft music playing, candles and a soft touch for him. Its his fantasy time and I'm his fantasy girl.

Nope! Not Interested!

Doesn't effect me one way or the other. Like MsElena said, it's fantasy time. As long as the provider is doing her best to accommodate whatever fantasy was stirring in my head that I am now paying her to fulfill, she can be whoever or however she wants to be away from that time.

Oh my- I just have to share this story with everyone of you because it’s just too funny!

This guy calls me up one day, and during our conversation I soon realized that he was really heavy into the dom lifestyle. He requested if I would do a few fetishes for him, the ones he named I didn’t have a problem with, however, the conversation got very interesting after about 15 minutes!

He told me of his past experiences he and his friend’s have shared. Once, he had built this box, probably about the size of your standard dog house. He had a little opening in the door of it, just big enough to peek outside while sitting Indian style inside. Within this little house he had a device that one would sit on, and if set off by a bigger mechanism it would send electrical currents or "shocks" throughout ones body!

This is where it gets hilarious!!!

They would sit this box out by the side of a highway, they would run a line across the highway, so whenever a car would run over that line it would set the device off inside the little house, thus sending shocks of electricity throughout the subjects body. !! The reason for the hole in the door– so one could see a car coming, thus the person would tense their muscles in anticipation-making the shocks that were delivered much more powerful!
　

She can do domme stuff if she wants and it wouldn't affect my decision.......now if she says she does stuff like "brown shower play" hell now.

I do think....just by looking at past ladies I have seen.......the ladies who offered domme(Ijust wanted gfe though) they were much less gfe than other ladies I saw. I guess it felt more scripted and less real to me....like if she wasn't in her true element.