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I have a question for everyone. My Significant other has recently voiced her opinion about bringing someone else into our bedroom. I
have known she likes girl for a wile now but never taught it would go anywhere. my question is were to go from here? i know for sure i'm going to let her lead the way, i don't want her to feel pressured or anything. i'm just crazy excited and figured yall might have have some advice.

Pro or civilian?

Make sure you focus on you’re SO during the threesome if you make this happen and enjoy it but not ask much as when you’re with her or jealousy may occur. Good luck!

Jim nailed it bro. Good luck and at the risk of sounding like an asshole I gotta ask you going to write a review on your wife an playmate? Dude I’m really joking when I say that

If she is okay with it I would show her some women on here or eros !
Definitely let her lead the way
I love to be with couples I have been known to immediately relieve her stress in the past !
I hope you guys take the plunge it is really fun an can make a relationship stronger!

Careful about showing her this. It could take a turn for the worse. Thoughts of you cheating on her could occur etc. I say let her lead and explore other ideas later where the hobby is concerned. Like Google something and say oh look honey what about this. Sign up "together." If she sees you already have an account it may cause suspicion. (Just my opinion)

Careful about showing her this. It could take a turn for the worse. Thoughts of you cheating on her could occur etc. I say let her lead and explore other ideas later where the hobby is concerned. Like Google something and say oh look honey what about this. Sign up "together." If she sees you already have an account it may cause suspicion. (Just my opinion) Originally Posted by Trinity Kane

Totally agree with Trinity!

Or if you do hire an escort, maybe play the scenario as a civilian situation that just sort of happens. You and your SO out for cocktails, and an attractive female approaches both of you, flirting. One thing leads to another sort of thing. Make it seem natural. I wouldn't let on that she's an escort.

I have done that myself!

DO NOT LET HER KNOW ABOUT THIS SITE. It is a bad move to hire a pro also.

Its damn easy to pick up chicks that like other chicks. Take her to a strip club and it will happen, maybe not in AR but say take a trip to Dallas, that is what my ex and I did when she wanted to experiment. Worked like a charm.

Try C4P.com ....

for sure not going to let her know iv seen other girls. she has mentioned strip clubs before. i think that is the rout i will try to slowly mention to her. ultimately i would like to be able to sleep with other girls separate from her every once in a wile. is that realistic? i just don't think its natural to me monogamous, i want to sleep with other girls but i also don't want to hurt her at all.

for sure not going to let her know iv seen other girls. she has mentioned strip clubs before. i think that is the rout i will try to slowly mention to her. ultimately i would like to be able to sleep with other girls separate from her every once in a wile. is that realistic? i just don't think its natural to me monogamous, i want to sleep with other girls but i also don't want to hurt her at all. Originally Posted by gaint456

Doing it without her is where the hobby comes in honey. No woman in a relationship will ever agree that it's ok to do it without her. That will only blow up in your face

I have a question for everyone. My Significant other has recently voiced her opinion about bringing someone else into our bedroom. I
have known she likes girl for a wile now but never taught it would go anywhere. my question is were to go from here? i know for sure i'm going to let her lead the way, i don't want her to feel pressured or anything. i'm just crazy excited and figured yall might have have some advice. Originally Posted by gaint456

ultimately i would like to be able to sleep with other girls separate from her every once in a wile. is that realistic? i just don't think its natural to me monogamous, i want to sleep with other girls but i also don't want to hurt her at all. Originally Posted by gaint456

My suggestion is to be very discreet and make sure she never finds out about this site or you might wake up with your testicles superglued to your inner-thigh.

I agree with everyone that you should not let her know about this site and if you can make it at least look like your picking up a civilian.
Also, search inside yourself if you are ready to share your SO with another woman. The only reason I say this is because of personal experience. My now ex husband and I wanted to do a threesome with someone. I was scared that I would get jealous. Well to make a long story short we met a lady in a bar took her home and had a great time. Well my husband got jealous and thought I was seeing the girl behind his back!!!
I never would have thought he would be the jealous one.

All my non-pro threesome chicks were from strip clubs. Hell I can probably point you to some that’ll be up for it after a few drinks. It’s easier for the woman to take a stripper home than the man. Strippers get hit on by dudes all the time. Let her pick her favorite. Make a date out of it. Enjoy the night first then get down to the sex.

The OP ought to bring in her sister, you know the hotter sister ...