i am not 160lbs and i am not 42.
while i have gained some weight since october of last year when i witnessed my dog be fatally attacked while on a walk, i am not 160lbs. and i am 100% honest about my age, i am 38. and i have never had anyone in my entire life (civilian or hobby world) think i am older than 38, but thats ok. im actually over people thinking i am a baby.

i actually told him about this and we had plenty of other pleasant conversation. at any given time he was able to say that he wasnt interested, but he didnt. and he went along with the date in 100% full cooperation, even cracking jokes about restaurant names across the street.
my fault for this date was that i mixed up the hilton grand vacation with the elara. i dont live here anymore, so i confused the vacation club part. when i put in the address in my phone it took my to planet hollywood, so since i could only text with the person (he only uses text) it took me an extra 30 minutes to figure out where he was. if i showed up "looking 42" its because of the 30 minute walk in 90 degree heat trying to find him.
you will always have the one that doesnt like you, and thats fine. i just wanted to share my side.
you all have a nice day!
xo