Ladies and Gents, preferred TYPE of outcall locale

calliemac775's Avatar
So,
I have been thinking of doing an outcall. Never have, but the thought of NOT drivin all over town and sittin in my car like a target intrigues me.
Anyway, what are your preferred TYPES of outcall locations and why?. Please notice I said TYPES , no specifics in the open please. ( if you wanna pm me specifics I would be more than happy to hear em).
I would like to hear from both sides.
That way I can make arrangements that in a location where me and my new acquaintance will be comfortable...you stay classy San Antonio.
n81428's Avatar
The only outcall I did in SATX was at a resort and I made the weekend a splurge.
ck1942's Avatar
Sometimes, and almost always after I have already met a YL, I will arrange a couple hours at a notell or, for special playtimes, my favorite in-room spa.

Very rarely an outcall unless the intended playmate has great references.

Be careful, sir, since you obviously expose personal data when booking a hotel room.
I used to be an outcall only girl.

I've been to many hotels, motels, houses and apartments. If you are comfortable with a particular lady (she's not on drugs, isn't pimped, doesn't have an angry ex-bf and you've seen her enough that you are sure of these facts) hosting at your home can be very convient. I know a hobbyist who has ALWAYS hosted out of his home for decades and nothing ever happened.

I don't suggest doing that unless you really know the girl or she has a stellar reputation and you've met at least twice. Stay away from extended stays or any motel that people tend to live out of. Those places creep me the hell out. People who are comfortable in shady places are used to dealing with shady people....and you know that one saying about birds, right?
Dr Grey's Avatar
Anonymity is the one sacred thing you have in the hobby. That all goes out the window once you do outcall. Someone will know your name and/or location.

For your personal security, if you had to, check into a hotel. None with colored roofs or numbers in the name. Or like SA Angel says, definitely not ones with people living in them. The hotel at most will have your info and/credit card number for the room to the establishment, about it. Still a paper trail nonetheless.

Not saying out calls are bad, but food for thought. Incall is the way to go as it tells me who is more established, especially in reviews if the reviewer highlights incall conditions. Maybe after a few incall visits and can verify no management, pimps, bfs (exs and current ones), etc, then maybe an encounter at a hotel might not be a bad thing if you're wanting to stay on the Riverwalk and a lady comes to you.

Just my take on it. I'm sure others have success with outcall all the same. Perhaps if I was in town on business and my room paid for by someone else, I can see myself doing outcall.
calliemac775's Avatar
Thank you for all the advice. THIS is why I like our little community.
And yes, my biggest concern is the vulnerability one experiences because your name is on the lease as it were.
But sticking to providers you know and trust is assuredly a good way to lessen the risk.
Believe me SA Angel, if calls to my home were even a remote possibility , providers I truly trust would be welcome , but, my home is remote ( see what i did there?) . Much too far a drive to expect a YL to make..

I look forward to hopefully seeing more info and advice ( from both sides of the aisle) ao I can make the right moves based on others experience.