When a man feels like a provider is hurting and endangering the lives of men and women on this board and in this "hobby" and possibly going to try to talk to his wife maybe that is something we need to know instead of trying to quash it.
If one guy gets 'something' from one lady the other ladies should be worried because that same guy is going to come to her and we all know that bbfs is going on regularly...I know it is I have seen text of guys asking providers for it. When I had access and would read reviews you could tell that there was bbfs going on. Guys should also be concerned about their health and safety and want to know if someone has been injured. Why would you want to take that to another provider or worse take it home.
Guys sees provider - gets a take home gift - guys sees another provider - leaves some of his gift - provider sees another guys from this board - gives him a take home gift - guy from this board sees a trusted provider from this board - they each share this gift.
Isn't safety the paramount concern.