I am saying that I have read ROS... (I know we girls all have access to it, so if you are lost, get it, or whoever send it to you, so you can understand).... Since there was such a big stink about it... I feel I need to comment... and give my side of the story... I will not discuss specific session details, however, I have cleared this with a local mod, and also with a National mod and told to post my version here... If you choose to bash me, do so.. I know that every single provider will understand and has had a session I am describing...
Preface: Before I start I will say that there was no violence what so ever caused towards me.... the end of session ended pleasantly, and unfortunetly, I'm a little sick right now, and had to get rid of some of my pets (both my horses, and he put me in touch with someone that picked up one of my horses yesterday.. he's going to a GREAT home, and for that, I am indebted, however, my review is VERY inaccurate)
My version: We had a scheduled appointment a few days in advance. I am involved in a business deal and met with my agent and 2 sellers agents before our meeting. It was about an hour 10 min before our meeting and he called me and told me he was leaving and might be early. I laughed and said, I was about to call you and tell you I was may run a few late, but don't worry, I'll be on time. He demanded to know my address. I don't ever give anyone my address. I have a specific place where you are directed, as I am sure other providers do the same. He said he wanted to know where he was going, and in conversation I said, "Don't worry I like (blank) streets away from there." Twenty min before our session I received a phone call and he said, hey.. I'm early and I counted the streets you said.. do you live on (blank) street. Caught off guard I said yes. He then asked me if I was the girl sitting on the swing in front of my house. That really freaked me out. This was a new client and he was driving up and down my street trying to figure out where I lived and did not go to agreed meeting place waiting on a text for directions to my house. I really should have cancelled the appointment at that point. Something told me to do so, but honestly, if you've met me, I felt bad because he drove across the lake to see me.
Ten min later I received a text yet again from him saying he didn't mean to rush me but he had to pee really bad and could I hurry up. I live within the vicinity of 7 different fast food, convenience stores, restaurants.. he was 10 min early... can you please explain to me why he couldn't frequent any of these places? But, I was ready, and I really am accommodating, and so I gave him the final directions. Side note: I threw it out there that I am sick. I am going to try to make jokes about this as much as I can. I am in awesome spirits, and I have a great attitude about this. Yeah, Im gonna probably feel ill next month, but ok, I'm making the best of it, but this was the best day I've had in 3 weeks.) I always share good news, person stuff with clients. See I believe that the GFE thing isn't just about the money. It's about connection, and anyone that has ever seen me will attest to that. When you leave me, you take a piece of me with you, and Im not talking about under garments. The endorphins of :"relations" wears off short terms, but many can say that days later they sit at their desk wondering what my next concert excursion is, or what horse ate my cell phone next, etc... So I was entering a normal session with him. But, it was not after we entered the bedroom, it was in my hall, when I said, "Sorry so chatty, I'm just SO excited." And he looked at me and said, he guessed he just picked the wrong day to see me... If this wasn't a mood deflator, what the heck is??? He ruined the session at that point... Never been a clock watcher, but he got it... first client...
Not discussing session details now... commenting on his comments...
"While what seemed like an eternity to bbbj she brought up her business again"... My feelings were so hurt by his comment I apologized for bring it up so much...
"While he's no John Holmes, I will never master the are of DT".... I will never master the art of DT when I have someone grabbing the back of my head and forcefully try to gag me.... I know too many providers that DO NOT allow this and say I put up with WAY too much crap in sessions....
"I refused Greek".... pm me for details on that, but if you read my reviews, I do offer Greek, but I am not going to hurt myself for any type of donation... I will not be wearing a colostomy bag within the next few years... but my reviews show that this is a service I provide, so I felt like he is trying to say I misrepresent my menu...
"I said I'm not into DATO".... after I refused Greek he was mad.. you could tell. His complete demeanor changed and he kept trying to "cross contaminate me" It was on purpose, You guys know better.
"I reluctantly 69'd"... lmao.... read ROS's on other clients... I suffocate them. It's one of my fav things.. He killed the mood before we got in bedroom... He wasn't getting anything special...
To make it worse, and I can't get specific, but I'm sure it's not too hard to use imagination, he did something to me, not once, not twice, but 3 times, and I gently, politely pushed his hand away, and the 3rd time, said that's 3...
After that, there were relations... and it was obviously taken out on me for not delivering what he expected. This WAS NOT PSE, this was, you didn't deliver, now I'm taking it out on you.. although, I'm a relatively new provider, I promise, I know the difference....
Why didn't I kick him out?? Honestly because I was have never had to do that to anyone and didn't know how to... and Keri can attest to that, bc she got a phone call as soon as he left and she gave me instructions on how to do so next time....
Why was there MSOG? b/c I knew it was a busted session and I was trying to salvage it.. he has already openly complained to me about almost every single thing I did during the session... even for being happy when he walked in...
Lastly, his attitude changed after session and he was back nicer. But to comment on one more thing that he said... to quote "his hard earned money on providers".. he told me that his dad lives with him, he takes care of him, and his dad reimburses him behind his wifes back, he his dad actually paid for our session. So even that In his review was a lie. The comments about "thanks for an honest review", the majority of the review was half truths, and lies.. and that is the TRUTH... What a turn off about the dad giving him money thing... This man is well over 50.
So, he wanted to hold his honor on his reviews, right?? He's never had a provider turn him down, so why would he treat them bad, or say anything some what negative? I'm not the gal that opens the door, strips naked, and bends over and opens her butt.. I will never be like that, nor do I addy like that, nor do my reviews ever even insinuate actions like that...
Point being, he wrecked the session, he wrecked the chemistry, and his version of the story is BS. I am posting this because I have reported his review on me, even though the recommendation is yes. Again, I have not given specific details on session, and have permission to post this from 2 mods... It's my side, and I have a right to post it... I'm sure every single provider here has had to deal with someone like this.. I just think it shouldn't go in the powder puff room, and it should go out in the open... I just made sure I didn't break the rules in doing so...
Thanks, I know I wrote a book, but..... I'm really upset about what he wrote about me, because he didn't tell the truth.....