Last year I upgraded my prince albert to a bar vertically through the glans. What can I say, I wanted something shiny. I want to be clear about what I'm working with in a PM, but almost always I get zero response at all. My messages have been brief and straightforward. What kind of approach should I be taking to get a message in return, even if it's a 'no'? Originally Posted by WahDahTahthat must have hurt...I shrivel at the thought