I don’t know that I have ever met a Provider that loves to have her pussy eaten like Remy Amor and she has a terrific clit to work with, too!!...I have done sessions with her only doing DATY in various positions and she has only tapped out once I believe. A lady like that has to be multi-orgasmic (which she very much is) and a nympho (which she also is).
For what it’s worth, in my experience, when it comes to DATO; women are either YES or NO. There is no middle ground. I would also say that most women fall in the YES category. Cleanliness is paramount, so a shower first is a must!
Try these two techniques; I bet you get a positive response.
1. Combo the DATY & DATO. With her on her back...start your tounge at the O and SLOWLY lick upwards...stopping to use the flat of your tongue to apply pressure on her clit. Repeat. Gentle and teasing at the O, firm on the clit.
2. With her on her hands and knees. Lightly tickle her rim, alternating the tip and flat of your tongue...at the same time, finger her clit (I use my thumb to rub from the peranium across the lips to clit in one continuous stroke)