A mod suggested I ask my question here. My problem is basically that I do have to hide my hobby from a SO who is working home too. I basically only have early mornings before she's up (like 7am) and I've been trying to make it work but this is how it usually works:
I setup an appointment to coincide with my excuse to be out but when the time comes, my provider is asleep (or otherwise not available) and meeting doesn't happen. I make some attempts to setup something last minute but at that hour it doesnt appear to be realistic to expect anything (seems even too early for 347). I noticed some ads on STG with just email addresses - I've assumed these are all fakes/scams. Then I noticed some numbers will text back very quickly but with kinda generic responses, full of characters with umlauts, accents (such as å,ö,ù). I'm using a Google Voice on an iPhone. Not sure if this is right, but it seems like messages with these characters appear to be some sort of bot - or automated program - responding, so not a real option.
I think that I'll be in this pattern until I A: find a suitable provider (slender) that can actually do an early morning incall if such a one exists here or B: The economy opens up some more and wifu goes back to working away from home during the day. Now it appears her job isnt opening up till late September at the earliest - and there is no guarantee they will reopen.
Am I doing it wrong, or just not checking the right listings or is it basically down to A or B? Anyone have any advice for me?