I have one reference but I知 having issues seeing the ladies I want. Some say they need 2, but I知 starting to think my handle is upsetting certain ladies. The handle is just in jest. So any thoughts on how to get the second reference? Should I respectfully ask to change the handle?
Maybe see another newbie-friendly provider for the second required reference? There are a lot of providers that require 2-3 references. I myself only recently found a second current reference (was out of the hobby for an extended period). Since I only had one reference, I did not reach out to those requiring two or more. This isn’t rocket science….