Cultivation

I'm curious to hear from the guys as well as the girls on this one. What, in your opinion, is a reasonable amount of time in cultivating a 'relationship' for the first time? I understand someone planning a visit to a town and wanting to get to know someone before they arrive. I was curious about the local folks. What are your thoughts?

It's always nice to sit down and have a good meal and some convo with a lady before we get to know each other intimately.

It's always nice to sit down and have a good meal and some convo with a lady before we get to know each other intimately. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

Its because you ass is cheap and don't wish to pay for time, so you get her to dinner and then go home and jack off instead of actually paying like the rest of us, Try Match dot com then.
Many of us are married, we aren't interested in public functions that may get us busted before even getting to get our noodle wet, not to mention pressed for time, we don't mind paying for the body, but we sure as shit do not NEED to pay for time with a woman to "sit" with us, we have one who sits, eats, and takes our money without putting out already.
This is not date-a-hooker, It is always the white knight guys who want to spend "quality" time together in "public" to try their "game" of passing themselves off as a "nice guy" when they are only here for the same thing, PUSSY! To you guys i have one thing to say clearly..

GET A FUCKING WIFE AND STOP RUINING OUR ESCORTS BY TRYING TO CONVINCE THEM "THEY ARE TOO GOOD FOR THIS" OR "YOU WILL TAKE CARE OF THEM" WHEN YOU CANT MAKE ENOUGH MONEY TO ACTUALLY PAY THE DAMN RATE AS IT IS!

Same losers who in HS used to try and convince your GF you were no good for her when you were busy playing football and ROTC traning, while these losers sat at home or on the bleachers cuz their mommy wouldnt let them play , because football is too rough. Most of those guys did the same shit in HS and thats why they still do it now, they are convinced that even though no nomal girl wanted to "get to know" them, an escort is just dying to find a nice guy.

A couple things to remember:

1. If the "escort" is also wanting to "get to know" you, It is either because they are seriously mixed up about this business, or she's digging for info. Plenty of men, Richer, Sexier and Better than you have already offered so get some pussy and STFU.

2. If the guy wants to "get to know" the girl he is paying to be with him, he is seriously fucked up and chances are will later become a stalker, he has not accepted that firstly.. HE IS PAYING FOR YOU BECAUSE THATS WHAT U DO. and secondly IF YOU WANTED TO ACTUALLY SPEND TIME WITH HIM, YOU WOULDN'T BE CHARGING HIM FOR YOUR TIME.

OH AND BTW.. THERE ARE NO SUCH THINGS AS 30YR OLD SINGLE HOOKERS, this might surprise you too, THEY DON'T USE THEIR REAL NAMES EITHER, ITS CALLED A FALSE PERSONALITY USED FOR ESCORTING!

Looks like someone got into the "firewater" again should be an interesting night,

Nevermind...don't feed the trolls...

Notice how all the same guys show up when u mention that escorts do not want to be your gf? ROFLMAO!! "SAY IT AINT SO!" "YOU MEAN ALL THESE YEARS OF BEING NICE TO HOOKERS AND I NEVER STOOD A CHANCE?!?!" ... ummm NO!

OK WAIT... There is one way you can get an Escort to be your gf or give you free fun....




DO YOU QUALIFY???

Other than that, she is either (1) VERY easy, (2) Thinks theres gonna be a benefit afterwards, or (3) Has the clap and wants to share.

SO BY ALL MEANS.. KEEP KISSIN THE ASS THE REST OF US ARE RIDING!! Afterwards, think breathmint.

Remember, unless you are the mack daddy at getting virgins to give you the cherry, then if she gave it to you for a happy meal, she gave it up to many others for just the McDonalds toy.
Chances are while you are busy wineing and dining the escorts, the cable guy is keeping your wife/gf happy, odd thing .. to him, your wife is also a free piece, and all he had to do was knock on the door.. SOOO WHO'S GOT GAME?!

WHITE KNIGHTS UNITE!!

It's always nice to sit down and have a good meal and some convo with a lady before we get to know each other intimately. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

Actually, if you're going to eat together, it may be better to do it after the playtime.

As far as "cultivating a relationship" is concerned, avoiding the need to do that is what we're paying for. Of course, with repeat visits a certain rapport may develop as with anyone who's business we patronize regularly but we have to observe some limits to keep everything in proper perspective.

Thats true, I don't mind if a gent wants to get busy right away, I'm excited to get things started too! I have found that some want to get comfortable and get a 'feel' of what kind of woman I am first. I don't mind that either! Kind of takes the first time meeting jitters away.

I usually feel rushed when only scheduling an hour, but for me it is the best way to determine if I want more time with that lady, just me. I do not do longer engagements at first cuz i have been in sessions when I am thinking "Do I have to stay here for the WHOLE hour?" So, I would be remiss if I sceduled a four hour appt and after 15 mins we did not hit it off or were not compatible.

I enjoy my one hours but adore the 4 hours even more. The hobby is about variety and while friends can be made, not the best environment to spark true romance, again just me.

Yep, on my 4 hour appts I always get busy first then eat then get busy, and I even eat, lick, drool, suck while I am getting busy, just me.

I wasn't thinking in terms of romance, just simple interaction between adults who fully understand that it is what it is. Not everyone gets it, I know. But that was my thinking.
Since I am the kind of woman who enjoys the company of my gentleman, time seems to slip away. I have been with gentleman for 3 hours and not realize where the time went, we were having so much fun! It's good to know how people feel about these things, I believe. I can usually sense how things are going to progress, a sense I cultivated over time! LOL!!!