you know when a provider from the hobby steals money from you and lies about you to others you should have the right to out that person...
Originally Posted by defroy
Did she steal money from you, or did you loan it and prepay it to some degree. You could post an alert, but no one will alow you to "out" using a real name. An even if it did occur using the ladys hobby name will be a stretch too since its a tender situation which could adversely effect her business if its false.....which has been known to happen from competitors.
but if they contact the big bosses here and tell them some story
that person is sent a message you better not out someone
Originally Posted by defroy
So you contacted a local mod and they told you not to post the alert. Now keep in mind the mods don't know your situation. They will focuss more so on keeping the board civil and trying to keep drama off of it when they can most times.
But an alert and "out" are different. An alert would be very helpful to other hobbyists and the community. Outing is just wrong period unless there are serious consequences involved like life, rape, etc.
And if you don't have a validated way of showing that party is guilty, (an email, text, etc saying "yes honey I will pay you back") you don't have any recourse. You got fucked over. The least you could do is post an alert for others.
This situation happened with others on the board here, and those threads still exist so people are informed going forward.
now said provider is about to leave our fair city taking along with her the money she said they would repay you
Originally Posted by defroy
Ahh you prepaid for services, yeah those are risky and tend not to be fruitful returns for most. Id recommend you refrain from doing that. Get services right then and there. Would she allow you a free session today for payment next week.....I'm sure she wouldn't so why would you.
Post an alert thread but be civil in it. If you don't have any proof tread in your thread lightly. Who knows, you may not be the only one it has happened to.