Priorities: What are yours?

As a client, what order do you think the following should be done in? As a provider, which do you think should be done 1st, 2nd, 3rd?

- SCREENING to make sure he'll pass

- SCHEDULING to see if you're even available the date/time he wants

- DETAILS to see if you're even compatible for a date

Which would you say should be done first? This assumes you're going to eventually do all of the above, but if you had to prioritize them and put them in order, which do you recommend or currently do 1st, 2nd, 3rd? And why?

For me, it's Details, then Screening, and then Scheduling. This might sound odd but it's what works in my case. Details - this is where I make the decision on whom to see based off of physical attributes, sometimes personality, and usually reviews. Usually at this point I go ahead and start the screening process primarily because I won't be able to plan out a date much in advance. So if I am relatively sure I want to see someone, I'd like to get this part out of the way ahead of time. I don't like to waste a provider's time so if I have started the screening process, I am very sure I will make an attempt to see her. Last for me is scheduling. When I know I might be available, I make the contact to check availability and go from there.

My main issues stem from the fact that I rarely know in advance that I will have time to play, quality providers need to screen (and should, don't get me wrong), and that screening time can take longer than my window of opportunity.

For me, it's Details, then Screening, and then Scheduling. This might sound odd but it's what works in my case. Details - this is where I make the decision on whom to see based off of physical attributes, sometimes personality, and usually reviews. Usually at this point I go ahead and start the screening process primarily because I won't be able to plan out a date much in advance. So if I am relatively sure I want to see someone, I'd like to get this part out of the way ahead of time. I don't like to waste a provider's time so if I have started the screening process, I am very sure I will make an attempt to see her. Last for me is scheduling. When I know I might be available, I make the contact to check availability and go from there.

My main issues stem from the fact that I rarely know in advance that I will have time to play, quality providers need to screen (and should, don't get me wrong), and that screening time can take longer than my window of opportunity. Originally Posted by KCSmutMonkey

Details are the most important. Maintain lists of girls that one may want to see. I also keep lists of "No way". All of my lists are based on personality, or at least the personality impression from this board, and from what the girls say. It was the same when I wanted to date women in the regular world. Most were eliminated without asking them out to get to know them better.

JR

Would you say you limit "details" to research and looking around to find what you're looking for? Or if you can't find it through research, do you ask the provider your specific questions? And if you are one who asks the provider if she can meet your specific needs, do you ask the questions before or after you've cleared her screening?

You can ask a provider questions?

CIM...is there any other priority?

You can ask a provider questions? Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Why yes ask away. the trick is getting a honest answer.

Why yes ask away. the trick is getting a honest answer. Originally Posted by big country

Getting to know someone. I always try to PM or IM providers before I pull the trigger. Spending some time getting to know the basics to me is the most important.

I use a combination of online research and talks with the provider.

#1 Discretion / lack of drama
#2 Services offered
#3 Intelligence (usually determined by spelling and grammar)
#4 ROS info in reviews
#5 Price

How I feel most comfortable:

SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS

.....in that order.

As a client, what order do you think the following should be done in? As a provider, which do you think should be done 1st, 2nd, 3rd?

- SCREENING to make sure he'll pass

- SCHEDULING to see if you're even available the date/time he wants

- DETAILS to see if you're even compatible for a date

Which would you say should be done first? This assumes you're going to eventually do all of the above, but if you had to prioritize them and put them in order, which do you recommend or currently do 1st, 2nd, 3rd? And why? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

How I feel most comfortable:

SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS

.....in that order. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I am on the same page as you with your order. I like to first know scheduling, if you're looking for tomorrow or next month, that way I know how much time we have to figure out the rest. Then screening so to make me feel safe continuing our communications.

I think its hilarious when everyone says they look at the boards for lack of drama first. Hahaha! If someone disagrees with someone on Eccie, its immediate drama.... If someone doesnt like someone they make snide remarks towards them and expect..... no drama? But put the drama on the shoulders of the reactor and hope everyone sees them as the cause of drama??? Nonono..... Most smart people can read right through that nonsense.

How I feel most comfortable:

SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS

.....in that order. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Same here girl!

Let's have fake drama and maybe it will squash out the real drama!!! hahaha When friends appear as enemies and enemies get ignored.... What about that?

Has anyone ever told you how smart and very sexy you are?... You make conversation on this board so so intriguing and fun girl!