Scam Thread

Who else thinks it would be a good idea to hwve a scam thread of all the providers that demand a deposit. I dont know about any of you all who gets ripped off on deposits but every single one i have put forth has been a no show.

Please discuss openly
amacurious1's Avatar
That is exactly why virtually ALL the long-time gentlemen on here repeat to just DON"T do deposits! I've turned down several very appealing ladies because I follow their advice-DON'T DO IT
That is exactly why virtually ALL the long-time gentlemen on here repeat to just DON"T do deposits! I've turned down several very appealing ladies because I follow their advice-DON'T DO IT Originally Posted by amacurious1
I have yet to find that all time keper for repeat.
busternutzs's Avatar
Who else thinks it would be a good idea to hwve a scam thread of all the providers that demand a deposit. I dont know about any of you all who gets ripped off on deposits but every single one i have put forth has been a no show.

Please discuss openly Originally Posted by George,Curious
I don't see any purpose in a scam thread especially if it is for those you get scammed by sending deposits.

That's on whoever sends and deposit and shame on you.
I don't see any purpose in a scam thread especially if it is for those you get scammed by sending deposits.

That's on whoever sends and deposit and shame on you. Originally Posted by busternutzs

Its more of a list for when we all come across a scammer.
If you can’t determine it’s a scammer and your stupid enough to send money you deserve to get ripped off. Here let me lay it out there for everyone to read. DONT SEND MONEY PERIOD.
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
Lets put a qualifier in about travel allowances for long term trusted friends, as that's a different situation altogether.

But for Op's original thought, perhaps Men's room. But that wouldn't be available to guys without PA.
You guys figure it out. Keep it simple is my suggestion. Name, link, maybe a sentence or so.
amacurious1's Avatar
I think, to quote the OP " I dont know about any of you all who gets ripped off on deposits but every single one i have put forth has been a no show."-it just shows me he's a slow learner. Just keep sending them money and say it's a gift from George
Blue Moon Man's Avatar
Never pay in advance. You may as well throw it in your trash can. It’s gone.
sailorman1980's Avatar
I'll second what BMM said. Never NEVER give a deposit.
Phrasing's Avatar
Even if you have seen them 10 times, never give a deposit or pay in advance, you will be screwed most times....I learned that the hard way
AmberMercadezRose's Avatar
Well if you are looking for a lady to come to your place like me I always require a small deposit for gas. Because so many will waist a ladies time and gas. But I would never request full payment up front. But that also means you need to do your homework on a lady before you try to book with her.
amacurious1's Avatar
Well if you are looking for a lady to come to your place like me I always require a small deposit for gas. Because so many will waist a ladies time and gas. But I would never request full payment up front. But that also means you need to do your homework on a lady before you try to book with her. Originally Posted by AmberMercadezRose
I agree with the guys above-NEVER give a deposit! And if a provider can't afford gas to do an outcall they're the type most likely to pull a scam and no-show. I doubt any providers would send a client money for gas to get to them, and there's a lot of time wasters on both sides of the hobby unfortunately. But it's guys like the OP that just don't seem to learn and keep the scammers in business
Maybe instead of a scam thread(at least the ones mentioning a deposit), there could be a blacklist of providers. I have experienced some providers with boyfriends who want to rob me. Lately there have been some new ones that like to rob their clients.
AmberMercadezRose's Avatar
Well let's be clear so a provider is supposed to waist gas to drive an hour away to see someone? I think not maybe you should stop trying to see girls that have no track record. Stick to well known providers. I have never and would never scam anyone that's bad karma. But hay that is what happens when you think with the little head..