I noticed we have a lot of newbies (me included) and as I was browsing showcases a provider had this link on her website. http://fantasyescortguide.com/beginners101.htm
IMHO it seemed a a good what to do and not to do when meeting a provider for the first time and thought I would pass it on. Hope it helps. Stay safe and have fun.
PS I also noticed a good number of the Newbies have come on after seeing USMSouthernBelle. Belle good work on this you rock . I have found ECCIE very helpful and you did these guys a service bringing them here.