The ONE thing...

It's sort of slow, so I thought I'd propose a topic.

1) Hobbyists, what is the ONE THING that you'd like providers to offer that they don't now. (Note: it doesn't have to be a menu item per se, it could be, "I wish they'd offer cold beer when I showed up" or some other amenity/whatever)

2) Providers, what is the ONE THING that you'd like hobbyists to do that they don't now. (Note: you can say "shower before arrival, but I thought that was a given... who knows )

Anyway, I'll start.

I wish that providers would offer some outfit choices. I'm particularly picky on that sort of thing. I think since you're getting paid professional per hour wages (and you are), you should have some dress options. Be the fantasy I want to see. I'm up front about it, but lots of providers seem taken aback. (and yes, I don't insist on some nasty outfit you have to wear in public you can always change when you arrive!) Anyway, that's what I had, and it's food for thought anyway.

I was going to say SHAVE, but I think that's a given. Legs anyway.

What say you folks? Nothing's off limits, menu items, expectations, or just things you'd like to see!

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2) Providers, what is the ONE THING that you'd like hobbyists to do that they don't now.


shave or trim the nuggets...I luv worshipping balls too!!

I don't offer outfit choices either. I know what men like and I always look yummy. The suspense is what makes the date more sexy. If a guy buys me an outfit then I'll gladly try that on for him. But I prefer to dress myself. Lol. Seems silly but being sexy and prepared is just part of this job, a good provider knows this and dresses accordingly.

Guys--pay more attention to those fingernails. Clip them and/or keep them manicured.

I don't offer outfit choices either. I know what men like and I always look yummy. The suspense is what makes the date more sexy. If a guy buys me an outfit then I'll gladly try that on for him. But I prefer to dress myself. Lol. Seems silly but being sexy and prepared is just part of this job, a good provider knows this and dresses accordingly.

Guys--pay more attention to those fingernails. Clip them and/or keep them manicured. Originally Posted by Gemma34

And you ALWAYS look yummy!! My favorite pie!!!!

Ditto on the nails! Like, please have your hands be impeccably manicured and your nails cut as close as they safely can be cut.

Something else I wish was more of a trend was booking farther in advance. When I'm touring and sometimes when I'm at home, I'll have an advance booking special because it makes a huge difference with planning my days to have as much notice as possible. Short notice can be fine. Though, I've encountered a paradox where the gents who like to book several days or even weeks in advance are the ones who send thorough inquiries with screening details whereas those who want to meet in a couple hours will send a one liner with no screening details.

And FYI: for a hairy ho like me, shaving is not a given. In fact, not only are my legs, armpits, and kitty hairy, I'm trying to see how many more decades I can continue to keep up my all-natural, unshaven look!

I wish providers would keep appointments booked in advance. I've booked a number of appointments a few days ahead of time and only had ONE keep that appointment. Do any providers do this? It seems they only want the short notice. "Call when you are ready." Then, when I call, they are unavailable.

I also wish providers would dress and appear more "put together." Like they are ready for a nice evening, rather than like they are ready for a porn scene. I'd like to show up at an appointment and have the girl dressed in a nice dress, heels, hair done up, and nice, subtle make-up (not overdone). I realize this takes more effort and if you are seeing several people in an evening, it's hard to stay "put together," but a little effort would be nice.

Be ready when I show up. Don't know how many times I show up on time, and get "I need 10 more minutes".

Ladies, please realize that Yoga Pants are not every day, all day attire. Nothing like making sure I'm dressed accordingly, smelling good and freshly showered and then have the lady in Yoga Pants, T Shirt with tennis shoes. I don't care how hot you are, that does nothing for some of us. At least put some effort into your appearance. I bet if we showed up in gym shorts, a hoodie and running shoes you would think the same.

One thing I'd love for gents to do is book in advance. Believe it or not, but some of us have a personal life & don't sit by our phone or computer all day waiting for someone to message us about meeting.
But I'd say one of my biggest pet peeves is when a guy tries to haggle me on my rates. I understand my rates would be considered high to some, but the cost of living is high as well, especially being a single parent. I also wouldn't consider my rates unreasonable considering my services & the pride I take in my business. Like I always say, you get what you pay for.

& I would love it if gents brought more wine & chocolates, lol! That's the way to my heart.

If it's a hotel incall, have some little Bluetooth speakers for your phone.

All good with the need for some other sound to drown out the goings-on - bedsprings or whatever, but Judge Judy = Whiskey Dick for some of us.

I can tune out anything from banjo music to krunk and concentrate on having a good time, but TURN OFF THE TV.

Hell, I've reached for my phone to Shazam some song I liked from girls' "F"-mix playlists before, 'cuz hot chicks generally listen to better music than I do.

Noise control is highly underrated. Some hotels are not constructed the best and the walls are quite thin. If you can hear the other person's TV, they can probably hear your BCD fun.

I've always wondered about that one. How to providers who make noise explain an entire day of such noise! (I can probably guess there are some fun explanations... lol). So this is a great suggestion for both sides it would seem!

Bluetooth speakers aren't too pricey nowadays. Good call.

I don't have anything to really say as far as I wish hobbyist would do
I myself tend to be one of "those" who rarely dress in sexy outfits ,but that's just for the initial meet, I always have outfits to wear can change) or atleast a sexy bra and panty set already on..once we have met once, I can get a feel for how I want to dress for you and will do so.

I do wish there were a better way to drown my bcd..will be sure to bring my speaker lol.

I suppose I could say I wish more hobbyist would choose me lol. Bc I don't have nearly as much fun as I'd like! Aside from that, I'm pleased with the way the hobby has been for me

I tend to get a "tad" loud,so I usually have acdc or classic rock playing..........and will set the speaker near the door for "noise control"..I

Now at home,..my next door naighbor is 95 and deaf...and my other next door neighbor is a stoner who does not care what is going on! LOL
I can scream and get as loud as I want.especially in the summer when i have the air conditioner on!

One of the things I would like to see offered is photo sessions. I guess I have not asked for them much...when I have, I have had mixed results.

I like taking photos, mainly of the provider but also some during the session. Not cell phone photos but with a decent camera with a good flash or two for lighting. However, I do prefer to trade photos for time. In the past, I got lucky and found providers willing to do flat out trades where they got several photos that were touched up in lightroom and basically study quality. One provider (now retired and one of my ATFs) used my photos for her profile for a long time. Another, used them for a long time (but "forgot" she knew me for refs...another story). I have also traded for lower rates. However, I don't even ask anymore because of my recent success rate, hate asking for trade/don't want to insult, and would rather spend time on other activities.

But it does really turn me on to take a bunch of sexy photos, close ups of all the fun parts and spend time admiring a beautiful body before normal activities. I used to see providers advertise photo or video friendly - Still do when traveling to TX but not around here.

There was an earlier thread on photo taking, and the risks to providers, etc. Seems like that one was rejected for lots of reasons, but I do see a lot of "PSE" providers working it into their package, and at least one of our gents posted in a review of another provider, the link to their video. Good amateur stuff, but it seems like there are lots of issues with pics and video... ymmv though.