Lauren Love

To me there's professional and unprofessional and I had arranged to meet up with Lauren when I got back into town from a business trip and she was well aware that it would be 3 to 4 weeks before I would get back I was unsure because the company was unsure. But we talked about a lot of things and got quite familiar and she seem to be very comfortable and happy to see me but when I got back into town I tried on multiple occasions to get in touch with her and never got any response back so for me that's a poor way to conduct business and if she begins to treat all of her clients that way it won't be long until she doesn't have any. For me that's really inexcusable behavior especially for someone who's not a backpage girl and someone who's charging those kinds of prices. So one begins to wonder are there Staff Edit in play or what's going on because it only takes a couple of seconds to send a text message in explanation even if she had decided for whatever reason she didn't want to see me she could simply say that straight up. That in my mind would be a professional response instead of simply ignoring a potential client who could spend quite a lot of money with her. MJ

Lauren is a friend but I agree a simple and quick response is ALWAYS better than none. I hate to hear from so many gentlemen through here and text that they are having communication issues. I as a friend do not know exactly what is going on in every circumstance. However one thing I do know is there are Staff Edit to have any issues with. I understand you being upset because it is very unprofessional, however I believe people should think before posting even a suggestion Staff Edit where ladies are concerned. I've noticed here and other places you have mentioned these Staff Edit on a few providers. Do you know something that others don't sweetie or are you just assuming because of being upset? It really does seem like you need some stress relief so I hope you find someone to ease your tension. Oh and so everyone knows it's not just you gentlemen who aren't getting responses. She hasn't been active much on FB or texting with close friends. Remember school is back in session and I know some of these ladies are dreams come true but you must remember that providers have real lives and families as well. Lauren if you see this maybe you can just give the gentleman a quick response from now on.

MJ, I understand your frustration and this reply is meant with utmost respect. I have had a session with Lauren and have a couple of observations. She is new to the "business" and might struggle a bit with scheduling. What she lacks in communication skills and etiquette, she more than makes up for when the hotel room door closes behind you. Also, I have tried to schedule her several weeks in advance, and she politely told me she doesn't know her schedule 3-4 weeks out. She has some very real world obligations. Consider sending her a text and ask her to "make it up to you". I assure you she has the talent to relieve all your frustrations.

I only have one thing to add, i have seen this lady -made plans several days in advance,talked and texed many times she then drove 6 1/2 hours to make the appointment after she had some stumbling blocks along the way, so my only experience is this is with out a doubt the most accommodating provider i have ever met--and i have met many in may day.

As guys it's real easy to get frustrated because the "Little Head" wants what it wants right then!! And I too have had to work on putting the "Big Head" back in charge over the "little head". I too had communication issues with her at first, but she was just overwhelmed.
This girl may only be here for a while. She is on top of her real world life and is only in the hobby occasionally, definitely not full time. She has already had her fill of bombardment from her recent success. I think/hope she has become selective towards those that deserve her company. She is talented enough, she can choose to be.

And to agree with the gentlemen above... Damn, is she a treasure once the door closes!!!

I only have one thing to add, i have seen this lady -made plans several days in advance,talked and texed many times she then drove 6 1/2 hours to make the appointment after she had some stumbling blocks along the way, so my only experience is this is with out a doubt the most accommodating provider i have ever met--and i have met many in may day. Originally Posted by Lovestolick66

Now that's a long way to drive!!

your right Addison that was a typo--should have been 4 1/2 hours total. She is a sweetheart.

I believed the best way to handle this incident was to do so for the individual. I have replied to the concern through a private message. I would be willing to share everything said in that private message on this thread if anyone so desires or anything needs to be cleared up.

The only thing I will address at the moment is there is no Staff Edit. I would never do that. I eat organic, please �� I would never even dream of Staff Edit. I'm honestly too scared of dying and I have a child whose only caregiver is me. So no. I don't do anything more than an occasional cocktail.

Once again, if someone needs me to elaborate then speak up. I have no problem addressing legit concerns.

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I've met with Lauren twice and never had a problem.

I would like it to be known that I made several attempts over several weeks to make contact with her and never got one single reply. This was not done by private message or by email but it was by text message to her personal work phone to which she had previously given me the number. So there was no overwhelming amount of emails that she had to wade through to communicate with me it takes only a moment to send a text message even if it was to say no thank you I'm not interested any longer. I hope she does well for as long as she desires to continue in this work but few people who participate in the hobby hate anything worse than poor communication. I am not the first person who is a client or potential client of hers to have this problem and if she decides to continue in this business she will discover very quickly that the quickest way to kill interest in yourself as a provider other than bad service itself is bad communication. MJ

I wanted to say that Lauren and I have talked and she offered an explanation to me for her lack of communication. Because she seems like a very sweet young woman I'm inclined to believe her. By way of explanation I'd like to say that most of us in the hobby even when dealing with Elite providers often deal with lies half-truths and fabrications to such an extent that it is what one comes to expect. For me it was a classic case of NCNS. And since my texts were being ignored I took the matter to open forum. If she continues in this business hopefully she will do a better job of communicating with her clients and potential clients. I wish her the very best and hope that everything works out in the best way possible for her. MJ

Not to sound white knight'ish... but you (MJ) just flushed any chance of seeing the most sound, and talented Bham provider down the drain by making all this public. It's one thing to get to the room and be disappointed by a provider not checking out, or poor performance, or being left cold in a hotel parking lot with a scheduled apt. We have all experienced both, and that's news that other hobbyist appreciate. But u are talking texts and communication issues in trying to set up an apt. That's supply and demand issues bro. And the supply for great ladies is limited in Alabama and the demand is extreme...and the one in question has taken Birmingham by storm!! Maybe u just didn't make the cut in your communication efforts to warrant an appointment. Who knows. But u didn't help yourself at all with her and are getting a reputation for berating females.
Just like hobbyist on here PM other hobbyist for info behind the scenes, these ladies are connected too, and they talk.
I'd let this sleeping dog lie, because any guy that HAS gotten behind that closed door with Lauren Love is going to blast u!! She is that impressive an experience!!

Well I'll tell you Paddy I've never been the kind of person to dodge something controversial or to be afraid to express the truth just because it's unpopular. And it was not a matter of supply and demand as I said in my original post we had already communicated and agreed to see each other as soon as I got back into town and we had an understanding that I would send her a text as soon as that occurred . I stand by what I said I made several attempts over several weeks by private text to her personal phone and got no communication back. I believe her explanation of what happened that she made to me personally. But communication is key in this business and you know whether you will admit it or not that we all deal with the sort of thing all the time it's very unprofessional. I realize that she is a very popular provider on this board that still does not change the facts and I'm saying that here in open Forum I'm not afraid to say it and whether you or anyone else likes it it Still Remains the truth. As far as booking a session with Lauren she was kind enough to offer to see me when we most recently communicated but everything being as it is I just don't think that is best so I declined her offer. I do believe her to be a sweet person and I hope this business doesn't gobble her up as it does with so many. But I will tell you straight up I won't be talked down to nor bullied by other members on this board when I get on here and report something that is the straight-up truth. When I related my experience I spoke the truth and other potential clients and people who have actually seen her have also had communication problems with her I'm not trying to be mean or hateful to her but it is what it is. If she had responded to any of my texts that I made over several weeks to her personal phone then my original post would never have been made and this big controversy would have never blown up in the general forum. MJ

You had issues. You shared said issues. This is after all information exchange. Not a damn thing wrong with that. It gives all parties involved something to learn from which is the point of this board.