Public Apology To Female Moderator on another site ..

Dear K,
If you are reading this I'm seriously sorry about responding to your two private messages in one day or within two days with my response to you giving me points for ad posting & posting twice within a 24 hour period.

It's my browsers fault I clicked send once & it made the advertisement post twice not by choice.
I'm sorry..?
& I was annoyed when I saw that you issued points knowing it was a technic al glitch.

So my response to you in saying
"More points ? Go eat a cheeseburger you might feel better"

Had nothing to do with your weight..or meant it in a insult.

Sometimes Humans feel better after Sex or a meal?

Or maybe Site owner is just not interested in having me a member in community continue to help in verifying Gentlemen that I enjoy verifying for safety of others too?

I did receive an email with the words Patience Please.
That was 3 weeks ago..

Banned over points accumulated and several where from technical glitch without being able to log in and at least remove my freaking contacts & photos or whatever is plain RUDE.

May I enter to clear my desk & remove some items & say Goodbye?


The go grab a burger you might feel better was not to be taken as an insult & I'm freaking sorry & do respect you for your time & help in keeping the site running but come on this is ridiculous.

I've never stolen, or hurt only brought pleasure to other members I meet privately.

It's a private site yes ..but this is almost rude?!?!

I don't want to advertise on Eros or get a new handle & be sneaky like maybe others do..
Gross

If your reading this & laughing I hope you remember that karma is REAL.? Lol
Put yourself in my shoes not very nice..is al I'm saying ?

If your interested in possibly being professional & friends in this Hobby world my number is still the same K?

If not it's important that other Providers & Hobbyist know in an instant that site removes you over points & be super careful if your browser or anything offends easy?

Don't post .
Lol
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A cheese burger
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A cheese burger Originally Posted by nascobar21
She don't play!
Well it's better than saying
?..
"No way more points? Go drink some vodka you might feel better?

Sometimes food helps .

If your pmsing too?
..I was issued points over a glitch & boom your banned.
No notice or friendly reminder to say
"Hey! Go find another browser"
Your about to get banned & make sure you get all the contact info you need within 24 hours & say goodbye you are leaving our site soon.
It felt very cold..
& I still can't believe I was banned over an accumulation of points that add up to a certain number then the next time you log on Guess what your no longer allowed access .
it's fucked up.
That's the truth.

So be careful & allow me to be the public example they do not freaking give a fuck about their Providers well being obviou$ly.
Which is fine I'm getting Vaginalplasty..( virgin pussy to auction off) In March & that means between now & then just see regs.

No big deal just shocked ..I truly enjoyed myself there & sad about the slam in the door without a proper goodbye.. especially after all the Gentlemen I ASSISTED with verification in the community.
It's odd & I'm still kinda hopeful but also I have self respect & love me too much to allow that type of respect towards me?
What happens bcd is my choice & I love it but in RW which is my business on that site was .... ..& I'm getting on Eros..soon no biggie

But beware don't tell that Provider /moderator ladies to chill out & go eat a cheeseburger she might feel better if she issues you points.

I am Sorry K!!
& Go eat a cheeseburger if you start feeling irritated it might help with a Modelo or some Cabernet Sauvignon..
Hugs..your job is tedious & I'm glad you not me moderating but there are areas where it becomes absurd like ..security guard in movie mall cop.
Chill?
We are all here doing the same thing & I'm just grateful that I'm okay$?

But if my kids where needing a school project deposit of $$$$$ or my rent was due or mortgage or ? I'd be FURIOUS!!!!!

That moderator does not play & that site is strict so be advised keep your points at a minimum or don't post just keep it mellow & post ads..

No warning just
Fuck u your gone
...And actually screw the apology..
I am not interested in going back to a site where you dangle authority that is so biased for no reason & rather than helping you Hate & look for loop holes to drop who ever you don't like?

I'm not interested in returning just thinking about my 2 beautiful adult daughters that I raised Alone & without ever needing to kiss any motherfucking guys ads alone or mind you a site owner that makes me wonder if he was born in 1942 & suffering from dementia from the manner in which I was treated after being a valuable member in assisting MANY & took pride in getting them verified so other members could play $afely & so they could become verified.
I don't kiss ass & never will.

It was RUDE & everyone needs to be aware that in an instant you may lose access & when your a Provider that'd fucked up!
Because that is the only place to advertise & generate the clientele I had a steady rhythm with .
I'm sorry yes that your Mods are super anal & do not advise anyone to get comfortable there.

My Children are Adults & doing fine now but etf what if I was with school age kids that depend on Mom's $ for like in Newport Beach school projects 800-1500.
Ya.here in Texas it's unheard of but when my kids where in school a school project ( last minute mind you was 80-1500)
I am not with dependants now & able to spoil me but WTF how in the fuck are you going to ban a Provider like me from your site?

I'm over it.
Just be prepared ladies if you get points to get all of your contact info& photos..& know it's not like
Our home it's
Fucked up .
Providers that do this & care should not be treated like that site has treated me.

If this post gets me banned so be it.

There is no sense in being affiliated here if I cannot speak the truth about this delicate issue that needed to be addressed.

P.s.
This is not an advertisement & if it appeared to be one pardon?..
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A Kanye moment?
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No words
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#winning

O.M.G.!!!!
A Kanye Moment!!
...


No you didn't!
.

Okay ..
I'm going to go back to my bubble & have a cocktail & some cock & maybe tomorrow will be as sweet as yesterday..the weirdest thing freaking happened & this is the weirdest thing I kid you not..
I was waking up & instead of waking up & having the usual Earl Grey Black Tea with Cream & Sugar..I for. Some weird freaking reason woke up craving cheesecake & a glass of pinot grigio or Chardonnay..& usually I never drink that early & with a craving for cheesecake right?
Well I'm laying in bed & after a few moments of self pleasure & Satisfaction with me & my well you know I got up & no freaking way ..
A friend this is the truth..a friend dropped off cheesecake!!!
While I was in bed still without me even breathing a word of wanting freaking Cheesecake!!!

Yes way .

So wild.....
..

There's always wine here but I was not sure about the Cheesecake & to freaking wake up & find that a friend dropped this off blew my mind..

I was like get out of my head dude.

Just Crazy..
So whatever.. sometimes in life shit that is unfair happens & you just have a .. Kanye Moment & get over it after the......

I'm over it & kindly pardon the blow up..Please excuse me & move along ..

Just remember what I mentioned though about the points Ladies they don't mess around.



Oh I almost forgot..


This is the delicious ending I was not going to mention & in my opinion is....

Scary the female mods respond immediately to my 2 private messages
1st was
!? Wtf?? Go eat a cheeseburger you might feel better.

Female Moderator response: " Cease & Desist!!!!!




So I googled it..

What to Do If You Have Received a Cease and Desist Letter
By: Christopher Heer, Mala Milanese, Stefanie Di Giandomenico, Annette Latoszewska, Sarah Halkyard, Daryna Kutsyna | Last updated: November 19, 2021
This article is directed at recipients of cease and desist letters. If you are an intellectual property rights holder thinking about sending a cease and desist letter, see our article, I Think My Intellectual Property Rights Are Being Infringed; What Now?

An IP cease and desist letter often precedes intellectual property litigation. It is meant to inform the recipient that they have allegedly infringed a legal right of the sender. At the very least, it asks them to stop, or cease, their actions or face potential legal action. These letters are particularly common in trademark disputes, where the sender will usually claim legal rights to a trademarked word, phrase or design and request that the recipient immediately stop using it on any commercial merchandise. However, cease and desist letters can be used for any type of alleged intellectual property right infringement, such as infringement of patents, copyright or industrial designs.

You may be wondering, is a cease and desist letter enforceable? The letter is not a court order and on its own is not legally enforceable. Therefore, there are no immediate repercussions to non-compliance. However, if ignored, the recipient risks that the situation will escalate and the sender will start a legal proceeding against them. In some cases, the letter opens a pathway for negotiation between the sender and the recipient (for example, negotiating a licensing deal on a patented product).

How to identify whether you've received a cease and desist letter
Cease and desist letters do not have to follow a specific format, but they often have common features. The first and most obvious one is the use of the phrase "cease and desist" in the letter. What does cease and desist mean? It means to stop doing something and not resume doing it in future.

A cease and desist letter will often be multiple pages and will outline the alleged infringement in detail. The letter also generally includes a reference to the sender's intellectual property, like a patent number, copyright registration number or trademark registration number. In most cases, the sender will also include copies of the patent or copyright or trademark registration as an enclosure.

The cease and desist correspondence may be written on the letterhead of a law firm, but alternatively could be written by the intellectual property owner itself. If the letter is written by a lawyer, consider that the sender has already financially invested in enforcing its intellectual property rights and may be more serious about commencing legal proceeding against you if you do not comply.

Other identifiers of a cease and desist letter are partiality to the owner's legal position (i.e., citing specific facts and arguments in favor of the sender's position), a list of demands and a request for confirmation of receipt. Generally speaking, cease and desist correspondence also includes a deadline for complying with the demands.

A cease and desist demand need not be in the form of a hardcopy letter sent by mail. The demand can come electronically, not in the format of a formal letter, or alternatively could be in the form of a telephone call.

Lawyers preparing cease and desist correspondence are subject to the profession’s Rules of Professional Conduct, and in certain circumstances, a lawyer may be subject to discipline for the form or content of a communication. Following recent amendments to the Patent Act, cease and desist letters relating to patents will also be regulated by that Act and will need to comply with a set of requirements (which are still to be drafted as of the time of writing this article). Cease and desist letters regarding a patented invention received by someone in Canada will need to comply with the requirements. If the requirements are not satisfied, the recipient may commence legal action and obtain any one of several remedies, including a monetary award.

If the correspondence you receive comes from a court, rather than a lawyer or an individual, then it is not a cease and desist letter. If you receive a court order, you must comply with the order or you risk being found in contempt of court. If a letter is accompanied by court documents (which are not marked with the notice "draft"), then it is likely not cease and desist correspondence either. It may be that legal proceedings have already been commenced against you, in which case prompt action is advisable. If you are unsure of the nature of document you received, it is best to seek the advice of a lawyer.

Next steps after receiving the letter
Once you have ascertained that the communication you have received is or is likely a cease and desist letter, it is important to decide on a course of action. While there is typically no legal penalty for ignoring a cease and desist demand, doing so is generally ill-advised. It is best to evaluate the letter to assess whether the sender actually does have the intellectual property rights that it claims to have, whether you are the appropriate recipient of the letter, whether the sender's allegations of infringement are valid, whether you have any reasonable defences to the allegations, how likely it is that any claim based on the allegations would be successful in Court, and what the financial consequences to you might be.

The letters are often written using legal terminology specific to that area of law with the risk of misinterpretation by someone without legal training in that area, so it is helpful to seek legal advice when you receive one. Strong language and assertions regarding the strength of your case, whether the letter is prepared by the intellectual property rights holder themselves or an attorney, are not necessarily accurate reflections of your legal position. A lawyer experienced in intellectual property can evaluate both sides of the presented case and give you their view of the likelihood that further legal action will be pursued and the likelihood that the sender would succeed in such action. A lawyer can also help you decide the best course of action and, if necessary, help prepare a response. If you would like to speak with us regarding a cease and desist letter, contact us for a complimentary and confidential initial telephone appointment.

While a cease and desist letter may come as a shock, it is important to stay calm and not to respond immediately without careful consideration of possible consequences. Any comments you make to the sender or on social media could be used against you in future litigation. As such, before a plan of action is determined, it is best to avoid publicly discussing the contents of the letter or your reaction to the letter. It is also key to keep a copy of the letter even if you choose not to respond or take any action, as all materials should be preserved in the event of a future lawsuit.

In addition to consulting a lawyer, you may also want to discuss the situation with any business partners or other individuals that may be affected by the course of action that you choose to take.

Evaluating your options
As the recipient of a cease and desist letter, you have options. Receipt of a cease and desist letter whether threatening legal action or perhaps requesting payment of a sum of money for settlement of the dispute, does not mean you are bound to choose among the options presented therein. It is possible the sender’s legal position is weak, there may be room for negotiation and settlement, and you may even have concurrent rights in the intellectual property you are alleged to have infringed. For these reasons, the advice of an experienced intellectual property professional is extremely valuable when considering a course of action in response to such a letter.

Comply with the demands
After evaluating the demands set out in the letter, you may decide that the sender has a valid case for litigation, that a potential lawsuit would be more costly and undesirable than compliance, or that the demands are reasonable, and you have no problem complying.

Complying with the conditions set out in the letter usually results in the sender not pursuing further action, and thus closes the matter. However, this is not always the case.

If you choose to comply with the letter, it is important to notify the sender of your decision and, if relevant, the time frame in which you plan to comply with their demands. It is often best to enlist the help of a lawyer in drafting the response to ensure that your compliance does not prompt further demands and that the dispute is adequately resolved. If you want to ensure that the sender does not sue you for any past infringement, you can have your lawyer draft a settlement document with language that would release you from liability for past activities.

Ignore the letter
If you have evaluated the letter and determined that there is no cause for concern, you may decide to ignore the letter altogether. This option should only be taken after the letter's claims have been properly considered. While ignoring the letter may not have legal consequences, the sender may keep sending you further correspondence, and may eventually decide to pursue legal action against you. While it’s possible the sender has no intention of engaging in a protracted and expensive legal battle, it is also possible they are well-prepared to invest in the protection of their intellectual property. If the cease and desist letter was prepared by a lawyer, the rightsholder has already invested in the protection of its assets. For information on litigation in intellectual property matters, see our intellectual property litigation frequently asked questions.

Even if you think the sender does not have a case, you may still want to respond to the letter, setting out your position and explaining your reasons for non-compliance.

Negotiate to arrive at a mutually acceptable outcome
After evaluating the letter and its legal and business implications, you may find neither of complying with all demands that have been set out nor ignoring the letter altogether is the right plan of action. In this case, a further option can be to enter into negotiations with the sender to arrive at a mutually satisfactory resolution. Some examples include negotiating a licence to use the sender's intellectual property, negotiating a different timeline for complying with the demands in the cease and desist letter, or only complying with some of the demands, rather than all of them.

This option, of course, depends heavily on whether the sender of the cease and desist letter is willing to entertain a settlement that will typically involve a compromise by it from its initial position. If you choose this option, it is wise to enlist the help of a lawyer to guide you through the complexities of the negotiation process and ensure that you arrive at your desired outcome.

Resolving your case outside of litigation
Early case resolution—preferably, resolution before the sender initiates legal proceedings—has four principal advantages over litigation. First, and most obviously, it provides for much faster resolution than litigation, which is often protracted over several years. Second, it avoids most of the costs of litigation. Third, it provides certainty and control over the outcome of the case. Outcomes in litigation, conversely, are unpredictable; no matter how confident you are in your position, you can never be certain about how a court will decide your case. Fourth, it offers a degree of privacy that does not exist in public courts. Settlement negotiations are not a matter of public record, and the final settlement documents may include a confidentiality clause.

Negotiating a settlement is more an art than a science, and no strategy works best in all situations. However, parties that understand their needs and objectives, distinguish between what is within and outside of their control, and anticipate the sender’s strategies tend to fare best.

Retaining an experienced IP lawyer will increase your chances of achieving a favourable settlement. An IP lawyer knows the substantive law that will apply in the event the matter is litigated, knows how to persuasively present facts, and can assess the strengths and weaknesses of each party’s position.

For your lawyer, the settlement process begins with gathering information. You can help with this by providing your lawyer with any documents or information you have in connection with the matter. Your lawyer may also ask you to provide business records and may ask you questions about your needs and objectives, your history with the sender, and your desired outcome.

Settlement negotiations, once commenced, are conducted on a “without prejudice” basis. This term refers to the legal privilege attached to communications that are specifically used for the purpose of negotiating settlement. It restricts any such communications from later being relied upon in court proceedings, should they arise—in other words, “without prejudice” communications are inadmissible as evidence in these proceedings.

Once an agreement is reached, it is advisable to have a detailed settlement agreement prepared, which should be signed by all parties. A settlement agreement is a contract, so it must meet the terms necessary for a contract, including mutual agreement and consideration (i.e., something given by both parties).

Settlement agreements typically include the following sections:

Names of the parties to the agreement;
Recitals, which appear at the start of the agreement and provide background of the settlement and underlying dispute;
A “promise to pay” provision, which states the settlement amount that one party agrees to pay to the other party, along with a payment schedule;
A “no admission of liability” provision, which states that you, as the accused party, do not admit to liability;
A “mutual release” provision, which states that both parties agree not to make any claims against the other party; and
A confidentiality provision, which prohibits the parties from disclosing details of the case.
In order to avoid inadvertently falling short of the requirements of the settlement agreement, it is important to carefully review the agreement with your lawyer and to understand its day-to-day operation.

Conclusion
While a cease and desist letter is not legally enforceable on its own, it should be seen as a cause for concern and evaluated properly. When you have identified that the communication that has been sent to you is indeed a cease and desist letter with a specific action requested, it is important to establish what legal and financial implications this has for you and/or your business. Since most cease and desist correspondence has a fairly short timeframe for responding, it is advisable to contact a lawyer right away upon receiving the letter to help you with the analysis.

There are some preventative steps you can take to minimize your chance of receiving cease and desist letters. Investigating the likelihood of third party conflicts at the start of your business activities is often the best way to avoid receiving a cease and desist letter.

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..where & how & What!?!

Okay you win

Game over
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I know I'm embarrassed I'm so sweet!!!
On a brighter Note!!!
Wildest thing though pertaining to waking up & making a wish...

Yesterday morning I was wondering what to have for breakfast after masterbating & previously I mentioned Pinot Grigio with Cheesecake..
& While I'm getting up I was trying to remember if there's cheesecake & no could not remember but I knew there was wine..
Then I wake up to find a friend dropped off cheesecake.
I'm not kidding this is REAL..!!!
I promise this is Wild because this morning As I was waking up I was doing a mental note of my upcoming dates & appointments & I generally don't do mornings appointments unless they are
Super early like 4-5 am & usually after 4pm.
Well I was wishing I could move my Thursday 11 am because Wednesday night I have an all nighter & was just telling myself I would be fine just try & rest after the overnight & get up early..
Well O.M.Friggin G!!!!
Guess what!!
Kid you not..I received a text from my Thursday 11:00 am with him being just as Sexy as EVER letting me know he just found out he has a flight & will not be in town after all & hopes to see me soon.

Thursday I get to sleep in & my wish came true about wishing I could reschedule with my 11 am without me even having to contact him or bite the bullet & pull a Red bull morning!!!

Something strange is happening..

Yesterday the cheesecake...today the re-scheduling..

I wonder if I wish for World Peace & Climate change & safety to our environment...hmm .
I'm not sure what's going on just had to share.
& I'm being honest this is a wild coincidence.

Please pardon my rant & I am sorry.
I know I'm embarrassed I'm so sweet!!!
On a brighter Note!!!
Wildest thing though pertaining to waking up & making a wish...

Yesterday morning I was wondering what to have for breakfast after masterbating & previously I mentioned Pinot Grigio with Cheesecake..
& While I'm getting up I was trying to remember if there's cheesecake & no could not remember but I knew there was wine..
Then I wake up to find a friend dropped off cheesecake.
I'm not kidding this is REAL..!!!
I promise this is Wild because this morning As I was waking up I was doing a mental note of my upcoming dates & appointments & I generally don't do mornings appointments unless they are
Super early like 4-5 am & usually after 4pm.
Well I was wishing I could move my Thursday 11 am because Wednesday night I have an all nighter & was just telling myself I would be fine just try & rest after the overnight & get up early..
Well O.M.Friggin G!!!!
Guess what!!
Kid you not..I received a text from my Thursday 11:00 am with him being just as Sexy as EVER letting me know he just found out he has a flight & will not be in town after all & hopes to see me soon.

Thursday I get to sleep in & my wish came true about wishing I could reschedule with my 11 am without me even having to contact him or bite the bullet & pull a Red bull morning!!!

Something strange is happening..

Yesterday the cheesecake...today the re-scheduling..