Gentlemen, how do you handle in a target poor environment

I have lived in NWA for awhile but over the last 2 years my hobbying in NWA has come to a stop due to 1. NBA polices 2. lack of ladies who are my type. Has anyone been in my situation and if so, how did you handle it and what are your suggestions? I'm considering monthly weekend trips to Dallas or LR. I'm tried the dating scene with mixed results and I hate dating. I even tried a few of the hookup apps with decent results but the time vs. reward is dubious. What other nearby cities would you recommend?

Thanks,
~SBG~

Im not a gent..but if you are even thinking about putting out the effort to travel to play then all signs would point to DALLAS..aka the mecca of poon. I would avoid LR for a variety of reasons and unfortunately the nba policy seems more prevalent in htown as opposed to big d.

Tulsa or okc may be an option? Just depends on what your type is etc. But the easiest would appear to be dallas and throw a damn dart u will hit an available lady who surely could meet your needs.

@BBWDeAnna, I lived in Dallas before the move to NWA (darn the budget cutting at my previous company) and love it but the 6 hr drive is a buzz kill but i agree, its my only hope.

One option could be to start an "AA Friendly" thread so providers who have no problem seeing Black clients can either reply on the thread or PM you. There are similar threads for a couple of Texas cities. Both visiting and locally based providers can add their names to the list, and it would probably be the case that over time a few dozen or more providers may respond.

Another option that might be a great alternative to making a several hour long trip just for the purpose of seeing a companion in another city would be to book a multi hour session with someone who may live slightly outside of your region. Many well reviewed and reputable escorts would probably be down to travel a couple hundred miles or so for a three to four hour minimum booking.

I hear ya..thats a bit of a drive for sure but as you are well aware it could be worth it. I dont know the solution locally at all as I would suspect anyone in LR that has gotten your attention has or will eventually tour NWA. I would day perhaps wait for dallas ladies to tour here but then I realize how truly stupid that makes me sound

Like I said perhaps gents from tulsa okc area might could help as thats closer to you. As you know a man with a wallet full of $ wont be lonely long if he doesn't wanna be lol. The nba policy is in 2016 baffling but I speculate you are not the only gent who travela or considers traveling to play due in part to the current state of the arkansas hobby scene

There are tons of providers that see black guys. The NBA girls are a minority

Use facebook.

There's not any NWA providers that see black guys? Hmmm....
That's a shame because money is green and all spends the same.

Good luck on your quest.

OP what exactly is "your type"?

Wouldn't Oklahoma be closer? Just asking, I am not from NWA, nor do I travel up there. Some of those communities in that area have a IYANFHYANA policy.

Oklahoma is closer, but in my experience you don't get the same quality and attitude that seems like its just kinda of normal in dfw from my experience. its awesome.... mmm something about a texas girl.

Sounds like Dallas is Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Whores

...hmm that's a good porn name...I should totally shoot that

But anyway, like I said there are plenty of chicks that see black men. NWA, Tulsa, OKC, Springfield...unless you just really want to drive 6+ hours to Dallas I suggest looking around a bit more

Wouldn't Oklahoma be closer? Just asking, I am not from NWA, nor do I travel up there. Some of those communities in that area have a IYANFHYANA policy. Originally Posted by theotherguy1

What the hell is IYANFHYANA?

What the hell is IYANFHYANA? Originally Posted by hogmanjones

I'm guessing "IYANFHYA" is "If You Are Not From Here You Are..."

That leaves "NA" needing explanation.

Cheers,

bcg

I see black gents if I'm your type babe I come to nwa few times a month