Guys/Gentlemen/Dudes of Eccie...

...help me, no...help us all out here. I need you to give us the Rest of the Story(ROS) in your reviews. Here's why:

It helps ALL of us, men and women, of the hobby world. This is where the rubber meets the road and it gives the men a picture of the woman and helps us decide if this is someone we want to spend time with. It also helps to build her reputation and business so you are NOT betraying a trust with her. In fact you are helping her and the whole hobby community to have a better and safer experience.

So when you write a review you're not 'tagging and bragging' but instead you are helping all of us to have a better experience.

Ladies, if you've read this far, would you be so kind as to chime in and back me up? I think if the guys see that the women are ok with this, maybe we'll get better ROS's and we'll all have a better picture of what to expect from each other.

Thanks RL for posting this! I totally agree. Guys need to open up and share their experiences good or bad...

I personally like having reviews and all I ask is for the gentleman to be honest. An honest review let's the gentlemen know if that provider is for them or not. No unsavory hidden surprises. You can word you're reviews to describe looks, experience and activities and paint a good picture without giving a second by second play by play. If you think the lady might not like it then just ask her how she feels about reviews. If she says she doesn't care for them then don't post one. It takes the whole purpose of the review away if there isn't a Ros.

Actually, a "no review" policy is problematic for providers. Here's what ECCIE has to say officially about that:

#29 - Verified Providers who use the Showcase feature or advertise in our forums are not entitled to a no-review policy. Should circumstances arise which require or prompt you to request a no-review policy on ECCIE, please understand that enforcement of this policy also results in revoking of your showcase or ad-posting privileges. Ladies who have chosen a no-review policy on ECCIE may still post and create threads in any of the non-advertising forums on the board and will still have access to the girls-only areas of the board.

JaG (still can't leave the moderator mindset behind me)

Thanks Cassie, I think you spelled it out very well. I always tell the guys to just tell the story of their session and anything that stood out for them and it'll make for a good ROS.

And no JaG, you can't have your old job back cause I just a raise.





He's going to laugh when see's that.

RL:

You got a raise? Hell, may, you already were making big bucks as a newbie moderator. Damn, I never got a raise, oh wait, two times zero is still zero...hmmm, well congratulations on your raise.

JaG

Nooooo I'm getting 3 times as much! Of course 3 times zero is still...hang on...carry the one...yeah, it's still zero.

Don't brag too much about getting paid, the bosses might want to get a refund on those pay checks.

Gentlemen, RL is putting out some good advice here. Go into detail when writing your reviews. It helps everyone and promotes the ladies business. Just be truthful. Tell it like it happened. It's a win win for everybody. js