Special requests

How do you providers feel about special requests?? I maybe overstepping here, but would like to ask if, rimming a woman is a special request or part of the regular menu. I mean should I ask up front?? Also is it something you as a provider enjoy? I feel like it is not normal, but I have a craving for such things. I like everything else also, it is my need for the forbiden.

OBB-1-Kenobi ...

I usually see what kind of chemistry I have with a lady before I mention the kinky stuff. Some of them spook kinda easy.

OBB-1-Kenobi ...

I usually see what kind of chemistry I have with a lady before I mention the kinky stuff. Some of them spook kinda easy. Originally Posted by stavinChain

Stavin you are so wise!!!

I like to get a guy veriefied and build a "commraderie" with him first before discussing such activities.......or READ A GALS REVIEWS to sometimes get an idea of what she does and does not enjoy!!


have decadent fun babe!!!

If I were seeing only one provider I agree with Stavin...but I don't have a regular, so want to cut to the chase and get not get embarassed when I am in the moment and just do what I feel is natuaral to me, not be a turn off for my provider. So Ms. Rain in your opinion is it something that would be a turn off generally??

Dallas is right, you may spook someone who doesn't know you. However, there are still many that may not get spooked... they are usually very open minded individuals that enjoy experimenting. The best thing to do is ask them directly before meeting, they'll either answer honestly or clam up altogether. I'll go ahead and give you my response on it... you're not licking my butt and I refuse to lick yours, lol. I don't think it's "weird" for you, but for me, it's uncomfortable. This is why you should ask beforehand. If you want something specific, just ask for it... I mean, it's your time and money. You should meet with someone who enjoys it as well or is at least willing to compromise.

Try this......

If you are doing daty and she's into it finsih and give her an orgasm that way before attempting this.


..........start to lick and slide your tongue by her taint.....or perineum as they call it (the patch of skin between her vagina and anus) to tease her and see her reactions to it. If she is initially ticklish go slow, if she slides her hip in a downward motion or toots it up to "assists" your tongue to reach her there better she likes it and wants it. You can also place your hands under her knees by her ACL and move he in a sort of folding motion. If she extends her stomack or brings her hips down she maybe hesitant, nervous, or uninterested. Establish eye contact, make her eyes follow your tongue, or touch a tittie and mimic your tongue movement on her breasts with your finger so she knows what to expect. No need to ask if you follow her reactions and just let your body investigate.

Rarely have I run into a provided who distinctly didn't like her ass licked. The only downfall is you can't go back to the vagina orally as that opens her. Up for risk of infections.

good advice Julie, I will ask up front. It's not a deal breaker just something extra. Now that I think about it there is one area I like better

quote--This is why you should ask beforehand. If you want something specific, just ask for it... I mean, it's your time and money. You should meet with someone who enjoys it as well or is at least willing to compromise.


ditto!

Nothing wrong with asking! The worst that could happen is hearing 'no'.

Read the reviews of the ladies you want to see....
If you/she are P411 it may be listed there...
As for me...LICK AWAY! I likey!

Wait a minute...there isn't much I don't like! LOL!

Miss J, there's just no taming you

Miss J, there's just no taming you Originally Posted by LAVixian

I LOVE MY JOB!!!!

Read the reviews of the ladies you want to see....
If you/she are P411 it may be listed there...
As for me...LICK AWAY! I likey!

Wait a minute...there isn't much I don't like! LOL! Originally Posted by Miss J

yessssssssss and I love licking you!!!!