Gentlemen, does age really matter?

SweetDulce's Avatar
I recently turned 40!!!!

I have been blessed with great genes and I can easily pass for 34.

Should I own up to the 40 and have Men pleasantly surprised at my youthful look, but possibly turn away Men that might feel 40 is just a bit too mature for them?
Many men assume if a provider's profile says 40 , she is probably lying and actually older.

Or....

Go with 34 and if a asked , just proudly announce I am really 40?

My client base is usually late 20's to early 50's. Regular GFE vanilla sessions.
So I want to keep appealing to that type of Man.

Suggestions please
First off, happy birthday!!!

I list my real age (45) because the maturity that comes with it appeals to the more mature gents I prefer... but there are a lot of guys out there who assume we lie about everything and are always much older. I never understood that because I think my age is actually one of my better traits... And yes, I'll admit the surprised looks I sometimes get are an extra ego boost, lol.
James1588's Avatar
I recently turned 40!!!!

I have been blessed with great genes and I can easily pass for 34.

Should I own up to the 40 and have Men pleasantly surprised at my youthful look, but possibly turn away Men that might feel 40 is just a bit too mature for them?
Many men assume if a provider's profile says 40 , she is probably lying and actually older.

Or....

Go with 34 and if a asked , just proudly announce I am really 40?

My client base is usually late 20's to early 50's. Regular GFE vanilla sessions.
So I want to keep appealing to that type of Man.

Suggestions please Originally Posted by SweetDulce
The only thing I can tell you for sure is what would work with me. That may make for some poor business advice, as I have no reason to think I'm typical of the client community.

That said ...

By all means, give your real age. A lady that I once saw told me, during a quiet "afterward" cuddle moment, that she'd just had her 50th birthday, while her profile age was given as early 40s. (I have no idea why she shared that -- I guess women just like to share things about themselves.) As with you, her appearance was substantially younger than her calendar age. She could've said late 30s, and I'd have found it credible. Anyway, while I had already found her quite attractive, when she told me that her true age was only ten years less than mine ... well, it was amazing to me, how she instantly became ten times hotter in my eyes.

"For what it's worth" ... little as that may be.
  • Caleb
  • 08-17-2017, 09:32 PM
Mature ladies are sexy. Go with your actual age and be proud of it!
SweetDulce's Avatar
Thanks.... I just don't want to turn off those hott 20 something's thinking I'm all wrinkly
If your 50, look 23 and screw like you are 20, what could be so wrong.
I recently turned 40!!!!

I have been blessed with great genes and I can easily pass for 34.


Is that why your showcase says you're 38??


Should I own up to the 40 and have Men pleasantly surprised at my youthful look, but possibly turn away Men that might feel 40 is just a bit too mature for them?

Anybody that would be turned off by the difference between 38 (showcase age) and 40 (actual age) are probably guys you wouldn't want to see any way.

Many men assume if a provider's profile says 40 , she is probably lying and actually older.

It's not that many...really....


Or....

Go with 34 and if a asked , just proudly announce I am really 40?

Honesty and maturity is way sexier than deception!!

My client base is usually late 20's to early 50's. Regular GFE vanilla sessions.
So I want to keep appealing to that type of Man.

Suggestions please Originally Posted by SweetDulce
I have always thought that honesty would work best for attracting a good client base of repeat offenders. Don't you want to appeal to the type of man that finds you appealing? Why lie, when the truth would work just fine...??
I usually add about 6 years to showcase age because majority of providers lie about age. Then when a client becomes regular she uses the truth of her age as a tool to make me feel more special, even though I know I am not. Truth has no place in a world built on deception. Men lie to wives as they commit adultery, women lie to their families about what they do for money, lie to clients about volume, etc. Hobby is built on deception, go with it. If you put 40 on showcase, I am going to assume 46. Really age makes no difference if you look hot, guys will see you.

I do not like being with 26 year old, too young for me so if showcase says 34 and I add 6 years 40 is great and as long as I am attracted to your picss I will call.
offshoredrilling's Avatar
If your 50, look 23 and screw like you are 20, what could be so wrong. Originally Posted by mokgp2017
IMHO most fuck better with age
Guest072118's Avatar
Just say your age. Im not sure why so may lie and say younger, there is a market for 30+ ladies and I think its bigger than the young gal market.

Business has gotten better the older I am. Trust those young guys will still come!

I was blessed with good genes as well, I dont go in the sun so that has helped, sun ages you fast.

I look 10-15 years younger than my age...my rear looks about 25 and my boobs are teen like. haha. I could have 30 in my showcase and none would think otherwise.

If I screwed like I did in my 20's, 'Id suck' at this job... LOL. IJS. Its so much better with age.
Ladies are just starting to blossom at 40!!
DallasRain's Avatar
I list 53 on my showcase but Im actually 54...I too have been blessed with good genes..my body still looks good and my ass is the ass of a 30 year old..lol

So I would say list your age and rock with it
beguilingvoice's Avatar
If you don't state your true age, how am I going to know which role is mine during roleplay. Am I the uncle or are you the aunt😈

Miss you Dee, you make a amazing aunty to a naughty little boy
Smpslt7's Avatar
Happy birthday!

Tell the truth sweetheart. You're still young enough to be my daughter.

James
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I know some escorts who identify as being several years younger than they are. The way I feel about it is if they can pull it off, power to them. More importantly, it's not my business as I'm not a client who could possibly feel a way about the discrepancy.

Personally, I've been told countless times that I do look five plus years younger than I am. But I rarely wear makeup at all, and definitely not full coverage with foundation and all the works during a date. When I got started I never thought it was worth it to pull an "I'm 21." I'd rather focus on cultivating a connection with whoever appreciates my unique manifestation of beauty than diverting energy to selling a fib of being in a whole different age range.

And happy belated SweetDulce!