No joy in Albuquerque ...... again

For the third time in 4 months, I have spent a couple days in Albuq. and could not connect with a lady. I have called, texted, e-mailed and P.M'd a variety of ladies (I religiously avoid B.P.) and either get e-mail/PM responses AFTER I leave town, or just get no responses period. (and I am specific with my voice messages about callling back) Two ladies from p-411 at least responded in the negative, (they were not in the area) but once again, more time spent alone in a motel....with the massage place in Bernalillo closed, I am beginning to think I should just catch up on my reading while in Albuquerque from now on.....anyone else have this happen????

Maybe you should try scheduling before you come into town. Although even for some of us who live here it's tough to get appointments too. I finally got together with a lady over the weekend after not being able to set up anything for 5 months.

Haven't had that happen. I can say I have been able to set stuff up when I would like. I usually pre-book though like JHurt said.

carguy,
I hear what you are saying about BP it truly does suck a majority of the time but there are some gems there. myself and Maverick have found some quality providers on there just ask and you shall recieve so you're not stuck in your room "punchin the midget" j/k but there are some reputable providers there

I do a number of things when I visit a new place, I check a real website like this one and see what I can find out, unfortunately New Mexico and Albuquerque are not that well represented here and what we have that is legit is either poor quality or outrageously expensive for what you get. Sure there are a few good ones, but I currently don't see anyone regularly that is local. I save my nickels for out of town trips and I see a LOT more talent for the dollar everywhere else.

If all else fails I check BP and do a google search and a tineye check on any that spark my interest. That takes a long time unfortunately because literally 90% of what is there is crap. The ones you find with google that only hit other ads in other towns really makes me stop and think, they are usually traveling bad news. They avoid the bad reviews by changing number, pictures and names. If they are for real they will have reviews, good ones. I look for out of area phone numbers and check those first for hits, I managed to find traveling talent on a few occasions, most of them charge a premium for a good reason.

I'm just curious at this point what wafdof feels is reasonably priced.

I'm just curious at this point what wafdof feels is reasonably priced. Originally Posted by daratu1

My reasonable price and yours are most likely totally different anyhow. I know what I want, I know what I can spend and I don't see what I want at the price point that makes it worth the trouble for me. I have too much to risk to "Take one for the team".

For me its a Sliding scale that goes along with SAFETY and getting your money's worth and that goes hand in hand with real reviews. Nonverified provider charging $300-350/hr with tgtbt pictures on BP is NOT reasonably priced. 1/2 the ads on BP are just like that. That's when even an $80 "Special" becomes a bad deal.

Let's put it this way, if you spent $300 on a provider and you had a great experience then I would not call that unreasonable. It only becomes unreasonable on the front end if she has no reviews and you took the risk of going to jail. It only becomes unreasonable if you paid $300 for an hour and only got 15 minutes, expected MSOG and spent the next 45 minutes hearing her talk about her BS life. (That actually happened to me for much less than $300) She offered MSOG after hearing her talk and talk and talk, I was so turned off I couldn't have used a spoon to get my cock into her, I just left. Laughable now, I was totally annoyed then. She was not mean at all, totally the opposite, she was sweet, just totally fucking crazy though. An experience I will never forget, I have no clue WTF she was talking about, all I recall is her yelling in the hotel room to get the point of her story across and my cock totally wilting like the umbrella being held by the coyote in the loony toons cartoon just before he was smashed by a boulder.

I actually have tried to "pre-book" but all too often I get no reply. I don't like bouncing requests off of 5 - 6 ladies and taking the first to return my call (if a number was even listed) or a P.M/e-mail. I just don't like wasting the others time. I simply will NOT dive into the BP pool. I have come too colse to legal issues in the last 2 - 3 years to don't want to increase my exposure using BP. I really am okay with a lady not wishing to see me, just have the courtesy to say so. I suppose it is possible that they really don't check their messages but every 3 - 5 days, but that would also explain a "slow time".

Everyone runs their business as they see fit, and every lady should only see who they are comfortable with....I just think it is the professional and considerate thing to let the guy know so that they can look elsewhere.

Ah, thanks so much for responding. :-) You make fair points in what you say is unreasonable as it is just too much of a risk.