Have you ever had a random thought that has nothing to do with anything.
The first provider that I ever saw was a great introduction to the hobby. She said, "I want this to be friendly and you want this to be friendly. We can talk about real life and be a shoulder to cry on. We can give each other rides if we need it. But we can't be friends." I struggle with this. WHY? Because once you get behind the professional mask, many of these providers are great people. If you want to become friends, the professional relationship has to end. That probably means no sex for a while.
I am just throwing this out as one guy's perspective. Please, feel free to react and correct. You all have stuff that you can teach me.