Exploring new things

For someone not wanting to do GFE, No kissing, no BBBJ and no FIV, you have a long way to go before the fetish begins...ijs

welcome----best advice is "free your mind & the rest will follow"

I beg to differ .. just because I do not provide bare services or GFE services has nothing to do with fetishes ...

Oh boy, this could get interesting!

Well I think this is a good place to pop my message board cherry. Since my newfound desire to explore my own fetish's is what made me consider the hobby

1. As for saying the OP can't really talk about her fantasies since she will not provide them is silly. She could be talking about her private life


2. For me the past year or so I have really wanted to get into bdsm. But have no idea how far my wife wants to go


3. Swinging and sex parties even if we don't swap sounds really hot but I know she will never want that. But just the thought of sex in front of other people also having sex... Wow just sounds amazing

Thank you Dscrtaplano ...
1. I appreciate the response and feel you are correct in a way but in another way ... Again like I said I don't think because I don't provide BARE services .. that that should hold me back from exploring any type of fetishes .. there are a TON of different type of fetishes in the world and a LOT of them don't even require anything sexual .. they are more about visual and mental stimulations.

2. I think that would be something to get into and enjoy ... we should talk about that I suggest talking to her and seeing where her mindframe is on the subject

3. That sounds awesome .. You know I hear and see that swingers are usually the happiest and most successful couples .. go figure

I agree if you are wanting the fetish it shouldn't matter if it's bare or not. Ifbyouvare taking the time to worry about that you are taking time away from the fetish and enjoying t as much as possible

Yeah we have just started talking about it. I don't think she knows how far I want it to go though imbafraid of scaring her off the idea


Lol I've heard that also. But as she said and i quote "I do not share any part of my man" so I don't see us exploring that any time soon *sniff* Ahh well we all need some deep dark fantasies right?


Ivan curious what fetishes you have in mind though. What ones you are thinking of exploring

Pm me honey

Dscrtplano, I totally agree. My wife and I don't swap, but love to go to Colette in New Orleans. Just being around all of that raw sexuality is such a turn-on. Knowing that people are watching you having sex in public with live fucking going on all around you is plenty enough. And the sounds... My God!...the sounds alone can get you off.

I beg to differ .. just because I do not provide bare services or GFE services has nothing to do with fetishes ... Originally Posted by Kaleigh Monroe

Welcome, Kaleigh, to Another Realm. And you're right, exploring alternative desires whether it's in this p4p world or not, really doesn't have anything to do with the terms GFE or other sexual acronyms.

I would suggest reading some of the older topics in this forum. Also, there was a great book topic awhile back and listed a bunch of books that might be interesting.

Otherwise, the way that I learned was by having a few friends actually teach me what they enjoyed, by reading and then finally, by getting involved in the bdsm community and taking classes.

It's all good.

Again, welcome. Hope that you stay around and participate in discussions!

Sincerely,
Elisabeth