I have been exploring sensual domination for about a year and a half and have figured out what I like and am comfortable with, for the most part.
Amongst other things, I love CBT!
There's something about the filled up ball sac that really revs my engine.
Maybe it's controlling the blood flow and watching my partner's excitement mount, then releasing the flow at just the right moment...maybe it's a visual thing...but it works for me, and for many of my playmates.
So far my preferred tool is a simple shoestring. I do not want to venture into weights, which I know is common in dungeon situations.
Does anyone have any techinique or suggestions they wish to share?
Inquiring minds want to know!