As I have grown in the hobby I have also grown from a sub to a swi. The wide range of restraints, toys,and floggers has become a silence fascinating journey for me. Most are store bought and are pleasing to the eye,comfortable, and I'm secure in the knowledge I can get out of it if I choose. All great comforts for first time meets with no contracts in place. Then I started to meet with others that made their own toys to speak. The nervousness of eyeing something you have no idea on how its going to feel makes me tremble in the knees a bit. The heighten sense of anticipation, awareness, and vulnerability is something else. As of right now one of my most prized possessions is a home made flogger. What I had expected to feel from the flogger was nothing that I felt from its use. In short it was a refreshing experience. So for this post please tell or post pics of your favorite Dom/sub tools.
I had a recent first experience in being dominated by a provider. It wasn't really that kinky--a blindfold, restrained wrists, a flogger and a paddle, but it was fun. I don't really understand the draw until I realized it gave her pleasure, and that's one of my kicks. I get pleasure from pleasuring women (who pleasure me in return).
And I got to return the favor. She had store-bought things, but she's a quick learner.
I enjoy the power exchange...
A playmate of mine gave me a plastic flexible paddle with short knobbies on one side and larger spikes on the other. Being swatted by this paddle is an adventure.
I also have a plastic cane about 2 feet long with a bit of flexing. It is very stingy and can cause well defined streaks when applied well.
Always looking for new more mature partners in Houston, Austin and Dallas, for when I travel.