References

So, I have been UTR for some time, I date back to the ASPD days and I am trying to pass a reference test. I have seen one current eccie girl and asked if she could give me a thumbs up and she responded - you dont want to see me anymore - which isnt the case but, I'd like to branch out. How the hell do I avoid pissing one off to get to another? Suggestions appreciated.

Don't be a Fucktard

How the hell do I avoid pissing one off ...."one" .... to get to another? Suggestions appreciated. Originally Posted by chrome1996

Don't sweat the small stuff.

Why care?,,,The hobby isn't a dating game,,,If she won't supply you with the reference, then seek another one. Choose from newbie friendly.

She's letting you hit it raw,
isn't she?

If not,
then she needs to be with statements like that.

Wtf Dorthy, give the man a reference!

If you need advice on how to not piss off a woman, you're looking in the wrong place.

I have seen one current eccie girl and asked if she could give me a thumbs up and she responded - you dont want to see me anymore - Originally Posted by chrome1996

Who is she? Tell us! She's not gonna give you a reference anyway, so tell us

So, I have been UTR for some time, I date back to the ASPD days and I am trying to pass a reference test. I have seen one current eccie girl and asked if she could give me a thumbs up and she responded - you dont want to see me anymore - which isnt the case but, I'd like to branch out. How the hell do I avoid pissing one off to get to another? Suggestions appreciated. Originally Posted by chrome1996

That's fucking bullshit.

The point is that we (the ladies) all help each other out by giving references for each other. So what if my client wants to see another lady? She's not reputable if she gives that kind of cheek.

Join P411, it helps a lot.

That's fucking bullshit.

The point is that we (the ladies) all help each other out by giving references for each other. So what if my client wants to see another lady? She's not reputable if she gives that kind of cheek.

Join P411, it helps a lot. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

It doesn't help if the whore won't give an ok

Gina will hound a lady if you don't give an okay without a solid reason.

Folks always bring up aspd then behave like total novices

Utr doesn't mean inactive...if you have been hobbying you should have references.. it's that simple

Sounds like a tactic to make providers feel sorry for you,so you dont get screened

Smfh

.......Folks always bring up aspd then behave like total novices.......... Originally Posted by NubianPrince

I agree with this part..... I was on ASPD also but new exactly what to do when I jumped on eccie.... .....seek newbie friendly ladies and start with them!

references ? they don't give anymore , don't ask

Double check that future providers who you want to see are reference friendly. If someone will withhold a "Yes" reference from you because of pettiness, that person is not reference friendly.