PM's blocked by POP UPS

SO I AM NOT A PC GIRL... But I have the very best computer guy. I showed him my problem and even he could bot fix it...

Every time I go to the PM area on the screen to read my mail I get 2 pop ups and I hit the x then it says ARE YOU SURE YOU WANT TO LEAVE this page hell YA I want to read my freaking mail. Normally it is 2 sites six buttons I have to push to read my mail

#1 your p.m. notifications
#2 POP up 1 x out
#3 Are you sure ...YES
#4 POP up 2 x out
#5 are you sure .. YES
#6 you have 3 p.ms
FINALLY CLICK ON MY MAIL
That is my ritual ever day 3 6 8 times a Day everytime I go to check my mail because I use to get e mail notices that I had PM.. it has been on off the last year so I dont want to miss anyone ANY way my computer guiu put a pop up blocker which does not work on those 2 things but works against my firefox and bank pop up which I need GO FIGURE.....

Any who I am all for generating business hell I was the very first girl to put up a banner ad on aspd...But that is the kicker they both have banner ads big ones we see you honey you are now invading me.. ALMOST LIKE A STALKER if a client would treat them how they are doing your site they would get out the taser cause it is TOO PUSHY.

Any way I AM FINALLY BITCHING today cause I go to do my morning 6 step ritual and I had to do it twice so 12 steps to read my FREAKING P.M... same 2 sites just comes up 2 times each today.....
MAYBE ON YOUR RULE SHEET THAT THEY HAVE TO SIGN IN ADVERTISING AND PUTTING UP A BANNER AD YOU CAN ADD A LINE THAT SAYS.. By posting a banner ad on this site you will not put pop ups on any non advertising button......or how ever the legal mumbo jumbo wording you need to use
If it was my site YOU WILL NOT POST AGGRAVATING POP UPS AND BE A FREAKING PAIN IN OUR OTHER PATRONS ASS

That is what I want to do too both pop ups that block my p.m. reading can somebody on this board MAKE IT HAPPEN?
There was another thread that mentioned the hassle but I could not find it