Electricfeelnow's chance to come clean

Ok. I get a PM from Kate today bitching that I'm blasting her … which I am. She's complaining that she can never respond to my comments, so here's your chance Kate. If you want to make things right, this is your opportunity.

You have NCNS'd several guys here when you first got started and went by NightmareSally—I was one. I've seen you two times, both last Dec (17th & 24th) and even left a nice Christmas tip to which you texted me saying I left too much (great gesture on your part) and I replied with "Merry Christmas" simply because I wanted to see you again.

Then it happened. I scheduled with you for Jan. 21st and texted you asking for a confirmation before leaving my house, as it's a long 30 drive one way to see you. You replied with CONFIRMED! So I got ready and left. After I arrived you never replied, after several texts and thirty min. of waiting, I left. At that point I decided to start warning guys of your antics.

I realize it is now 10 months later and that people do and can change. But until today the only thing you have ever said to me either in public or private is "sheesh" in reply to my first warning post. http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=66...ghlight=sheesh

You've had plenty of opportunity to respond either through PM or in this forum but you have not done so. Now you are bitching that I won't leave you alone. Well, Kate put your big girl panties on and live with it.

And lest anyone think I'm making this stuff up … read 'em for yourself:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=651384&highlight=
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=644916
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally

Now, if you want to take ownership of this and make it up (even though I told you in response to your PM that I would never see you again), then I'll give you one last opportunity. As you said to me, you NCNS'd Monk and now you have a great professional relationship. I'm willing to put this aside but it will require you doing what's right, not just making some changes and hope you past will disappear, for I will continue to bring up your past if you don't. The balls in your court.

So per your claims in PM:
Yes I'm blasting you.
Yes it's been primarily in the review section where you can't respond.
Guilty as charged. That does not mean you cannot offer a retort to my comments right here. You could have started your own post right here to defend yourself 10 months ago but you didn't. There's only one way to make it right and that's to repay me for the time you cost me. Either pay up or live with your reputation.

Dayum. H'yar Ah wuz feelin' all down since Breaking Bad ended and now it looks like we all may just get us our own private show! Yeeeeeeeeee Hawwwwwwwwww! Let's git 'er on!

Trust me, I know your frustration.Like a fool I fell for her BS and she did it to me multiple times even after assuring me she wouldnt stand me up knowng I was coming from way up north to only arrive at her incall and not answer the door.
Initially she was very easy to see and had good TCB but after seeing a few clients and putting some change in her pocket it seemd as if keeping the dates werent needed until thenext time cash was needed.
Crazy how one can simply change their handle and assume their past wont follow.

Well, tha l'il filly started with a handle (nightmaresally) that wuz a reference ta The Nightmare Before Christmas.



Then she changed ta one (Electricfeelnow) that's a reference to sumkinda commie, liberal, daft, hippie song by sumkinda commie, liberal, daft, hippie band.




Ah hope her next handle's a-gonna be straight outta Breaking Bad, like Jessica Pinkman or mebbe Heisen-furburger.

Ok. I get a PM from Kate today bitching that I'm blasting her … which I am. She's complaining that she can never respond to my comments, so here's your chance Kate. If you want to make things right, this is your opportunity.

You have NCNS'd several guys here when you first got started and went by NightmareSally—I was one. I've seen you two times, both last Dec (17th & 24th) and even left a nice Christmas tip to which you texted me saying I left too much (great gesture on your part) and I replied with "Merry Christmas" simply because I wanted to see you again.

Then it happened. I scheduled with you for Jan. 21st and texted you asking for a confirmation before leaving my house, as it's a long 30 drive one way to see you. You replied with CONFIRMED! So I got ready and left. After I arrived you never replied, after several texts and thirty min. of waiting, I left. At that point I decided to start warning guys of your antics.

I realize it is now 10 months later and that people do and can change. But until today the only thing you have ever said to me either in public or private is "sheesh" in reply to my first warning post. http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=66...ghlight=sheesh

You've had plenty of opportunity to respond either through PM or in this forum but you have not done so. Now you are bitching that I won't leave you alone. Well, Kate put your big girl panties on and live with it.

Now, if you want to take ownership of this and make it up (even though I told you in response to your PM that I would never see you again), then I'll give you one last opportunity. As you said to me, you NCNS'd Monk and now you have a great professional relationship. I'm willing to put this aside but it will require you doing what's right, not just making some changes and hope you past will disappear, for I will continue to bring up your past if you don't. The balls in your court.

So per your claims in PM:
Yes I'm blasting you.
Yes it's been primarily in the review section where you can't respond.
Guilty as charged. That does not mean you cannot offer a retort to my comments right here. You could have started your own post right here to defend yourself 10 months ago but you didn't. There's only one way to make it right and that's to repay me for the time you cost me. Either pay up or live with your reputation. Originally Posted by onei

ok i'm not taking sides or standing up for anyone but seriously you sound like a butt hurt bitch who can't get over shit. do you even realize it OCTOBER not January, not December of Last year. October and just a few months away from a new yr 2014.

move on if you don't want to see her again then don't but why the fuck are you dredging up shit that happen Over 6months ago! no wonder she said you won't leave her alone this entire thread is proof. she fucks up and what? now your gonna harass her all the rest of her days??? a year from now are you still gonna be bitching about this? huh?

why should she have to say anything to you when you act like this, maybe this kind of behavior is why she does not respond to you. you're just an antagonistic person and responding to you would just add fuel to the flames. I don't even think you're looking for an apology you're just looking for a fight.

why does she need to repay you for time? I HIGHLY doubt that when a Lady get ncns on she can hardly demand the guy pay her anyways for the time he wasted. I'd like to see that conversation.
*phones hobby bobby* Hi 10 months ago you made and appointment with me then didn't show up. you owe me $XXX. repay me for and experience we didn't share where both parties didn't receive anything. so basically you owe me money for nothing. if you don't i will continually work to ruin your reputation and business by dredging up the past like a butt hurt Ex even when you try and start fresh and not make the same mistakes. 'cause I'm an ass like that.

she doesn't owe you anything except maybe an apology but that's it.

Zen time. Maybe it's better to let this go. Holding on to that much anger is rough on the heart and circulatory system. Where does that get you? It gets you Erectile Dysfunction, that's where, and then to a Dr. for some Viagra. But first, they want to run a few tests and you have a high deductible plan, so you pay a few hundred bucks or maybe a grand for a workup. Your doc says "I don't think you are healthy enough for sex right now, lets get that BP and cholesterol down first. He doesn't want you "stroking out" as it were. So now you're not fucking anybody and your wallet is lighter, you aren't getting any younger AND maybe a few girls on here don't want to schedule you because they are afraid you will persecute them on the boards if everything isn't perfect.

Not saying you don't have a legitimate complaint, but the statute of limitations seems to be pretty well up on it.

That's just my impression anyway, now go get laid...by someone else.

He saved me a drive south which nowadays is always a hassle. Thanks onei Newbies come on the board all the time. He isn't the only one complaining about her TCB.

I've seen this young lady quite a bit in the past and I will say she was very reliable for me... As far as her repaying you I doubt it'll ever happen you should forgive and forget move on...

#1 Secret Amore, I don't know you, have never seen you, and don't want to see you. As well, I don't see your name mentioned anywhere in my post, thus this doesn't concern you. YOU get no response from me. Take your busybody nose elsewhere.

#2 It has nothing to do with anger and everything to do with respect.

#3 As cckid2006 said, it also has everything to do with what this board is all about. If a gal steals from a guy, everyone needs to know. That has happened and the girls have been outed as well as ousted, and rightfully so. If a gal is constantly NCNSing, then others need to know. If you decide to forego the warnings then don't come back crying to the board. Just last month Mz. Capri was outed for being a thief. She's no longer in Austin. All of this saves guys a lot of waisted time and resources. Bottom line, if you don't like bad press, then don't steal time and money (or expensive watches - that goes back some time).

There are plenty of girls who NCNS as well as plenty of guys who NCNS. Everyone needs to know who the time wasters are. I have never NCNS'd and always show up on time, or will contact the gal and let her know if I'm going to be 5-10 late for whatever reason. It's simply a matter of respect. When a guy or gal will constantly NCNS it proves they have no respect for anyone and others have a right to know. If it cost her business or means he can't get a booking, so be it. Change the way you do business.

Now, having said that, it APPEARS Kate is changing, but what brought this on was her PM; calling me names and bitching. So I decided to give her her day in court, so to speak. I'm not mad and I'm not angry. But I'm not going to sit on the sideline and let someone who cost me an hour of drive time (and gas), 30-min of wait time (which since then, no one gets that much wait time from me), not to mention time getting ready; I'm not going let them hide in the shadows through PM's bitching so no one can see. If you want to bitch at me, do it in public. If you want to handle this dispute in private, them be civil and let's talk.

Ultimately, I'm not really looking for a freebee. That's a rarity around here. But the truth is, I have had girls who have gone the extra mile to make up for something that was their fault and when that happens I, as well as many others who she will no doubt show equal respect to, greatly appreciate it.

As I said, I've seen Kate twice and really did enjoy myself. I thought at the time she was a very sweet gal and had every intention to see her multiple times. But she KNEW I drove a long way to see her, and to me, to NCNS knowing that shows disrespect.

Like I said, it appears she's changed, but at the same time, it also appears per other threads that she had played this very game before. So I'm not convinced yet.

ok i'm not taking sides or standing up for anyone but seriously you sound like a butt hurt bitch who can't get over shit. do you even realize it OCTOBER not January, not December of Last year. October and just a few months away from a new yr 2014.

move on if you don't want to see her again then don't but why the fuck are you dredging up shit that happen Over 6months ago! no wonder she said you won't leave her alone this entire thread is proof. she fucks up and what? now your gonna harass her all the rest of her days??? a year from now are you still gonna be bitching about this? huh?

why should she have to say anything to you when you act like this, maybe this kind of behavior is why she does not respond to you. you're just an antagonistic person and responding to you would just add fuel to the flames. I don't even think you're looking for an apology you're just looking for a fight.

why does she need to repay you for time? I HIGHLY doubt that when a Lady get ncns on she can hardly demand the guy pay her anyways for the time he wasted. I'd like to see that conversation.
*phones hobby bobby* Hi 10 months ago you made and appointment with me then didn't show up. you owe me $XXX. repay me for and experience we didn't share where both parties didn't receive anything. so basically you owe me money for nothing. if you don't i will continually work to ruin your reputation and business by dredging up the past like a butt hurt Ex even when you try and start fresh and not make the same mistakes. 'cause I'm an ass like that.

she doesn't owe you anything except maybe an apology but that's it. Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Whether or not you, I, or others disagree with the OP, he has the right to post this thread. He hasn't crossed any guidelines with his postings but calling him "a butt hurt bitch" does cross the lines. Feel free to critique him in this thread but do so without disrespectful comments.

Thanks,

sixx

... calling him "a butt hurt bitch" does cross the lines. Feel free to critique him in this thread but do so without disrespectful comments ... Originally Posted by sixxbach

I do hope you didn't point the lady for her comments as she didn't call him any such thing. She did offer the colorful analogy: "you sound like a butt hurt bitch," which is decidedly different than suggesting the OP actually be a butt hurt bitch.

And her analogy isn't without merit.

1: I don't give a crap about what anyone (especially OP) has to say in response to this since I'm no longer seeing new clients

2: Had this been a few days ago, sure, complain all you want about it. But I seriously doubt anyone who got NCNS'd 10 MONTHS ago really has room to continually blast a provider. Simply state: I am no longer seeing so and so for x,y, and z. I'm posting because I'd like her to have the opportunity to tell her side and state the facts. And if anyone has anything to add/share, please do, respectfully here.

As opposed to demanding she pay you back for sessions you'd already had ? (Please correct me if I'm wrong). And had you been harassing her, bud, that is PROBABLY a good reason why she didn't respond once you showed up. Either that or something happened. Maybe her gran died and she just couldn't get around to texting back AT THAT SECOND, but after harassing texts about a ncns, she didn't feel she owed you anything (especially if she was busy dealing with RW stuff, which is almost understandable).

I'm sorry, but coming off as someone entitled and disrespectful to the girls here and the amount of BS we do continually have to deal with (as opposed to someone who hobbies maybe once, twice a month or so?) shouldn't really be able to complain about how this is all about "respect". Treating us like we're possessions or something you can just "pay for" and get a refund for because of ONE ncns 10 MONTHS AGO is taking it a bit far.

And, again, I don't really care if you want to shut me down and say to take my nose out of your business, but, hey buddy, if you posted it in Co-ed, I'd think twice about telling anyone here to shove off. You opened this can of worms and now just deal with people who don't agree with you.

I do hope you didn't point the lady for her comments as she didn't call him any such thing. She did offer the colorful analogy: "you sound like a butt hurt bitch," which is decidedly different than suggesting the OP actually be a butt hurt bitch.

And her analogy isn't without merit. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

Agreed.

I do hope you didn't point the lady for her comments as she didn't call him any such thing. She did offer the colorful analogy: "you sound like a butt hurt bitch," which is decidedly different than suggesting the OP actually be a butt hurt bitch.

And her analogy isn't without merit. Originally Posted by JohnnyYanks

well i got slammed with a warning anyways. though you're right I didn't call him a butt hurt bitch.

at this point the OP is just being a bully. yes he has a right to complain but there's should be a reasonable time limit 10 months later is not reasonable and then threatening to keep harassing and smear campaigning her name unless she pays him money correct me if i'm wrong isn't that blackmail? is someone allowed to do that????