PSE ??

So a lot of girls advertise for PSE but offer no cim, no swallowing, and no backdoor play...


I'm wondering if guys expect these activities when requesting pse?

Is this a dumb question?
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Don't worry dear... your name is out beside the definition of PSE!!! You got it figured out already!!
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If there is a large up charge than Yes.
If there is a large up charge than Yes. Originally Posted by down4fun
I don't up charge for who I am and what comes naturally to me. I realize most will. I don't even add for greek. Why add for something I LOVE to do.

I'm just wondering what you guys expect when you read "pse" in the ad
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  • 02-14-2017, 02:44 PM
I include "PSE" in the same category as "GFE" and a few others: an undefined basically meaningless marketing/PR term. I read the reviews, or a lady's ads, or meet with her to find out what she does/doesn't do. I care about that, not about what she calls it.
I include "PSE" in the same category as "GFE" and a few others: an undefined basically meaningless marketing/PR term. I read the reviews, or a lady's ads, or meet with her to find out what she does/doesn't do. I care about that, not about what she calls it. Originally Posted by Old-T
Good answer!
I don't up charge for who I am and what comes naturally to me. I realize most will. I don't even add for greek. Why add for something I LOVE to do.

I'm just wondering what you guys expect when you read "pse" in the ad Originally Posted by GigiGabore
I expect just what you were saying earlier, either cim, swallowing, Greek or all of the above would be the "ultimate PSE"!!!! Usually when they offer PSE differently I am expecting a up charge and not included in a regular GFE experiance. But I like your response why charge for something you enjoy, but also why up barge for something you really don't enjoy.
Gigi, like two or three of the other responders have said, when a lady advertises PSE, I expect that she will provide CIM and Greek; maybe swallowing, maybe not. However, if I'm interested in meeting a lady I've never met before, I'll read her reviews to see what activities she has provided. If I still have questions about what's on her menu and what's not, I'll PM her and simply ask about the activities that are important to me. That's why I appreciated so much having a string of messages with you during the past week. What I learned from you increased the desire I already had to meet you.
I've seen a large amount of women advertise for porn star sex and all of these things are on their no list. Now, I don't do anything that I do not enjoy, and don't expect others too, however what makes them a pse if they have nothing but maybe a sloppy bj on the list in terms of things you see in porn.
Girls advertise GFE but no kissing.

Why lie? A true girlfriend experience involves kissing. If you don't then you're just not gfe. Call it something different.

I mean...no cim..no swallow...no greek...just cfs or cbj?

That's more like "married sex" than porn star sex.

I think you guys have the raw end of this deal. In terms of finding a lady that does the activities you like. (Because I have a blast or 3 each time I play, I get to do all the naughty things "regular guys" think is too kinky)
I want to make you feel wanted, comfortable...if I'm worried about the giant list of no's I have or things that gross me out that you might want, why am I there??

Isn't it so robotic...almost mechanical getting only cbj and/or cfs when desiring a pse?

Maybe I'm watching the wrong kind of porn.

Just saw a local gal advertise pse with a big list of no no's.

Married folk porn...that must be it.

Anyways to each his own but I assumed there was more to pse than slobbing on a dick.
Gigi, like two or three of the other responders have said, when a lady advertises PSE, I expect that she will provide CIM and Greek; maybe swallowing, maybe not. However, if I'm interested in meeting a lady I've never met before, I'll read her reviews to see what activities she has provided. If I still have questions about what's on her menu and what's not, I'll PM her and simply ask about the activities that are important to me. That's why I appreciated so much having a string of messages with you during the past week. What I learned from you increased the desire I already had to meet you. Originally Posted by mp600801


Well, it seems I have some fans in MS and must make a trip!!
Any lady advertising "GFE" ought to at least do DFK, BBFS, Greek, and CIM. Any girlfriend will do those (if not necessarily in that order). PSE should include bare ATM, awkward gymnastic contortions, weird costumes, face painting, MMF, MFF, FFMFFMFF, etc. Anything less is false advertising.

GFE only comes from girlfriends, PSE only comes from porn stars.
Any lady advertising "GFE" ought to at least do DFK, BBFS, Greek, and CIM. Any girlfriend will do those (if not necessarily in that order). PSE should include bare ATM, awkward gymnastic contortions, weird costumes, face painting, MMF, MFF, FFMFFMFF, etc. Anything less is false advertising.

GFE only comes from girlfriends, PSE only comes from porn stars. Originally Posted by Buying a *Way to Heaven
Weird costumes and face painting FTW!
I have never experienced some of those.. so for me.. I cannot answer if I would expect it or not.. CIM.. is nice.. never knew how I would react to that till the first time It ever happened and wow.. it is so exhilarating it was actually hard for me to let go to but wow.... for the vast majority of my life I hadn't ever experienced a bj.. I had guys tell me how spectacular they were and I seen films but I had had only two ladies in my life both were told it wasn't something to do so it was a totally new experience.. and yes it is just as special as everyone had said.. More of a Wow experience where had I been all my life LOL.... especially if they go slow and let it build up..
for me at least when I got older I discovered that it takes longer and the experience is more spectacular.. as far as back door.. well I haven't ever done that slightly curious but it isn't something I will ask for. someday but I will leave that up to the lady to suggest.
For me.. Kissing is a big thing.. I love to kiss and I love my newfound activity DATY but because I am fairly inexperienced.. I do prefer that a lady tell me how she likes it.. since I am still learning and my pleasure comes from her pleasure.
As far as BBFS absolutely not.. with as many men the ladies see if they start doing bbfs well that is just looking for a bad situation and their lives and my life is worth so much more.. before I started I did some research and there was two ladies that even though they had HIV they were still seeing men in those cities.. and when caught was put in jail and was searching for the men that she had seen in las vegas they had the last time I read 211 providers all with HIV on file.... let out of jail and went right back to work.. so there is a real reason not to do BBFS..
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With PSE I expect more enthusiasm like DT, sloppy FF, dirty talk, ass play (unless stated none) and of coarse CIM.
Well, it seems I have some fans in MS and must make a trip!! Originally Posted by GigiGabore

You have fans in the wastelands of south dakota to.
Just a few miles north lol