getting reference

How does newbie get a reference if all I can find are providers who require references? Are there any newbie friendly providers in or near DSM? I do admit I would prefer a local provider. Nothing against those who travel, but my schedule is screwy so a dependable local would probably be best.

try MichelleInIowa...she is a great one to start with...not sure how newbie friendly she is

I also take verifiable work references in leui of provider references

good luck and have fun babe

There are other ways of screening. Ask the provider you wish to see what other screening options are available. You could also look into Preferred411.com.

Have a good one....
peace n love.....J

Go out to BP, get some of the cheaper, younger, overweight, wanna be sluts.
Fuc& their brains out and do some positive reviews. Then share your ECCIE handle with the top tier providers and in most cases they will give you a chance. But don't forget to do your reviews on these great providers that are part of ECCIE.

But keep in mind when you arrive in the room of a BP girl and they don't look like the photos or if they are all hopped up on meth. For God's sake WALK OUT THE DOOR. You don't owe them anything if they misrepresented themselves.

Go out to BP, get some of the cheaper, younger, overweight, wanna be sluts.
Fuc& their brains out and do some positive reviews. Then share your ECCIE handle with the top tier providers and in most cases they will give you a chance. But don't forget to do your reviews on these great providers that are part of ECCIE.

But keep in mind when you arrive in the room of a BP girl and they don't look like the photos or if they are all hopped up on meth. For God's sake WALK OUT THE DOOR. You don't owe them anything if they misrepresented themselves. Originally Posted by indexec

That's bad advice as most of the girls who use ECCIE OR P411 won't take that as references. Plus you run the high risk of bait and switch, getting rob, or being arrested. The best advice is get P411 verified and find a newbie friendly or provider. Some providers will give you a chance if you are willing to submit to their screenings. If you are looking to find a quick and easy lay then by all means go with BP. I'm not willing to take the risk myself. Too many great providers right here and on P411. Just my 2 cents worth of advice.

In MOST areas I will NOT take BP references if they are not also on other reputable sites.

Now I am semi-newbie friendly...If you are willing to give up some pertinent info regarding work,I may can work with that!

Be careful...it can be frustrating,but if you do things "the right/safe" way,it will be great in the end!!

I just said fuck it and gave all my personal info to a great girl. A few years later I consider this awesome sex goddess my friend.

Wait till the state fair comes .

There is a sign up booth by the 4 H building .

How does newbie get a reference if all I can find are providers who require references? Are there any newbie friendly providers in or near DSM? I do admit I would prefer a local provider. Nothing against those who travel, but my schedule is screwy so a dependable local would probably be best. Originally Posted by kcfaculty

There is so much written already about this topic on this site use the search feature .Over 101 pages came up

Go out to BP, get some of the cheaper, younger, overweight, wanna be sluts.
Fuc& their brains out and do some positive reviews. Then share your ECCIE handle with the top tier providers and in most cases they will give you a chance. But don't forget to do your reviews on these great providers that are part of ECCIE.

But keep in mind when you arrive in the room of a BP girl and they don't look like the photos or if they are all hopped up on meth. For God's sake WALK OUT THE DOOR. You don't owe them anything if they misrepresented themselves. Originally Posted by indexec

That is horrible advice. Why would you set up a newbie for failure like that. . Verified girls don't accept bp references anyway...

I just said fuck it and gave all my personal info to a great girl. A few years later I consider this awesome sex goddess my friend. Originally Posted by Room Service

Awwww roomservice you are too awesome baby.. can't wait to see you again. Let's make this happen!!!

But hes right some girls accept employment verification... or you could check out p411 there verification process is discreet and probably one of the safest sites to be on .
Good luck and happy hobbying!!!

idc about references, let p411 expire.....some of my bests were off of BP.

Date check / 411 is the only way to break in. Sure there are finds on bp but not for a newbie. Let a verified provider break you in. Employment references are not bad-someone who does this well for a living uses discretion. The best women are there anyway-you know what you're getting. There are "finds" on bp but like I said, leave that to experienced treasure hunters. Bp girls don't care about refs anyway but serious providers will. Safety first for all-once you get a provider ref you're golden. Date check for a month and then I think if your first gal is on 411 and sponsors you P411 is dirt cheap for a year-

There is no other way...date check one month, 411 for a year, then treasure hunt if you want-

I went the verification route with a well known provider on here and she sent several messages back. "This is where you work" "This is where you live" showing me just how much info she dug up on me. Felt like I was being stalked.

If ya wanna have fun and be safe ya gotta do what ya gotta do babe...

I do use work references...but I am VERY discrete! the reputable gals here will be worth the hassles!!

Which is why I sent her my info...... A "Yes, I verified you" would have been better than sending my home and work address