Seeking Advice for a newbie.

Hello Beautiful Ladies, and the gentlemen members who enjoy their company. I know I’m not be the only one who is in this situation. Sooo I thought it would be best for me to ask all in the forum for advice. I am a new hobbiest, and I have a fairly high profile position, so it creeps me out to give personal info for verification. I have only met with one well reviewed provider Selena 51... who is absolutely amazing at everything with the best smile and conversation you could imagine ( several times over the last year). Most of the highly review beautiful women on here require at least two references before booking an appointment. What do you all recommend in this situation? I completely understand and respect the woman’s need to be safe, at the same time I want to remain as low key as Posible, and for the love of god there are some beautiful women on here that I want to spend time with. I’m talking women so beautiful they make a man think getting caught may be worth the risk! Thanks for your comments in advance.

JREWING11

I recommend you leave this hobby and start another. Why? Because you are a danger to yourself. Why is that? You are either too lazy, or too dumb, to do a Search and figure this easy stuff out for yourself. What are you going to do when it comes to the difficult issues?

Well aren’t you just a ray of fucking sunshine Pyramider. Thanks for the unhelpful assholeish comment nun the less.

A couple of assumptions:

1) you can afford to purchase premium access

2) you have the smarts and the patience to undertake your own research

3) you can click this LINK and ask in your home area forums.

Best of luck and happy hobbying!

CK1942 thank you I’ll start there.

You do not have the smarts. Its okay to own up to it.

Either you follow our screening methods or you do not get seen. Period. In regards to your post though I'd suggest P411.

Most of the advise you've gotten from the guys can be ignored JR! Like you, I had a job that required me to keep a low profile. A few suggestions. First, read all you can, expecially those dealing with the legal issure and safety. One thing you will hear again and again is DO NOT GIVE PERSONAL INFORMATION TO ANYBODY! Second, you've had one encounter (she can be a reference) and look around for a newbie friendly lady you like and now you have your two. Third, don't be shy and interact. The more you interact on the site, the more the ladies can see what you're like. Forth, do most of your communicating with the ladies through PM's. The safest and most pretected method. Just make sure you log out when you're done. Finally, there will be some ladies who will not see you unless you give them the info they want. Just use your big head and move on. There are a lot of ladies who will respect your decisions. Be courteous and polite and you'll do just fine. Good luck and remember, only you are in control of your own safety!

...I have a fairly high profile position... Originally Posted by JREWING11

The hobby has inherent risks. Please ask yourself this question. Please do NOT publicly answer it in here - just ask it of yourself:

"If I get outed for seeing providers, is my position high-profile enough to make the evening news, or does it just get me fired?"

The reason I bring this up is, although there are plenty of providers who will keep your info discrete, there are also plenty of BSC (that's Bat Shit Crazy since you're a newbie) providers who, if they felt they could get 15 minutes of fame on the evening news would be tempted to be much less discrete.

If I was in a position with a profile that high, I'd stay the hell away from the hobby. If its just a 'lose the job if found out' issue, you are in a less risky position.

Just my $0.02.

Good advice Hermosa.
Jrewing11, ask Selena51 if she knows other providers that will accept just her as a reference. When I first started I had a meet and greet with a well known provider. Got thumbs up from her and had a awesome time. Only used her name as a reference with providers requesting two. I always got a ok.
My advice is don't be to greedy. Find a few providers you like and become a regular. Stay safe!!

Join P411

https://www.preferred411.com/

join p411.. but remember that ladies also require additional info.
There's always going to be the back and fort about screening... but from y experience.. the best clients (and ladies) are the ones that take the proper steps to set up a meeting.
SAFE!