Question about your first time as a provider

I would like to know about your first time providing in the hobby?

How did it come about?
Do you look back on the experience as something special?
in general what was it like (situation)?
Where you nervous or was it something like you expected?

I had a conversation like this today and just wanted to get another point of view.

Looking forward to the stories about there first time!

I was nervous as hell with a million questions running through my head. On the other hand it has led me into a life that I love!

I didn't know my first time was my first time. I hired onto a massage studio 8 years ago and I was so freaking green I had no idea to question the fact this particular studio was on top of a car repair replace and had a big OPEN sign leading you upstairs.

I was hired because I was licensed. They didn't tell me where I just hired on to. I interviewed in scrubs with my license and insurance. They just sorta shrugged at each other and said later "she'll figure it out."

The first client, I did the full shabang theraputic massage and then turned to walk out and he FREAKED out and almost jumped off the table and said in a panicked voice,"Aren't you going to finish me off?" Ommm sure..... sorry.... of course, what was I thinking... My bad. I finished him off and he left. I walked out of the room and everyone else stopped cold and looked at me. someone asked me how I was. I was still sorta in shock because we are hammered in school with DO NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL OR YOU WILL LOSE YOUR LICENSE. I said, "I'm fine." And that was the birth of something in which I'd be wildly successful.

And you're so good at it Kayla!

Hilarious!!!!
I wonder if that lucky SOB remembers you.

1. It was a gradual transition for me. I was seeing a guy after the 'big breakup'. It was very casual and I wasn't looking for anything serious. We would spend the day together whenever we had the time, and end it with a hot romp and I'd be on my way. I would be halfway home and found that he'd stuck money in my purse. He would say it was because he enjoyed me. It made sense. Why throw myself into dating again (something I wasn't ready to do) when I could get my jollies and get paid? But wait-wouldn't that make me a- who cares? I met this girl who told me I should start on Backpage. Six years later, here I am.

My first client was an older passionate man. I would have never believed he was as old as he was. We both were surprisingly at ease. He came into my incall and we talked like good friends (he also became one of my best friends). I leaned in to kiss him and it was on from there. I think having such a positive 'first time' played a key role in me enjoying myself in this industry. He set the precedence for the type of client I wanted: respectful, open-minded and fun.

I think the whole thing was very special. I've never had a bad time with anyone, knock on wood. I've never seen anyone I regretted seeing, unlike civvie dating. I didn't feel the need to go back to my ex (as if passive aggressive vindictiveness and beta-male weakness was something that I wanted to go back to.) and I didn't have to date any losers after him. I call it a win-win.

I was one of Whispers' girls from the Strip Club. I was just a stripper, but he introduced me to the world of P4P out the club. WOW! It was awesome.

But at the socials, I kept hearing guys mention "ECCIE" in hushed tones. I googled it, and LO and BEHOLD I found this site. Now I don't have to be in his circle jerk anymore. I was able to find my own way: I can see guys I want to see, when I want to see them, on the conditions THAT I SET. I'm so happy to be where I am now.

I was one of Whispers' girls from the Strip Club. I was just a stripper, but he introduced me to the world of P4P out the club. WOW! It was awesome. Originally Posted by ChampagneSuperNova

You made me blush here darlin..... It was a pretty good 3 minutes for me too!

But at the socials, I kept hearing guys mention "ECCIE" in hushed tones. I googled it, and LO and BEHOLD I found this site. Now I don't have to be in his circle jerk anymore. I was able to find my own way: I can see guys I want to see, when I want to see them, on the conditions THAT I SET. I'm so happy to be where I am now. Originally Posted by ChampagneSuperNova

Aren't they so cute when they grow up?

I am a single mother of two cute little kids and just went through a horrible relationship with their father. Right when i was down and out I was talking to my friend (Gabrielasweetheart) and she told me all about my options. She gave me plenty of information so on my first experience, of course I was nervous, but I was confident in myself and just focused on making my first guy satisfied. I'm not going to lie it was really awkward the first time meeting an absolute stranger but we had a drink and started talking, and it totally helped he was attractive.

Kayla, TFF!!

Mine was very similar except when I went to interview at this Massage studio, the lady asked me to show her my tits. Okay...but what about the resume I had brought in with me (which she didn't even take 2 seconds to look at)!!!

I knew that is was a "topless massage place" but had no clue of any "services" besides massage. So after the massage I began to leave the room & was chased around the table (literally) by an old man (that spot-on resembled my dead grandfather) with him whispering for me to come kiss him & give him his "finish".

I managed to get out of the room and ask the front desk girl where they kept the gloves. She laughed at me.



Little did I know, but the opening statement proved true on my resume "Fast Learner" and indeed, a fast learner I've been ever since then!

what a funny visual..you being chased around the table by a nude old man!!!
and look how far you have come! now you do the chasing/dominating!!!!!
guess there is hope for us old guys!

Kayla, TFF!!

Mine was very similar except when I went to interview at this Massage studio, the lady asked me to show her my tits. Okay...but what about the resume I had brought in with me (which she didn't even take 2 seconds to look at)!!!

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Little did I know, but the opening statement proved true on my resume "Fast Learner" and indeed, a fast learner I've been ever since then! Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

what a funny visual..you being chased around the table by a nude old man!!!
and look how far you have come! now you do the chasing/dominating!!!!!
guess there is hope for us old guys! Originally Posted by daveindallas

dave, i laughed at that one as well!!!

italiana, so, did the hiring manager look at your tits longer than two seconds?
did she salivate over them?? how did you feel about being asked that??

wrt to your last paragraph, well, i'm glad you are a "fast learner" and not a "fast lover"!!
unless of course the guy just doesnt have much time available...