What would you do?

What if, for some reason, you had to use your wife's private laptop. While browsing you stumble upon an unknown email account where you discover that you wife was corresponding with a male escort. She probably wouldn't hobby as often as you do maybe 2 or 3 times a year when the you and/or the kids or out of time and invest in 3 hours of being worshiped by a Stallion.

What would you do?

Pretend you say nothing and let her have her little secret since you have some as well.

Let her know you are aware of her pending rendezvous and try to arrange some 'open' agreement, where you both can see the provider you choose without hiding it from each other.

Go crazy as if you assume she know nothing about your hobbying and accuser her of being adulterous and threaten to break up the marriage?

If you would do something else go head and post I was just thinking about the most typical responses.

Collect the evidence and file it away as a "Get out of Jail Free" card.

X2^

Collect the evidence and file it away as a "Get out of Jail Free" card. Originally Posted by Budman

What he said!

I'm in jail so much of the time, one small card isn't going to make any difference. lol

Let her have her fun. I'm having mine.

Depends on if I wanted to stay married. If yes, then I would either use the info to get what I want now or later. If no, then use it to get the best divorce settlement possible.

I'm in jail so much of the time, one small card isn't going to make any difference. lol

Let her have her fun. I'm having mine. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Damn Charles...you sure do get arrested a lot bwahahha! Had you pegged for a goodie boy.

It would make me sick to think she's bangin a dude that's bangin a dude. Most male escorts are gay for pay. They gotta pay the bills. I would be out the door. It's something I wouldn't be able to get over. I sure as hell wouldn't act like nothing happened.

It would make me sick to think she's bangin a dude that's bangin a dude. Most male escorts are gay for pay. They gotta pay the bills. I would be out the door. It's something I wouldn't be able to get over. I sure as hell wouldn't act like nothing happened. Originally Posted by simpleton

Dude are you from the 19th century. If your fucking around and you catch her doing an escort and the only way you can wrap your head around it is to say they are all gay. lol I just can't say anymore. I'm too busy laughing

Dude are you from the 19th century. If your fucking around and you catch her doing an escort and the only way you can wrap your head around it is to say they are all gay. lol I just can't say anymore. I'm too busy laughing Originally Posted by burkalini

Whoa...
Dude I didn't say they were all gay. Most male escorts are gay or gay for pay. Which is basically the samething.
I never said my reason made any sense to the masses. The fact is if I found out my spouse was cheating with anybody I would be gone. Somethings I would be better off not knowing.

It would make me sick to think she's bangin a dude that's bangin a dude. Most male escorts are gay for pay. They gotta pay the bills. I would be out the door. It's something I wouldn't be able to get over. I sure as hell wouldn't act like nothing happened. Originally Posted by simpleton

So the fact that the escort has possibly slept with me is the only thing you would be upset about?

I thinck it depends on who is funding the excursion.

So the fact that the escort has possibly slept with me is the only thing you would be upset about? Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

Are you a dude?

No it wouldn't be the only thing I would be upset about. But good job twisting that into my post.
I can't help you don't like my answer but you asked and I answered.

If you would do something else go head and post I was just thinking about the most typical responses. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

I guess you didn't like my typical response? Why ask the question if your going to be offended by the answers?

Going with the original post but with a twist. What if you as a hobbyist find out your wife or SO is having an affair? I think the 3 options are still valid choices. Remember, you are a hobbyist, so you are cheating as well. I firmly believe information is power. How one reacts to information is the key. Going ballistic is never the right approach. It may feel good but doing something rash tends to have repercussions. Keep the powder dry for when you really need it.