I am curious on both the hobbyist and provider opinions on this. I recently sent a request to someone I have wanted to see. I asked what "area" of town she was in. The reasoning for this is I have no reasons to be in certain areas of town. If I was to get into a car accident or even get a speeding ticket, I would have no reason to give my wife why I was in that area.
However, the person told me they couldn't give me that information because of their safety??? I wasn't asking for a street address, a hotel or anything specific. Telling me they are on the east side/south side or Clive or Urbandale is not the same thing as telling me their actual location. But, they would not give me the area at all, citing safety so obviously we will not be meeting.
Am I off base asking that question?