Swinging and adult clubs

So saw this story on
KCTV 5 tonite and got me thinking.
Is it worth it as a single man to attend?

Who has attended and what's been your experience?

Id think i wouldnt mind attending but would it be better or would my chances be better if I added a provider since no SO to the experience?

Any thoughts...I didnt think this thread out very well...so deal with it! Lol

Hey BD, some clubs will not allow single men.

But there's one in the KC metro that will, and it has a fairly steady weekly attendance.

I'd say go and check it out, if for no other reason than to be a voyeur! That's always hot!

If you need a female friend to get you in the door, I'd do that with you. But then I'd probably wander about, sometimes with, and sometimes without you. I like being a "unicorn" at the clubs. I'm not a good one to stay at your side so if you could hang alone sometimes, we'd be fine!

I'm fun and know how to have a GOOD time. Let me know if you want to go sometime.

Where's the olive branch smilie when you need one?

We have dabbled and on rare occasion an additional male is fun for the mrs. but they do limit the number and if can show you take good care of yourself, respectful, understand your with another guys woman so loose any ego than you can have a good time. Its all about attraction so if you go in ripped looking good than you will have fun

The article on KCTV 5 wasn't horrible, and didn't give swingers a bad rep. Usually those articles do. I am sure The Spott will have some added attendance.

I've planned on attending their weekend party the the week I caught the flu. I still want to go but there's an invitation setup that needs to be followed and I cant for the life of me find the info. I'm going the first chance I get and I'll probably be dancing on the stripper pole

The Spott doesn’t allow single guys, you have to buy your tickets in advance.
What’s funny if you show up with an escort, most of everyone might know her.
It’s not uncomfortable for anyone, just most of the guys will say hi to your date.

Last year some of my friends went to the Spot. There was a single guy in the group. He was allowed in but had to pay almost double what a couple had to pay. They wouldn't let him in until he read this long list of rules. It took him a few minutes to read it. They paid at the door too. They were told advance tickets were encouraged.

Spot allow single guys. Went many time. There is no limit only one limit $$$$.

BD, a lady I saw on eccie introduced me to a site. C4P.com has any 9one tried it? She wanted us to invite others to our bcd activities. But I do know it shows local events as well.

I've heard bad stories from multiple couples (with very attractive female) who went to The Spott. One was my ex-gf, and I believe her account. Apparently, the mgmt and bouncers will on occasion separate the newbies at the door, and will keep the guy there filling out and reading paperwork. Meanwhile, the lady will get a tour of the place and will wind up in a back room with several guys, with the door locked and guarded. She is given drinks, and offered or secretly given other things we don't discuss here, and then the guys will try to run a train on her or gangbang her. My ex was able to escape from the back room, but said she had to physically fight them off and make a big scene, and felt lucky to have escaped without being gangraped.

So YMMV.

I wish they would allow single men! Then i for sure wanna go!

I assume single ladies are ok? Still i am terrified

I assume single ladies are ok? Still i am terrified Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

I'm totally with you. I would love doing something like this, but terrified to actually try.

I wish they would allow single men! Then i for sure wanna go! Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Hi SS, they do allow single men and boy, are they young and frisky!

I have gone both as a single woman, and with a male, to The Spott. I have never had a negative experience.

I found it to be fairly busy and I have had a good time when I've gone. I had more fun as a single lady than being coupled up because then I could do what I want--watch, be watched, dive right in if invited. I didn't have to worry about anyone else's pleasure but mine.

We should go as single ladies when I get home in March! Shenanigans await! I'll hold your hand so you're not terrified! It's a total blast!