Ghosted! ISO newbie incall near OP.

Hey all, trying to get into the hobby and it's proving difficult. Had a provider with excellent reviews lined up, time slot and everything, but appt came and went. I sent multiple txts and followed up with an email. No responses. Still don't know what happened


I'm giving benefit of the doubt (won't be disclosing who she is) because I know things happen. The screening seemed light so maybe she spooked. That's too bad because I'm open to additional screening. I'm just hoping she is safe!

I have a couple slow responding providers that i'm looking into. Not in any hurry. Looking for a referral friendly provider near OP so I can make a mid-day lunch visit or even morning.


PM me?

Also... RANT: I wish P411 accepted new applications! Life would be better. /RANT

try Katiforyou--she is in OP tomorrow I believe

Here's one you should check out.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2524945

Here's one you should check out.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2524945 Originally Posted by mojoworkin

Kati4you is an excellent choice.... Those eyes will get you (and keep you) every time!

Was going to suggest Suzanna, as well, since she is in OP area... but her ad in the link above says that her weekend is already occupied.

Perhaps Danielle Reid is your cup of tea? She's an enjoyable lil thing.... https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2525486

It was me who ghosted him. Not because I wanted to but because I had a real world job obligation.

Sorry again!

Good for you Kati. You have a life outside of the hobby. All guys should know that and have a little patience. All guys should expect to take some time for a woman to decide if she wants to see him, and all guys should be more selective because it is the safe thing to do.

Slow down and check someone out before seeing them. By having a little contact first, one can eliminate the crazy people.

Good for you Kati. You have a life outside of the hobby. All guys should know that and have a little patience. .... Originally Posted by JRLawrence

But a quick text to let him know you can't make it would have been the respectful thing to do. Even with other obligations, how long does it take to be respectful of another person's time.

I did text him.

Here's one you should check out.

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2524945 Originally Posted by mojoworkin

Youre the best sweetie!

But i am here this week and this coming weekend.
Thanks babe!

Kati4you is an excellent choice.... Those eyes will get you (and keep you) every time!

Was going to suggest Suzanna, as well, since she is in OP area... but her ad in the link above says that her weekend is already occupied.

Perhaps Danielle Reid is your cup of tea? She's an enjoyable lil thing.... https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2525486 Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

It was me who ghosted him. Not because I wanted to but because I had a real world job obligation.

Sorry again! Originally Posted by KatiforYou

Totally understandable! I'm just glad to hear you are okay... being a newbie it was too easy for me to jump to wrong conclusions.

I did text him. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

You must have texted someone else. I didn't receive anything.



No harm, no foul. We'll have to schedule again in the future sometime.

I did, I use GV and every now and then things don’t go through. I did it the night before so there wouldn’t be confusion in the morning.

Things didn’t work out but maybe next time.

I did, I use GV and every now and then things don’t go through. I did it the night before so there wouldn’t be confusion in the morning.

Things didn’t work out but maybe next time. Originally Posted by KatiforYou

NP babe! I understand entirely. We'll make it happen in the near future