New to the site

Hey, new to this site, new to hobby, want to start our on a good foot. I read your caution thread and it gave me things to think about that I did not even consider...yikes! So, saftey and descetion is what I seek, and fun of course. So, how do I put in an email to intro myself to NJ? I was told that verified providers won't see me w/out recommendations, so it was recommneded I send an email and perhaps some providers will see it and see me? Any thoughts or suggestions? And how do I send emails, etc.

Thanks for the heads up (LOL).