Sex, Lies and Infidelity

Full disclosure: I am single with no attachments. Originally Posted by discreetgent
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Uncle Sam, please answer the question: how would you feel if your S/O was seeing an escort? Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy
Oh my! My flippancy has gotten my bottom warmed.

I'd be somewhat pissed, then amused, then we'd talk. I suspect most guys, but I can't speak for them, would just be pissed. Their egos would be crushed and the marriage would end. And that's the truth and I'm sticking to it.
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  • WTF
  • 03-18-2010, 07:20 AM
NM,

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If the answer is No then this...



is going to be the type of answer you get. Neither really accomplish much. Originally Posted by Rudyard K

Sir, I stand by my analytical answer. I surveyed 69 couples where the wife had cheated. The surviving three ladies all agreed that cheating with a man with a smaller tool probably saved their lives!
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Sir, I stand by my analytical answer. I surveyed 69 couples where the wife had cheated. The surviving three ladies all agreed that cheating with a man with a smaller tool probably saved their lives! Originally Posted by WTF
I was reading a magazine with said topic, that's one reason why I posted the question.

Majority of my friends are male; some are married, some common law, others with girlfriends and a few are single.

Both the married and common law guys said that if their s/o had cheated and they found out, (knowing that they themselves have cheated) they couldn't be mad because alot of times when they weren't getting sex at home, they got it elsewhere.

Also, I have a wonderful girlfriend who's married, and her husband knows that she sleeps with other men. She tells him about her escapades and it doesn't seem to emasculate him.

I know that not everyone will be open and accepting of such.
Full disclosure: I am single with no attachments. Originally Posted by discreetgent
Did the surgery hurt?
Did the surgery hurt? Originally Posted by pjorourke

did you hear 'bout the guy who had his whole left side amputated?

yeah..well he's all right now.
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Did the surgery hurt? Originally Posted by pjorourke
Man 1: Yeah it took nearly a year, but I lost 120 pounds

Man 2: Wow, that's still pretty impressive, what's your secret

Man 1: Well, that's how long it took for my divorce to get finalized
For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts? Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy
i am wondering about the nature of a man's temptation to yield to his baser self versus a woman's.
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For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other -

How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts? Originally Posted by Nicolette Morgandy
So, is she seeing a female escort or a male escort??? If a female, there's not much I can do to compete with that.

If a male, my tool is probably too small to compete.

Honestly, I think we are all in different situations. Mine: my SO is a wonderful person, and I love her a lot. We just haven't had sex in years, and don't have too much of an intimate relationship.

So I know that although she is not meeting my needs, I am not meeting hers, either. Since I hobby, I intellectually know that she probably has sexual needs I'm not fulfilling. Whether or not I could translate that intellectual knowledge into acceptance of her escorting is a good question. I would hope that I could. But probably wouldn't know for sure until it stares me in the face.
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Man 1: Yeah it took nearly a year, but I lost 120 pounds

Man 2: Wow, that's still pretty impressive, what's your secret

Man 1: Well, that's how long it took for my divorce to get finalized Originally Posted by atlcomedy


Yep this sounds about like my divorce down to all of the details.
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  • oden
  • 03-18-2010, 09:39 PM
It would help explain where all of the money was going!
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If you eliminated the married or SO'd men, you'd be out of biz. Originally Posted by John Bull
Actually, you will have me... single, never married, no SO... u get the picture... hahahahaha