Sugar babies can be far better at times!!

As a SD most of the year and hobbyist when I'm bored tonight was one of those nights where it solidified my love for the SB/SD world.

As rates in the hobbyist land seem to have risen to $200 1/2hr and $300hr+ then you need a hotel assuming you don't do incall, which I will never do. That's a set up waiting to happen imo.

The SB world can be so refreshing if you are will to do the work and are in decent shape. Say under 50 and pretty lean because looks do matter unlike the hobbyist world. It's amazing what a good story, having defined boundaries, and a little cash can do. Granted it's work I probably had to talk to 20 girls to find one willing to tango on the first date, but the appeal is heavenly. You don't feel like a number or 1 of 20 during a week and it lasts so much longer not too mention there is actual communication if you want it.

Tonight I met a girl I've talked to off and on for 45 days or so. We met in Metairie we watched a movie, had some drinks, we did everything under the sun except anal spent 6 hours together 8pm until 2am I'm dead my dick is dead lol.

For the whopping gift of $400 plus the hotel which I would get anyway. She was 22 tight as hell, wet, great kisser, just awesome it was just so much fun!!

Now the problem is it's 3am and I have to be at work for 7 ugggggggggh lol Best of luck just sharing the good news life is quite good!!

Don't see how outcall is any better, chick shows up and says you don't have the agreed upon donation then steps in to the bathroom to "freshen up" and a few minutes later runs to the door to let her handler "sort you out".

Both hobbying and SD/SB have their pros and cons.

It all depends on the lady.

SD/SB arrangements strike me as having a golf membership to a fancy club. YES, you like playing THAT course better than others, but after awhile, you'll want to play on other courses. If it works for you, more power to you!

I would agree the SD/SB situation is probably better. BUT:

The OP said it himself: The SD/SB thing is for attractive guys under 50.

No matter how much money you have, if you are over 50, fat, or ugly, don't waste your time. Just shut up and pay the escort, and take what she is willing to give you.

I would agree the SD/SB situation is probably better. BUT:

The OP said it himself: The SD/SB thing is for attractive guys under 50.

No matter how much money you have, if you are over 50, fat, or ugly, don't waste your time. Just shut up and pay the escort, and take what she is willing to give you. Originally Posted by PFCffff

I'll politely disagree. I know some old, fat rich guys who are respectful and generous. They always have young hot chicks falling all over them. But, obviously the money is the key.

I'll politely disagree. I know some old, fat rich guys who are respectful and generous. They always have young hot chicks falling all over them. But, obviously the money is the key. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Sure it's the key, look at how old Hugh Hefner is and the hot ass girls that old coot still pulls in, lol!!

Plus for some of us, what we seek is the ABSENCE of the entanglements of a girlfriend. I'm married. I don't seek to NOT be married. The only thing missing is the sex. I don't want a girl friend. I don't want to hit the bars and try to generate a "relationship". I want to see an attractive woman I selected, have some fun sex and then leave and not worry about it until the next time I call her. SO hobbying works out MUCH better for me than an SD/SB relationship.

Plus for some of us, what we seek is the ABSENCE of the entanglements of a girlfriend. I'm married. I don't seek to NOT be married. The only thing missing is the sex. I don't want a girl friend. I don't want to hit the bars and try to generate a "relationship". I want to see an attractive woman I selected, have some fun sex and then leave and not worry about it until the next time I call her. SO hobbying works out MUCH better for me than an SD/SB relationship. Originally Posted by RedLeg505

This pretty much sums it up for me as well!!

Wait a minute....you bought her dinner, took her to a movie and had sex with her? But had to give her $400? For one night? Correct me if I am wrong, but that just makes her an inexpensive escort, doesn't it? I could see if you had a long term relationship but closing a one event sale after a 45 day sales pitch doesn't really sound like a SD/SB set up .
Update this post in 2 or 3months and let us know what the financial terms per meeting are then.

Wait a minute....you bought her dinner, took her to a movie and had sex with her? But had to give her $400? For one night? Correct me if I am wrong, but that just makes her an inexpensive escort, doesn't it? I could see if you had a long term relationship but closing a one event sale after a 45 day sales pitch doesn't really sound like a SD/SB set up .
Update this post in 2 or 3months and let us know what the financial terms per meeting are then. Originally Posted by retone

I agree more like a meeting with a inexperienced escort. or some broke chick that needed some money,

Sure it's the key, look at how old Hugh Hefner is and the hot ass girls that old coot still pulls in, lol!! Originally Posted by Riverstud

Escorts look up to Julia Robert's role in 'Pretty Woman', Sugar babies idolize (Howard J Marshall's) Anna Nicole Smith...suck an old dick for a benz vs suck a dick for $400 - slightly distanced spectrums.

Escorts look up to Julia Robert's role in 'Pretty Woman', Sugar babies idolize (Howard J Marshall's) Anna Nicole Smith...suck an old dick for a benz vs suck a dick for $400 - slightly distanced spectrums. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

That pretty much sums it up Eva and makes perfect sense to me!!

Speaking from the older, feminine side of this equation (and hearing the same from young men as well as mature men), there are mature women who can run circles around the young ladies in the bedroom. And they have sense enough (most do), to NOT interfere with a man's personal life, ie: random calls in the middle of a meeting, or worse yet, dinner with your family or on family holidays.
Having a daughter who is around the same age as some SB's, the young ones have entitlement issues! I know, BOY do I know!
Just my POV.

I did the SD thing twice before I started the hobby and must say I enjoy the hobby a lot more. The things I enjoy he most are 1. I find it less expensive in the long run than maintaining an SB relationship, 2. The emotional side is non existent in the hobby while in. The SD/SB roles emotions are bound to surface. And 3. The knowledge that that someone would find out about my secret life is very minimal in the hobby. Again just my thoughts.