Got stood up

So I was looking on here thru providers coming thru Lake Charles. Set up an initial contact and appt days ahead of time. Given I am a newbie. But I made that very clear during my first contact with vanillarose. Stated that I would like to see her Thursday night outcall to my hotel between 9 and 11. She said that sounded fine and she would see a newbie. She asked for a number and i complied. I wrote before 9pm and stated closer to 11pm would be better. Didnt hear anything close to 11pm i wrote her and she wrote me back after 11 saying sorry got tied up in the casino. Wrote her again asking if she was still coming? Just running late? Etc. To which I got no response again from her. 2 hours later I wrote I am going to sleep. No response. So just wanted to throw this out. Hope she is ok. Also I know things come up but I would have seen another provider if I would have known she had no i tentions on keeping our appt. She could have wrote to tell me it was a no go, because if I have a schedule conflict I have always told the provider as soon as I can, its only good business. Anyways laying this out here to the group. Just looking for some clarity. No hard feelings.
If you made the appointment days ahead of time and she didn't confirm it with you the day of the appointment, it's probably not a appointment, you probably should be specific on a time, not between 9 or 11, either 9 or 11
She confiemed that day that it sounded good. It was between 9pm and 11pm. Outcall so a range more for her than me.
Join p411 and get some OK's, you'll have better success
Sounds like a possible miscommunication.
A simple reply takes about 10 seconds at most
I often do the same for my outcalls.....give her a window......

.....with the start rushing me and the end the time i go to plan B.

What happens is you try to be nice and the pressure is off her then she fucks around and doesn't show or wants to come late.

Not uncommon ..... no matter how many okays one has.